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A warm, essential Persian phrase used to comfort someone who has experienced a loss or made a mistake.
- Means: 'Let it be a sacrifice for your head' (don't worry about it).
- Used in: Accidents, losing money, or failing an exam.
- Don't confuse: With 'Ghorbanat beram', which is a general term of endearment.
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Bedeutung
A comforting phrase, meaning 'let it be a sacrifice for your head' or 'it's not important'.
Kultureller Hintergrund
The phrase is a core part of 'Ta'arof' culture, where minimizing one's own loss to make a guest or friend feel comfortable is a sign of high social intelligence. In Dari Persian, the phrase is also used with similar warmth, often followed by 'صدقه سرت' (Sadagheh saret), which also means 'charity for your head.' Tajik speakers use 'فدای سرت' but might also use 'هیچ گپ نیست' (Hich gap nest - It's nothing) more frequently in casual speech. Second-generation Iranians often use this phrase even when speaking English ('Fadaye saret, don't worry about it') because English lacks a perfect emotional equivalent.
Double it for warmth
Saying 'Fadaye saret, fadaye saret!' twice makes you sound much more sincere and native.
Not for your own mistakes
Never say 'Fadaye saram' (sacrifice for my head) when you make a mistake; it sounds incredibly arrogant.
Double it for warmth
Saying 'Fadaye saret, fadaye saret!' twice makes you sound much more sincere and native.
Not for your own mistakes
Never say 'Fadaye saram' (sacrifice for my head) when you make a mistake; it sounds incredibly arrogant.
The 'Salamat Bashi' reply
If someone says 'Fadaye saret' to you, the best reply is 'Salamat bashi' (May you be healthy).
Use with 'Azizam'
Adding 'Azizam' (my dear) at the end makes the comfort much stronger.
Teste dich selbst
Complete the dialogue with the correct form of the phrase.
دوستم: 'ببخشید، کتابت رو گم کردم.' من: '_______، یکی دیگه میخرم.'
When someone loses something, 'Fadaye saret' is the most appropriate comforting response.
Match the situation to the best response.
Situation: Your younger brother failed his driving test and is crying.
'Fadaye saret' is used to comfort someone after a failure.
Which of these is NOT a correct use of 'Fadaye saret'?
Choose the incorrect context:
The phrase is never used for the death of a person.
Complete the dialogue to sound like a native speaker.
سارا: 'وای! بشقاب عتیقه مامانت از دستم افتاد و شکست!' علی: '_______، مامانم تو رو بیشتر از بشقابهاش دوست داره.'
Ali is prioritizing Sara's feelings over the antique plate.
🎉 Ergebnis: /4
Visuelle Lernhilfen
Fadaye Saret vs. Eshkali Nadare
Aufgabensammlung
5 Aufgabenدوستم: 'ببخشید، کتابت رو گم کردم.' من: '_______، یکی دیگه میخرم.'
When someone loses something, 'Fadaye saret' is the most appropriate comforting response.
Situation: Your younger brother failed his driving test and is crying.
'Fadaye saret' is used to comfort someone after a failure.
Choose the incorrect context:
The phrase is never used for the death of a person.
سارا: 'وای! بشقاب عتیقه مامانت از دستم افتاد و شکست!' علی: '_______، مامانم تو رو بیشتر از بشقابهاش دوست داره.'
Ali is prioritizing Sara's feelings over the antique plate.
🎉 Ergebnis: /5
Häufig gestellte Fragen
12 FragenNo, it is informal to neutral. In very formal settings, use 'Eshkali nadare'.
Yes! It is often used for car accidents or losing large sums of money to show that the person's life is more important.
The most common reply is 'Salamat bashi' (May you be healthy) or 'Mamnoon' (Thank you).
Yes, in texts, social media, and informal letters. It's rare in formal reports.
It means 'sacrifice' or 'ransom'.
Only if you have a very close, friendly relationship. Otherwise, it's too casual.
Yes, it is very common in Dari Persian as well.
No. If someone is physically hurt, say 'Bala door bashe' (May danger be far).
Yes: 'Fadaye saretoon' (فدای سرتون). Use this for a group or to be more polite.
Rarely, but it can be if said with a specific tone. 99% of the time it is genuine.
Yes, friends often say it after a breakup to mean 'they weren't worth it'.
It literally means 'May it be a sacrifice for your head.'
Verwandte Redewendungen
عیبی نداره
synonymNo problem / No flaw
قربانت بروم
similarMay I be your sacrifice
فدای تو
similarSacrifice for you
بیخیال
similarDon't worry / Let it go
فدای سرش
specialized formDon't worry about him/her
Wo du es verwendest
Spilling a drink
Friend A: وای، قهوه ریخت روی مبلت! خیلی معذرت میخوام.
Friend B: فدای سرت! الان با یه دستمال پاکش میکنیم.
Losing an item
Son: بابا، چترم رو توی اتوبوس گم کردم.
Father: فدای سرت پسرم، یکی دیگه میخریم. مواظب خودت باش.
Failing an exam
Student: توی امتحان ریاضی رد شدم، خیلی ناراحتم.
Friend: فدای سرت، برای امتحان بعدی با هم درس میخونیم.
Car accident
Driver A: زدم به ماشینت، واقعاً شرمندهام.
Driver B: فدای سرت، مهم اینه که خودمون سالمیم. بیمه هست.
Late for a meeting
Colleague: ببخشید ترافیک بود، دیر رسیدم.
Partner: فدای سرت، ما هم تازه شروع کردیم.
Social Media comment
User: امروز گوشیم شکست، کلی عکسام پرید...
Follower: فدای سرت عزیزم، انشالله بهترش رو میخری.
Einprägen
Eselsbrücke
Think of 'Fada' as 'Fade away'. Let the problem 'fade away' from your 'Sar' (head).
Visuelle Assoziation
Imagine a person standing safely while a small, unimportant object (like a broken plate) is being carried away by a gust of wind. The person's head is glowing with health.
Rhyme
Fadaye saret, ghorbane delet (Sacrifice for your head, sacrifice for your heart).
Story
A king once lost his crown in the sea. He was devastated until his vizier said, 'Fadaye saret, O King! The crown is just gold, but your head is the kingdom.' The king smiled and realized his life was the true treasure.
In Other Languages
In Arabic, people say 'Fidaka' (فداك), which has the exact same root and meaning. In Spanish, 'No pasa nada' is used similarly, though it lacks the 'sacrifice' metaphor.
Word Web
Herausforderung
Next time you see someone make a minor mistake (even in a movie), say 'Fadaye saret' out loud to practice the intonation.
Review this phrase whenever you feel guilty about a small mistake yourself. Say it to your reflection!
Aussprache
The 'a' is short like 'cat', the 'aye' sounds like 'eye' with a 'y' connector.
The 'r' is a light tap, and the 'et' is short.
Formalitätsspektrum
نگران نباشید، مسئلهای نیست. (Breaking a glass)
عیبی نداره، مهم نیست. (Breaking a glass)
فدای سرت، فدای سرت! (Breaking a glass)
بیخیال بابا، فدای سرت. (Breaking a glass)
The word 'Fada' comes from the Arabic root 'F-D-Y', meaning to ransom or sacrifice. In ancient times, a 'Fada' was a person or animal sacrificed to save another. Iranians adapted this into a daily idiom to signify that a material loss is a 'ransom' for the person's safety.
Wusstest du?
There is a famous modern Persian song titled 'Fadaye Saret' by the rap group Zedbazi, which uses the phrase to talk about moving on from a breakup.
Kulturelle Hinweise
The phrase is a core part of 'Ta'arof' culture, where minimizing one's own loss to make a guest or friend feel comfortable is a sign of high social intelligence.
“Even if a guest breaks an expensive item, the host must say 'Fadaye saret' immediately.”
In Dari Persian, the phrase is also used with similar warmth, often followed by 'صدقه سرت' (Sadagheh saret), which also means 'charity for your head.'
“فدای سرت، صدقه سرت باشه.”
Tajik speakers use 'فدای سرت' but might also use 'هیچ گپ نیست' (Hich gap nest - It's nothing) more frequently in casual speech.
“فدای سرت، هیچ گپ نیست.”
Second-generation Iranians often use this phrase even when speaking English ('Fadaye saret, don't worry about it') because English lacks a perfect emotional equivalent.
“It's okay, fadaye saret!”
Gesprächseinstiege
ببخشید، من یادم رفت بهت زنگ بزنم.
وای، فکر کنم کلیدهای ماشین رو توی ماشین جا گذاشتم!
خیلی ناراحتم، توی مسابقه فوتبال باختیم.
متاسفانه نتونستم اون کتابی که میخواستی رو پیدا کنم.
Häufige Fehler
Using it for a person's death.
تسلیت میگم (Tasliat migam)
L1 Interference
فدای سر (Fadaye sar)
فدای سرت (Fadaye saret)
L1 Interference
Using it to a high-ranking official.
خواهش میکنم، مشکلی نیست (Khahesh mikonam, moshkeli nist)
L1 Interference
Using it when you are the one who made the mistake.
ببخشید، جبران میکنم (Bebakhshid, jobran mikonam)
L1 Interference
In Other Languages
No pasa nada
Spanish is more objective; Persian is more empathetic.
C'est pas grave
French focuses on the gravity; Persian focuses on the person.
Schwamm drüber
German is about forgetting; Persian is about valuing the person.
気にしないで (Ki ni shinaide)
Japanese is about internal peace; Persian is about external sacrifice.
فداك (Fidaka)
Usage is nearly identical.
没关系 (Méiguānxì)
Chinese is more functional; Persian is more poetic.
괜찮아요 (Gwaenchanayo)
Korean is a general state; Persian is a specific sacrificial offer.
Não foi nada
Portuguese minimizes the event; Persian elevates the person.
Spotted in the Real World
“فدای سرت اگه شهر سیاه شد...”
A song about resilience and moving on from a relationship.
“فدای سرت آقا، پیش میاد.”
When a master makes a mistake, the servant uses a polite version to comfort him.
“فدای سرت که نشد، خدا بزرگه.”
A comment on a post about a failed business venture.
Leicht verwechselbar
Both are common idioms, but 'Khaste nabashi' means 'don't be tired' (used to greet someone working).
Use 'Fadaye saret' for mistakes; use 'Khaste nabashi' for hard work.
Learners sometimes use this to say 'it's okay' after a mistake.
This means 'thank you' (may your hand not hurt). Don't use it for mistakes!
Häufig gestellte Fragen (12)
No, it is informal to neutral. In very formal settings, use 'Eshkali nadare'.
usage contextsYes! It is often used for car accidents or losing large sums of money to show that the person's life is more important.
basic understandingThe most common reply is 'Salamat bashi' (May you be healthy) or 'Mamnoon' (Thank you).
practical tipsYes, in texts, social media, and informal letters. It's rare in formal reports.
usage contextsIt means 'sacrifice' or 'ransom'.
grammar mechanicsOnly if you have a very close, friendly relationship. Otherwise, it's too casual.
cultural usageYes, it is very common in Dari Persian as well.
cultural usageNo. If someone is physically hurt, say 'Bala door bashe' (May danger be far).
common mistakesYes: 'Fadaye saretoon' (فدای سرتون). Use this for a group or to be more polite.
grammar mechanicsRarely, but it can be if said with a specific tone. 99% of the time it is genuine.
usage contextsYes, friends often say it after a breakup to mean 'they weren't worth it'.
usage contextsIt literally means 'May it be a sacrifice for your head.'
basic understanding
