Significado
To be able to relax and be oneself around someone without reservation.
Contexto cultural
The phrase highlights the 'Uchi-Soto' (Inside-Outside) culture. Being 'ki ga okenai' means you have entered the 'Uchi' circle where 'Tatemae' (social mask) is unnecessary. In Japanese companies, 'Nomikai' (drinking parties) are often intended to create a 'ki ga okenai' atmosphere, though hierarchy often remains. Younger generations are increasingly using 'ki ga okenai' incorrectly to mean 'untrustworthy,' leading to linguistic debates in media. In some regions, similar concepts are expressed through local words for 'relaxed,' but 'ki ga okenai' is understood nationwide as standard Japanese.
The 'Nai' Trap
Always remember: 'Nai' here is GOOD. It means 'No barriers'. If you see it on a test, don't pick the negative personality trait!
Superiority Check
Even if your boss is cool, don't call them 'ki ga okenai' to their face. It can sound like you've forgotten your place.
Significado
To be able to relax and be oneself around someone without reservation.
The 'Nai' Trap
Always remember: 'Nai' here is GOOD. It means 'No barriers'. If you see it on a test, don't pick the negative personality trait!
Superiority Check
Even if your boss is cool, don't call them 'ki ga okenai' to their face. It can sound like you've forgotten your place.
The 40% Rule
If a Japanese person looks confused when you use this, they might be part of the 40% who misunderstand it. Be prepared to explain!
Ponte a prueba
Choose the correct meaning of '{気|き}が{置|お}けない人'.
{田中|た|なか}さんは{気|き}が{置|お}けない{人|ひと}ですね。
Despite the negative 'nai', the phrase means you are comfortable and don't need to be formal.
Fill in the missing particle.
{彼|かれ}とは{気|き}（ ）{置|お}けない{仲|なか}です。
The standard idiomatic form uses the particle 'ga'.
In which situation is it MOST appropriate to use '{気|き}が{置|お}けない'?
Select the best context:
It is used for long-term, close relationships where formality is gone.
Complete the dialogue.
A: {明日|あした}のパーティー、{誰|だれ}が{来|く}るの？ B: いつもの（ ）{仲間|なか|ま}だけだよ。リラックスしてきて。
The context of 'relax' and 'usual' points to 'ki ga okenai'.
🎉 Puntuación: /4
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Banco de ejercicios
4 ejercicios{田中|た|なか}さんは{気|き}が{置|お}けない{人|ひと}ですね。
Despite the negative 'nai', the phrase means you are comfortable and don't need to be formal.
{彼|かれ}とは{気|き}（ ）{置|お}けない{仲|なか}です。
The standard idiomatic form uses the particle 'ga'.
Select the best context:
It is used for long-term, close relationships where formality is gone.
A: {明日|あした}のパーティー、{誰|だれ}が{来|く}るの？ B: いつもの（ ）{仲間|なか|ま}だけだよ。リラックスしてきて。
The context of 'relax' and 'usual' points to 'ki ga okenai'.
🎉 Puntuación: /4
Preguntas frecuentes
4 preguntasNot exactly. A waiter can be 'friendly' ({親切|しん|せつ}), but they aren't 'ki ga okenai'. The idiom requires a deep, established comfort level.
Yes! You can say '{気|き}が{置|お}けない{店|みせ}' to describe a casual, comfortable local shop where you don't have to dress up.
Because 'ki o oku' (to be reserved) is no longer used in daily life, so people only see 'Ki' + 'Not placed' and assume it means 'cannot trust'.
Yes, it frequently appears in N2 and N1 levels, often in the 'correct usage' section because of the common misunderstandings.
Frases relacionadas
{気|き}が{合|あ}う
similarTo get along well / To be on the same wavelength.
{気兼|きが|ね}のない
synonymFree from constraint / Not needing to worry about others.
{遠慮|えん|りょ}がない
similarNo reserve / Unrestrained.
{腹|はら}を{割|わ}る
builds onTo be completely frank / To open one's heart.
