A1 Idiom 중립

Bite your tongue.

Don't speak.

To stop yourself from saying something, often something rude.

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문화적 배경

British culture often emphasizes 'stiff upper lip' and politeness. Biting your tongue is considered a virtue in social gatherings to avoid 'making a scene.' In US offices, 'biting your tongue' is often linked to 'professionalism.' However, modern trends like 'Radical Candor' are encouraging people to speak up more. While the English idiom is used, the concept of 'Honne' (true feelings) vs 'Tatemae' (public face) is very similar. Biting one's tongue is a way to maintain 'Tatemae.' There is a strong emphasis on respecting elders. Younger people are often expected to 'bite their tongue' even if they disagree with an older family member.

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The Pronoun Rule

Always check your subject. If 'She' is the subject, use 'her tongue.'

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Don't be rude

Avoid saying 'Bite your tongue!' to others. It's very aggressive.

To stop yourself from saying something, often something rude.

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The Pronoun Rule

Always check your subject. If 'She' is the subject, use 'her tongue.'

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Don't be rude

Avoid saying 'Bite your tongue!' to others. It's very aggressive.

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Use with 'had to'

Using 'I had to bite my tongue' makes you sound like a victim of a difficult situation, which is very natural.

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Silence is Golden

In English, this idiom is almost always seen as a positive sign of self-control.

셀프 테스트

Fill in the correct possessive pronoun.

I wanted to tell him he was wrong, but I bit ____ tongue.

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: my

The pronoun must match the subject 'I'.

Which situation best fits the idiom?

When would you 'bite your tongue'?

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: When your boss says something silly and you want to laugh.

Biting your tongue is about stopping an inappropriate reaction.

Complete the dialogue.

A: Did you tell Sarah her dress was ugly? B: No, I ________.

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: bit my tongue

This is the standard past tense form of the idiom.

Match the reason to the action.

Why did John bite his tongue?

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: Because he didn't want to start an argument with his wife.

Avoiding arguments is a primary use of this idiom.

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시각 학습 자료

When to Bite Your Tongue

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Work

  • Boss is wrong
  • Annoying client
  • Bad ideas
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Family

  • Unwanted advice
  • Politics
  • Bad cooking

연습 문제 은행

4 연습 문제
Fill in the correct possessive pronoun. Fill Blank A1

I wanted to tell him he was wrong, but I bit ____ tongue.

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: my

The pronoun must match the subject 'I'.

Which situation best fits the idiom? Choose A2

When would you 'bite your tongue'?

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: When your boss says something silly and you want to laugh.

Biting your tongue is about stopping an inappropriate reaction.

Complete the dialogue. dialogue_completion B1

A: Did you tell Sarah her dress was ugly? B: No, I ________.

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: bit my tongue

This is the standard past tense form of the idiom.

Match the reason to the action. situation_matching A2

Why did John bite his tongue?

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: Because he didn't want to start an argument with his wife.

Avoiding arguments is a primary use of this idiom.

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자주 묻는 질문

14 질문

Usually no. It is seen as a sign of self-control and politeness.

Yes, but it's slightly informal. In a very formal email, say 'I chose not to comment.'

The past tense is 'bit my tongue.'

The meaning is similar, but 'bite your tongue' is about your own choice, while 'shut up' is a rude command to someone else.

No, that sounds unnatural. Use 'my', 'your', 'his', etc.

Yes, it is very common in all English-speaking countries.

Yes, if you are trying hard not to tell a secret, you can say you are biting your tongue.

That is the literal meaning! You can say 'Ouch, I bit my tongue.'

Yes, 'zip it' or 'button it' are more slangy.

Yes, it means you are struggling to stay silent right now.

It's okay to use when telling a story about a past conflict, but don't use it too much.

The tongue is the organ of speech. Biting it is a more powerful image of stopping words.

Usually not. It's almost always about stopping something negative or rude.

Yes, it's over 400 years old!

관련 표현

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Hold your tongue

synonym

To stop talking or stay silent.

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Keep your chin up

contrast

To stay positive.

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Put your foot in your mouth

contrast

To say something embarrassing.

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Cat got your tongue?

similar

Why are you not speaking?

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Zip it

synonym

Be quiet.

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