Bedeutung
Doing something without wanting to do it.
Kultureller Hintergrund
In Java, 'berat hati' is often linked to 'pekewuh' or 'sungkan'. It's the feeling of being uncomfortable because you have to do something that might upset the social balance. In West Sumatra, idioms involving 'hati' are central to 'adat' (tradition). 'Berat hati' can be seen in the context of 'merantau' (leaving home to seek fortune), which is a rite of passage done with emotional weight. In cities like Jakarta, 'berat hati' is frequently used in professional emails and social media captions to add a layer of 'sincerity' to transactions or changes. The concept of 'hati' as the liver is so strong that many Indonesians are surprised to learn that Westerners use the 'heart' (jantung) for the same metaphors.
Use it for Politeness
If you have to say no to an elder, starting with 'Dengan berat hati...' makes you sound much more respectful.
Don't overdo it
If you use it for every small thing, you will sound overly dramatic or insincere.
Bedeutung
Doing something without wanting to do it.
Use it for Politeness
If you have to say no to an elder, starting with 'Dengan berat hati...' makes you sound much more respectful.
Don't overdo it
If you use it for every small thing, you will sound overly dramatic or insincere.
Pair with 'Harus'
The phrase works best when paired with 'harus' (must) to emphasize that you have no other choice.
Teste dich selbst
Fill in the blank with the correct phrase.
Saya harus menjual rumah ini ______.
Selling a house is usually a difficult emotional decision, so 'dengan berat hati' fits best.
Which situation best fits the phrase 'berat hati'?
Pilih situasi yang tepat:
Giving away something you love creates the feeling of reluctance/heaviness.
Complete the dialogue.
A: Kenapa kamu menangis? B: Saya harus pindah sekolah ______.
Moving schools is a sad event, making 'berat hati' the logical choice.
Match the phrase to the feeling.
Match 'Berat Hati' with its synonym in this context.
Enggan (reluctant) and Terpaksa (forced) are the closest synonyms.
🎉 Ergebnis: /4
Visuelle Lernhilfen
Berat Hati vs. Terpaksa
Aufgabensammlung
4 AufgabenSaya harus menjual rumah ini ______.
Selling a house is usually a difficult emotional decision, so 'dengan berat hati' fits best.
Pilih situasi yang tepat:
Giving away something you love creates the feeling of reluctance/heaviness.
A: Kenapa kamu menangis? B: Saya harus pindah sekolah ______.
Moving schools is a sad event, making 'berat hati' the logical choice.
Match 'Berat Hati' with its synonym in this context.
Enggan (reluctant) and Terpaksa (forced) are the closest synonyms.
🎉 Ergebnis: /4
Häufig gestellte Fragen
10 FragenNot exactly. 'Sedih' is just sad. 'Berat hati' is a specific type of sadness mixed with reluctance to do something.
Yes, adding 'sangat' (very) or 'sekali' emphasizes that you are extremely reluctant.
It is neutral. It's safe to use with your boss, your parents, or your friends.
In Indonesian culture, the liver (hati) is the seat of emotions, while the heart (jantung) is just a physical pump.
Yes, 'Aku memutuskanmu dengan berat hati' is a very common (and painful) thing to say.
The opposite is 'senang hati' (with a happy heart/gladly).
'Keberatan' is the noun form, usually meaning 'an objection'. 'Berat hati' is the feeling itself.
No, for physical weight, just use 'berat'. 'Hati saya berat' always implies emotion.
Yes, it is equally common in Malaysia and Brunei with the same meaning.
No, it's almost always used for things you'd rather not do.
Verwandte Redewendungen
Makan hati
similarTo suffer emotionally because of someone else's behavior.
Besar hati
contrastTo be proud or encouraged.
Rendah hati
specialized formHumble.
Senang hati
contrastWith pleasure.
Kecil hati
similarTo feel discouraged or offended.
