Meaning
Expressing sympathy or disappointment
Cultural Background
Bengalis are known for being emotionally expressive. Using 'khub dukkhajonok' is a way to show you are 'shonbedonshil' (sensitive/empathetic). In Bangladesh, this phrase is often used when discussing national tragedies or the struggles of the poor, reflecting a strong sense of social justice. In Kolkata, you might hear this phrase in intellectual discussions about the decline of certain traditions or arts. On Facebook or WhatsApp, people often comment 'Khub-i dukkhajonok' on sad posts to show support.
The 'Aha' Combo
Start with 'Aha' (আহা) before saying 'khub dukkhajonok' to sound more like a native speaker.
Avoid 'I am'
Never say 'Ami dukkhajonok' unless you want to say you are a depressing person!
Meaning
Expressing sympathy or disappointment
The 'Aha' Combo
Start with 'Aha' (আহা) before saying 'khub dukkhajonok' to sound more like a native speaker.
Avoid 'I am'
Never say 'Ami dukkhajonok' unless you want to say you are a depressing person!
Intensify it
Use 'সত্যিই খুব দুঃখজনক' (Truly very sad) for extra emphasis.
Social Glue
In Bengali culture, acknowledging sadness is more important than offering a quick fix.
Test Yourself
Choose the correct phrase to react to a friend losing their wallet.
আমার মানিব্যাগটা হারিয়ে গেছে।
You should use 'এটা খুব দুঃখজনক' (This is very sad) to react to the situation.
Fill in the blank with the correct word.
খবরটা শুনে খুব খারাপ লাগলো, এটা সত্যিই খুব _______।
The context requires an adjective describing the news (khobor).
Complete the dialogue.
A: কালকের ম্যাচে আমাদের দল হেরে গেছে। B: _______।
Losing a match is a sad event, so 'khub dukkhajonok' is the appropriate response.
Match the phrase to the situation.
Situation: A historical monument was destroyed.
Destruction of a monument is a regrettable event.
🎉 Score: /4
Visual Learning Aids
Dukkhito vs Dukkhajonok
Practice Bank
4 exercisesআমার মানিব্যাগটা হারিয়ে গেছে।
You should use 'এটা খুব দুঃখজনক' (This is very sad) to react to the situation.
খবরটা শুনে খুব খারাপ লাগলো, এটা সত্যিই খুব _______।
The context requires an adjective describing the news (khobor).
A: কালকের ম্যাচে আমাদের দল হেরে গেছে। B: _______।
Losing a match is a sad event, so 'khub dukkhajonok' is the appropriate response.
Situation: A historical monument was destroyed.
Destruction of a monument is a regrettable event.
🎉 Score: /4
Frequently Asked Questions
10 questionsYes, but it might sound a bit dramatic. For small things, 'Kharap holo' (It turned out bad) is better.
It is neutral. You can use it in almost any setting.
'Dukkhito' is 'I am sorry/sad'. 'Dukkhajonok' is 'That situation is sad'.
Add 'chilo' at the end: 'Ota khub dukkhajonok chilo'.
You can just say 'Khub-i kharap' (Very bad).
No, use 'dukkh-i' for a sad person. 'Dukkhajonok' is for events.
No. For an apology, use 'Ami dukkhito' or 'Khoma korben'.
Yes, very frequently to describe tragic events.
'Khub anondojonok' (Very joyful) or 'Khub bhalo' (Very good).
Yes, to acknowledge a client's problem or a project failure.
Related Phrases
দুঃখিত
similarSorry / Sad
মর্মান্তিক
specialized formTragic
দুর্ভাগ্যজনক
similarUnfortunate
বেদনাদায়ক
synonymPainful
আফসোস
relatedRegret
