Bedeutung
Apologizing for an accident.
Kultureller Hintergrund
Danes value 'direct but polite' communication. Saying 'det var ikke meningen' is often enough to settle a dispute without further drama. In Greenlandic Danish, the phrase is used similarly, but social harmony is even more critical in small communities. In Danish offices, admitting a mistake with this phrase is seen as a sign of honesty and maturity, not weakness. Younger Danes might shorten it or use 'My bad' (English) in very casual settings, but 'det var ikke meningen' remains the respectful standard.
Add 'Hov'
Starting with 'Hov' (Whoops) makes the apology sound more natural and immediate.
Don't over-explain
Danes prefer a short 'det var ikke meningen' over a long list of excuses.
Bedeutung
Apologizing for an accident.
Add 'Hov'
Starting with 'Hov' (Whoops) makes the apology sound more natural and immediate.
Don't over-explain
Danes prefer a short 'det var ikke meningen' over a long list of excuses.
Body Language
A small shrug or a concerned look helps convey sincerity better than the words alone.
The 'Hygge' Saver
Use this phrase to quickly move past awkward moments and get back to the 'hygge'.
Teste dich selbst
Fill in the missing word to complete the apology.
Undskyld, det ___ ikke meningen.
We use the past tense 'var' because the accident has already happened.
Which sentence is the most natural way to say 'I didn't mean to hurt you'?
Choose the best option:
The pattern is 'Det var ikke meningen' + 'at' + infinitive verb.
Match the phrase to the correct situation.
Situation: You accidentally deleted a file at work.
'Slette filen' means 'delete the file'.
Complete the dialogue.
A: Du trådte mig over tæerne! B: Hov, undskyld! ________.
B is apologizing for stepping on A's toes.
🎉 Ergebnis: /4
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Aufgabensammlung
4 AufgabenUndskyld, det ___ ikke meningen.
We use the past tense 'var' because the accident has already happened.
Choose the best option:
The pattern is 'Det var ikke meningen' + 'at' + infinitive verb.
Situation: You accidentally deleted a file at work.
'Slette filen' means 'delete the file'.
A: Du trådte mig over tæerne! B: Hov, undskyld! ________.
B is apologizing for stepping on A's toes.
🎉 Ergebnis: /4
Häufig gestellte Fragen
12 FragenYes, in very casual speech or texting, you can drop 'det var'.
It is neutral. You can use it with your boss or your best friend.
'Undskyld' is 'Sorry'. 'Det var ikke meningen' is 'I didn't mean to'. You usually use both together.
Yes, 'Det var ikke meningen at komme for sent' is very common.
You can say 'Det var ikke meningen at gøre *det*'.
In this specific phrase, yes. You never say 'en mening'.
Well, the phrase works, but that's a moral question, not a linguistic one!
Yes, 'Det var en stavefejl, det var ikke meningen'.
No, unlike 'Det var ikke med vilje', which can sound a bit like a child, this is adult and polite.
You can say 'Det er okay' or 'Det gør ikke noget'.
Rarely. You would usually say 'Det er ikke meningen at...' for future plans.
Yes, many Danish pop songs use it to describe relationship mistakes.
Verwandte Redewendungen
det var et uheld
synonymIt was an accident
jeg mente det ikke
similarI didn't mean it
det var ikke med vilje
synonymIt wasn't on purpose
undskyld
builds onSorry / Excuse me
beklager
specialized formI regret / I apologize
