Signification
Missing a scheduled meeting.
Contexte culturel
The 'Agenda' is a cultural icon. Most Dutch people carry one (digital or paper) and forgetting an appointment is seen as a failure of 'afspraak is afspraak' (an agreement is an agreement). While also punctual, Flemish culture can be slightly more flexible than Northern Dutch culture, but 'een afspraak vergeten' is still considered quite rude in professional settings. In Surinamese-Dutch culture, time can sometimes be more fluid ('Surinaamse tijd'), but in official Dutch-language contexts, the phrase 'een afspraak vergeten' remains the standard for missing a scheduled event. Efficiency is key. Forgetting an appointment is often linked to a lack of 'betrouwbaarheid' (reliability).
Use 'Helemaal'
Always add 'helemaal' (completely) when apologizing. It makes you sound more sincere and less like you just didn't care.
The 'Zijn' Rule
Remember: 'Ik BEN vergeten'. Using 'heb' is the number one mistake for English speakers.
Signification
Missing a scheduled meeting.
Use 'Helemaal'
Always add 'helemaal' (completely) when apologizing. It makes you sound more sincere and less like you just didn't care.
The 'Zijn' Rule
Remember: 'Ik BEN vergeten'. Using 'heb' is the number one mistake for English speakers.
Teste-toi
Fill in the correct form of 'zijn' and 'vergeten'.
Sorry dat ik niet kwam, ik ___ de afspraak helemaal ___.
In the perfectum, we use 'ben' (for 'ik') and the past participle 'vergeten'.
Which sentence is the most natural Dutch?
You missed your dentist appointment and want to apologize.
'Vergeten' with 'zijn' is the standard way to express this.
Complete the dialogue.
A: Waar was je gisteren? B: O nee! ___
This is the most common reaction to being reminded of a missed meeting.
🎉 Score : /3
Aides visuelles
Types of Afspraken
Zakelijk
- • Vergadering
- • Sollicitatie
- • Call
Privé
- • Lunch
- • Date
- • Verjaardag
Banque d exercices
3 exercicesSorry dat ik niet kwam, ik ___ de afspraak helemaal ___.
In the perfectum, we use 'ben' (for 'ik') and the past participle 'vergeten'.
You missed your dentist appointment and want to apologize.
'Vergeten' with 'zijn' is the standard way to express this.
A: Waar was je gisteren? B: O nee! ___
This is the most common reaction to being reminded of a missed meeting.
🎉 Score : /3
Questions fréquentes
3 questionsIt is technically heard in some regions, but for an A2 learner, 'Ik ben de afspraak vergeten' is the only correct version you should use.
No, it is used for everything: doctors, friends, dates, and business meetings.
'Vergeten' is the general word. 'Ontschoten' is more idiomatic and sounds like it 'slipped' away from you—it's a bit more polite.
Expressions liées
een afspraak maken
builds onto make an appointment
een afspraak afzeggen
contrastto cancel an appointment
een afspraak verzetten
similarto reschedule an appointment
niet komen opdagen
synonymto not show up
