Meaning
Used to ask someone what is wrong or why they are upset.
Cultural Background
Americans often use this to show immediate concern. It is seen as friendly. In the UK, it can sometimes be used slightly more reservedly, but it remains a standard way to check on someone.
Tone matters
Say it with a soft, concerned tone to show empathy. A harsh tone makes it sound like an accusation.
Meaning
Used to ask someone what is wrong or why they are upset.
Tone matters
Say it with a soft, concerned tone to show empathy. A harsh tone makes it sound like an accusation.
Test Yourself
Select the correct preposition.
What's the matter ____ you?
We always use 'with' when asking about a person.
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Visual Learning Aids
Practice Bank
1 exercisesWhat's the matter ____ you?
We always use 'with' when asking about a person.
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Frequently Asked Questions
1 questionsYes, it works for both people and things.
Related Phrases
What's wrong?
synonymDirectly asking for the problem.
Is everything okay?
similarA softer check-in.
