Signification
Asking for the other person's well-being in return.
Contexte culturel
Reciprocity is the heart of Persian social life. If you don't ask 'Shomā chetor?', you might be perceived as 'khod-khāh' (self-centered). In the capital, 'Shomā chetori?' is a very common hybrid. It's friendly but keeps a respectful distance. In Iranian business, the 'Shomā' form is used to maintain 'Selselye-marāteb' (hierarchy). Never switch to 'To' unless invited. In the diaspora, some Iranians have become more informal, but 'Shomā chetor?' remains the default for meeting anyone new in the community.
The Smile Factor
In Iran, 'Shomā chetor?' is usually accompanied by a slight nod and a smile. It's as much a physical gesture as a verbal one.
Don't Over-Ta'arof
While being polite is good, saying 'Shomā chetor?' after every single sentence can become exhausting. Use it mainly for transitions.
Signification
Asking for the other person's well-being in return.
The Smile Factor
In Iran, 'Shomā chetor?' is usually accompanied by a slight nod and a smile. It's as much a physical gesture as a verbal one.
Don't Over-Ta'arof
While being polite is good, saying 'Shomā chetor?' after every single sentence can become exhausting. Use it mainly for transitions.
The 'To' Trap
If someone calls you 'To', it doesn't always mean you can call them 'To' back immediately, especially if they are much older.
Listen for the 'Va'
Native speakers often say 'Va shomā chetor?' (And you?). Adding that 'Va' makes you sound much more fluent.
Teste-toi
Complete the dialogue with the correct polite form.
A: سلام، حال شما چطور است؟ B: خیلی ممنون، خوبم. ________؟
Since Speaker A used 'Shomā' (formal), Speaker B should respond with 'Shomā' to maintain the same level of politeness.
Which phrase is most appropriate for a job interview?
After the interviewer asks how you are, you say:
'Motshakeram' and 'Shomā chetor' are the most formal and professional options.
Match the phrase to the person you are talking to.
1. Your little brother, 2. Your professor, 3. A stranger at the bus stop
Use 'To' for family/younger people and 'Shomā' for authority figures and strangers.
Fill in the missing word.
من قهوه دوست دارم، شما ______؟
'Chetor' is the standard word used in this reciprocal phrase.
🎉 Score : /4
Aides visuelles
Formal vs Informal
Banque d exercices
4 exercicesA: سلام، حال شما چطور است؟ B: خیلی ممنون، خوبم. ________؟
Since Speaker A used 'Shomā' (formal), Speaker B should respond with 'Shomā' to maintain the same level of politeness.
After the interviewer asks how you are, you say:
'Motshakeram' and 'Shomā chetor' are the most formal and professional options.
1. Your little brother, 2. Your professor, 3. A stranger at the bus stop
Use 'To' for family/younger people and 'Shomā' for authority figures and strangers.
من قهوه دوست دارم، شما ______؟
'Chetor' is the standard word used in this reciprocal phrase.
🎉 Score : /4
Questions fréquentes
10 questionsNo, it's actually perfect. It shows you are a 'bā-shakhsiat' (person of character). You can switch to 'To' later as you get closer.
Yes, but it's very brief. 'Shomā chetor?' is more complete and warmer.
Don't worry, but try to catch yourself. You can always add it a few seconds later: 'Rāsti, shomā chetor?' (By the way, how about you?).
Mostly, yes. Whether it's about health, opinions, or choices, it's the universal reciprocal phrase.
It's a tapped 'r', similar to the Spanish 'r' in 'pero'. Don't roll it too much.
'Shomā chetorid?' includes the verb 'are'. It's slightly more formal and less common in casual speech.
Yes, it's a very common way to end a friendly professional email after answering a question.
Usually 'Man ham khobam, mamnun' (I am also fine, thanks).
Only if used with someone you should be formal with. With friends, it's the only way to speak!
It's a colloquialism. It's like saying 'How's you?' in English—not perfectly grammatical but very common.
Expressions liées
حال شما چطور است؟
builds onHow are you? (Full form)
تو چطور؟
similarAnd you? (Informal)
شما چطوری؟
similarHow are you? (Semi-formal)
و شما؟
synonymAnd you?
چه خبر؟
similarWhat's news? / What's up?
قربان شما
specialized formYour sacrifice (I am at your service)
