Meaning
Asking for forgiveness or apologizing.
Cultural Background
Apologies are often accompanied by a soft handshake or a hand placed on the heart to show sincerity. Due to strong Islamic influence, 'Nisamehe' is often followed by 'kwa ajili ya Mungu' (for the sake of God) to emphasize the plea. In fast-paced Nairobi, 'Nisamehe' might be swapped for 'Sori' in casual settings, but 'Nisamehe' remains the respectful choice for elders. In Eastern DRC, 'Nisamehe' is used frequently in music (Rumba/Soukous) to express romantic longing and regret.
The Power of 'Sana'
Add 'sana' (very/much) to make it 'Nisamehe sana' for a much deeper, more sincere apology.
Don't Overuse with Strangers
Using 'Nisamehe' with a stranger for a minor bump can make them feel awkward. Stick to 'Samahani'.
Meaning
Asking for forgiveness or apologizing.
The Power of 'Sana'
Add 'sana' (very/much) to make it 'Nisamehe sana' for a much deeper, more sincere apology.
Don't Overuse with Strangers
Using 'Nisamehe' with a stranger for a minor bump can make them feel awkward. Stick to 'Samahani'.
The Subjunctive Softener
Use 'Naomba unisamehe' (I pray you forgive me) if you are talking to someone of much higher status.
The Response Matters
If someone says 'Nisamehe' to you, the most gracious response is 'Nimekusamehe' (I have forgiven you).
Test Yourself
You accidentally broke your friend's favorite mug. What do you say?
Rafiki yangu, ______ kwa kuvunja kikombe chako.
Breaking something valuable requires a deeper apology than a simple 'Excuse me'.
Fill in the correct object prefix to say 'Forgive us'.
____samehe kwa makosa yetu.
'Tu-' is the prefix for 'us' in Swahili.
Complete the dialogue with the most appropriate response.
A: Nisamehe sana kwa kuchelewa leo. B: ________, karibu ndani.
'Bila samahani' is the standard way to accept an apology, meaning 'No worries'.
Match the phrase to the situation.
1. Samahani 2. Nisamehe 3. Nisameheni
Samahani is for minor/passing things; Nisamehe is personal; Nisameheni is plural.
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Visual Learning Aids
Practice Bank
4 exercisesRafiki yangu, ______ kwa kuvunja kikombe chako.
Breaking something valuable requires a deeper apology than a simple 'Excuse me'.
____samehe kwa makosa yetu.
'Tu-' is the prefix for 'us' in Swahili.
A: Nisamehe sana kwa kuchelewa leo. B: ________, karibu ndani.
'Bila samahani' is the standard way to accept an apology, meaning 'No worries'.
1. Samahani 2. Nisamehe 3. Nisameheni
Samahani is for minor/passing things; Nisamehe is personal; Nisameheni is plural.
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Frequently Asked Questions
10 questionsSamahani is 'Excuse me' (minor). Nisamehe is 'Forgive me' (personal/serious).
Use the prefix 'tu-': 'Tusamehe'.
Yes, but usually in the more formal form: 'Nakuomba unisamehe' or 'Naomba radhi'.
No, use 'Pole' for sympathy.
It is the object prefix for 'me'.
No, but adding 'tafadhali' (please) makes it much softer.
Use 'Wasamehe'.
Young people often say 'Sori' (from English).
Yes, to a group you say 'Nisameheni'.
It is used in religion, but it is also a standard everyday word.
Related Phrases
Samahani
similarExcuse me / Sorry
Niwie radhi
specialized formPardon me / Grant me your favor
Nimekosa
builds onI have erred / I am wrong
Pole
contrastSorry (sympathy)
Msamaha
synonymForgiveness (noun)
