come by
Obtain or visit briefly
Literalmente: To move toward a specific location near someone.
En 15 segundos
- A casual, short visit to a person or place.
- Less formal than 'visit' and implies a brief stay.
- Perfect for inviting friends over or picking up items.
Significado
To 'come by' means to visit someone's house or office for a short time. It is usually unplanned or very casual, like a quick hello rather than a long dinner party.
Ejemplos clave
3 de 6Inviting a friend for coffee
You should come by this afternoon for a quick coffee.
You should visit this afternoon for a quick coffee.
Picking up a forgotten item
I'll come by your office later to grab my umbrella.
I will stop at your office later to get my umbrella.
Professional follow-up
Please come by my desk when you have a free moment.
Please visit my desk when you are free.
Contexto cultural
In the US, 'come by anytime' is often a polite gesture rather than a literal invitation. It's best to text first. The British might use 'pop round' or 'pop by' as a slightly more common alternative to 'come by' in very casual speech. Australians are very casual with 'come by.' It's common to 'swing by' a mate's place for a 'barbie' (BBQ). In modern tech companies, 'come by' is used to reduce hierarchy. A CEO might tell an intern to 'come by' to discuss an idea.
The 'Detour' Rule
Use 'come by' when you want to emphasize that the visit is a small detour from your main path.
Don't use with 'to'
Never say 'come by to my house.' Just say 'come by my house.'
En 15 segundos
- A casual, short visit to a person or place.
- Less formal than 'visit' and implies a brief stay.
- Perfect for inviting friends over or picking up items.
What It Means
Come by is your go-to phrase for casual visits. It implies a short, low-pressure stop. You aren't staying for hours. You are just dropping in to say hi or pick something up. It feels much lighter than saying 'visit.'
How To Use It
Use it when you want someone to visit you without making it a big deal. You can say, 'Why don't you come by later?' It works perfectly with time expressions like 'this afternoon' or 'after work.' You don't need a formal invitation. Just a simple suggestion is enough. It is a very flexible phrase for your daily life.
When To Use It
Use it when you are at home or in your office. It is great for texting a friend who is nearby. Use it at work if a colleague needs to grab a file from your desk. It is the perfect 'open door' phrase. It says, 'I am here if you need me.'
When NOT To Use It
Don't use it for a formal wedding or a pre-planned three-course dinner. If you have a specific appointment time, come by might sound too vague. Avoid it if you want someone to stay for a long time. It sounds a bit strange for a week-long stay at your house. Also, don't use it if you are the one traveling far away.
Cultural Background
In many English-speaking cultures, 'dropping in' is a sign of close friendship. It shows a relaxed, 'mi casa es su casa' attitude. However, always check if the person is actually free first! Even though the phrase is casual, most people appreciate a quick text before you actually show up at their door. It represents the modern, busy lifestyle where we fit in social moments whenever we can.
Common Variations
Drop by: Almost identical tocome bybut feels even more spontaneous.Swing by: This sounds like you are moving fast, maybe in a car.Stop by: Very common and interchangeable withcome byin most situations.Come over: Usually implies a slightly longer visit than just 'by.'
Notas de uso
The phrase is neutral and works in 90% of daily situations. Just remember that it implies a short stay; if you want a long hangout, use 'come over' instead.
The 'Detour' Rule
Use 'come by' when you want to emphasize that the visit is a small detour from your main path.
Don't use with 'to'
Never say 'come by to my house.' Just say 'come by my house.'
Softening Invitations
Add 'if you have a chance' to 'come by' to make your invitation feel zero-pressure.
The 'Anytime' Trap
If an American says 'come by anytime,' they usually mean 'text me first.'
Ejemplos
6You should come by this afternoon for a quick coffee.
You should visit this afternoon for a quick coffee.
Suggests a relaxed, low-pressure meeting.
I'll come by your office later to grab my umbrella.
I will stop at your office later to get my umbrella.
Focuses on the action of stopping at a location.
Please come by my desk when you have a free moment.
Please visit my desk when you are free.
Common in office environments for quick chats.
Hey, come by whenever! I’m just watching TV.
Hey, stop by anytime! I am just watching TV.
Shows high level of comfort and spontaneity.
Come by and see my new cat before she hides under the sofa again!
Visit and see my new cat before she hides again!
Adds a lighthearted reason for the visit.
I can come by with some ice cream if you need a friend.
I can visit with ice cream if you need a friend.
Offers support in a gentle, non-intrusive way.
Ponte a prueba
Fill in the blank with the correct form of 'come by'.
I was in your neighborhood yesterday, so I ______ your house, but you weren't home.
The sentence refers to 'yesterday,' so we need the past tense of 'come,' which is 'came.'
Which sentence uses 'come by' to mean 'to obtain'?
Choose the correct sentence:
In this context, 'came by' means he acquired or obtained his wealth.
Complete the dialogue naturally.
A: 'I'm so busy today, I don't have time for a full meeting.' B: 'No problem! Just ______ when you have a free five minutes.'
'Come by' is the most natural way to suggest a quick, informal check-in.
Match the phrase to the most appropriate situation.
Situation: You want to tell a friend they are welcome at your house anytime without a formal invitation.
'Feel free to come by' is a standard, warm, and casual invitation.
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Ayudas visuales
Visit vs. Come By
Banco de ejercicios
4 ejerciciosI was in your neighborhood yesterday, so I ______ your house, but you weren't home.
The sentence refers to 'yesterday,' so we need the past tense of 'come,' which is 'came.'
Choose the correct sentence:
In this context, 'came by' means he acquired or obtained his wealth.
A: 'I'm so busy today, I don't have time for a full meeting.' B: 'No problem! Just ______ when you have a free five minutes.'
'Come by' is the most natural way to suggest a quick, informal check-in.
Situation: You want to tell a friend they are welcome at your house anytime without a formal invitation.
'Feel free to come by' is a standard, warm, and casual invitation.
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Preguntas frecuentes
10 preguntasMostly, but 'come by' is much more casual and usually implies a shorter duration.
No, that's too casual. Use 'I have an interview at...' or 'I am attending an interview.'
It is 'came by.' Example: 'He came by yesterday.'
No, you should say 'come by my place' or 'come by and see me.'
Yes, though 'pop round' is a very common British alternative.
Use it to mean 'obtain.' Example: 'Rare coins are hard to come by.'
It is always 'by.' 'Buy' is for purchasing things with money.
Yes, it's perfect for internal work emails: 'Feel free to come by my desk.'
Yes, 'come by' implies the speaker is at the destination (e.g., 'Come by [here]'). If you are going to them, you say 'I'll stop by [there].'
They are almost identical, but 'drop by' sounds slightly more accidental or unplanned.
Frases relacionadas
drop by
synonymTo visit unexpectedly or briefly.
swing by
similarTo visit briefly, often while traveling to another destination.
stop by
synonymTo make a short visit.
come across
similarTo find something by chance.
get by
contrastTo manage or survive with limited resources.
pass by
specialized formTo go past something without stopping.
