exaspérer
To irritate intensely; to infuriate.
Exaspérer means to push someone to the limit of their patience.
Word in 30 Seconds
- To make someone extremely annoyed or frustrated.
- Used when patience is completely exhausted.
- Stronger than simple irritation or bother.
Summary
Exaspérer means to push someone to the limit of their patience.
- To make someone extremely annoyed or frustrated.
- Used when patience is completely exhausted.
- Stronger than simple irritation or bother.
Think of reaching the breaking point
Visualize a glass filling up with water until it overflows. That overflow moment is exactly when you use 'exaspérer'.
Don't confuse with simple annoyance
Avoid using this for minor inconveniences like waiting two minutes. Reserve it for situations that truly test your patience.
The French love for dramatic expression
French speakers use this word often to emphasize their feelings. It is a common way to express strong dissatisfaction.
Examples
2 of 2Ses retards constants finissent par m'exaspérer.
His constant lateness ends up exasperating me.
La lenteur du service a exaspéré les clients.
The slowness of the service exasperated the customers.
Word Family
Memory Tip
Think of the English word 'exasperate', which sounds almost identical. It means exactly the same thing!
Aperçu
Le verbe 'exaspérer' exprime un degré d'irritation bien supérieur à la simple contrariété. Il indique une perte de patience totale. C'est un terme fort qui marque l'aboutissement d'un agacement prolongé. 2) Modèles d'utilisation : Il s'utilise principalement avec un complément d'objet direct (exaspérer quelqu'un) ou sous une forme pronominale (s'exaspérer). Il est souvent suivi d'une cause introduite par 'par' ou 'de' (exaspéré par le bruit). 3) Contextes courants : On l'entend souvent dans des situations de vie quotidienne : un enfant qui fait du bruit, un collègue qui ne respecte pas les délais, ou une attente interminable dans les transports. Il traduit un épuisement émotionnel. 4) Comparaison : Contrairement à 'énerver' qui peut être léger, 'exaspérer' suggère une tension nerveuse intense. Là où 'agacer' est une piqûre, 'exaspérer' est une blessure morale ou une saturation complète.
Usage Notes
Exaspérer is used in both formal and informal contexts. It conveys a strong emotional state. It is often used in the passive voice 'être exaspéré' to describe one's own feelings.
Common Mistakes
Learners often use it for minor annoyances where 'agacer' would be more appropriate. Remember that it implies a loss of patience, not just a small dislike.
Memory Tip
Think of the English word 'exasperate', which sounds almost identical. It means exactly the same thing!
Word Origin
Derived from the Latin 'exasperare', meaning to make rough or harsh. It literally implies making someone's temper 'rough'.
Cultural Context
French culture values lively debate, but 'exaspération' is a recognized social boundary. Expressing it shows that a line has been crossed.
Examples
Ses retards constants finissent par m'exaspérer.
everydayHis constant lateness ends up exasperating me.
La lenteur du service a exaspéré les clients.
formalThe slowness of the service exasperated the customers.
Word Family
Common Collocations
Common Phrases
C'est exaspérant !
It is exasperating!
Often Confused With
Agacer is milder, like a mosquito bite. Exaspérer is the result of repeated, unbearable irritation.
Grammar Patterns
Think of reaching the breaking point
Visualize a glass filling up with water until it overflows. That overflow moment is exactly when you use 'exaspérer'.
Don't confuse with simple annoyance
Avoid using this for minor inconveniences like waiting two minutes. Reserve it for situations that truly test your patience.
The French love for dramatic expression
French speakers use this word often to emphasize their feelings. It is a common way to express strong dissatisfaction.
Test Yourself
Complétez la phrase suivante.
Son attitude arrogante finit par m'___.
Le contexte indique une réaction émotionnelle négative face à une attitude.
Score: /1
Frequently Asked Questions
3 questionsÉnerver est plus général et peut être léger. Exaspérer implique un niveau d'agacement beaucoup plus élevé et prolongé.
Oui, tout à fait. C'est la forme passive (participe passé employé comme adjectif) pour exprimer que vous avez atteint votre limite.
Il est utilisé dans tous les registres, du langage courant à la littérature. Il est très expressif dans la conversation quotidienne.
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abattu
A2In low spirits; disheartened; dejected.
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B1Overwhelming or oppressive; crushing, burdensome.
accablé
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accablement
B1Feeling of being overwhelmed by sadness, grief, or fatigue; dejection, overwhelm.
accabler
B1To overwhelm (someone) with a burden or strong emotion.
Accabler de reproches
B1To overwhelm with reproaches; to heavily criticize.
