antipathisch
antipathisch in 30 Seconds
- Antipathisch means unlikeable or unsympathetic; it's the opposite of sympathisch.
- It describes an instinctive feeling of dislike towards someone's personality.
- Commonly used with 'finden' (to find) or in the dative 'jemandem antipathisch sein'.
- It is a strong word, often describing a fundamental character clash.
The German word antipathisch is an adjective used to describe someone or something that triggers an immediate feeling of dislike, aversion, or a lack of harmony. It is the direct opposite of sympathisch. When you describe a person as antipathisch, you are indicating that their personality, behavior, or even their mere presence makes you feel uncomfortable or negatively disposed toward them. It is important to understand that this word often describes an instinctive, gut-level reaction rather than a logical conclusion based on a long list of grievances. It is about the 'vibe' or the 'aura' that a person radiates.
- Social Context
- In social settings, calling someone antipathisch is a strong statement. It suggests a fundamental lack of chemistry. While you might respect someone's work, you can still find them antipathisch as a person. It is frequently used when discussing first impressions, where one person simply does not 'click' with another.
Obwohl er fachlich kompetent ist, wirkt der neue Chef auf viele Mitarbeiter extrem antipathisch.
The term is deeply rooted in psychology. It refers to 'Antipathie' (antipathy), which is a deep-seated feeling of dislike. In German culture, being 'sympathisch' is a highly valued trait, often more important than being technically perfect. Conversely, being labeled antipathisch can be a significant social hurdle. It is not just about being 'mean'; a person could be perfectly polite but still be perceived as antipathisch due to their perceived arrogance, coldness, or artificiality.
- Professional Usage
- In professional environments, this word might be used behind closed doors to explain why a team is not functioning well. If two colleagues find each other antipathisch, it implies a friction that goes beyond mere professional disagreement. It is a personality clash that is difficult to resolve through logic alone.
Furthermore, the word can be applied to fictional characters. In literature and film, an 'antipathischer Protagonist' is an anti-hero or a character designed to be disliked by the audience, providing a challenge for the viewer to remain engaged despite their aversion. This demonstrates the word's versatility in describing not just real people, but also constructed personalities that evoke specific emotional responses.
Der Antagonist im Film wurde so antipathisch dargestellt, dass man kein Mitleid mit seinem Schicksal hatte.
- Nuance of Dislike
- The feeling of antipathy is often mutual. If you find someone antipathisch, there is a high probability they feel the same way about you. This reciprocal nature is a key part of the word's meaning—it describes a broken connection between two individuals.
In summary, antipathisch is the quintessential German word for 'unlikeable' in a deep, personal sense. It covers the spectrum from a mild lack of rapport to a profound, visceral rejection of another person's character. Understanding this word helps you navigate the complex emotional landscape of German social interactions, where 'Sympathie' is the currency of connection and 'Antipathie' is the wall that blocks it.
Using antipathisch correctly involves understanding its grammatical role as an adjective and its common syntactic patterns. Most frequently, it is used with the verb finden (to find) or wirken (to seem/appear). This reflects the subjective nature of the word; someone isn't just objectively 'antipathisch', they are *perceived* as such by someone else.
- The 'Finden' Pattern
- The most natural way to express your dislike is: 'Ich finde ihn/sie antipathisch.' Here, 'ihn/sie' is the direct object in the accusative case. This structure emphasizes your personal judgment.
Ich kann nicht genau sagen warum, aber ich finde diesen Schauspieler sehr antipathisch.
Another common way to use the word is as a predicate adjective with the verb sein (to be). While this sounds more objective, it is still inherently a statement of opinion. For example, 'Er ist mir antipathisch.' Note the use of the dative 'mir' (to me). This is a very common German construction to show who is experiencing the feeling. It literally means 'He is unlikeable to me.'
- The Dative Construction
- Using the dative case (mir, dir, ihm, ihr, uns, euch, ihnen) with 'sein' is a sophisticated way to use the word. 'Sie ist mir von Anfang an antipathisch gewesen' (She has been unlikeable to me from the start).
War dir die Verkäuferin auch so antipathisch?
You can also use 'wirken' (to seem) or 'herüberkommen' (to come across). This is useful when you want to be slightly less direct or when you are describing a first impression. 'Er wirkt etwas antipathisch' suggests that he might not actually be a bad person, but his current behavior or appearance creates a negative impression.
- Adverbial Usage
- While rare, it can be used adverbially to describe an action performed in an unlikeable manner. 'Er lachte antipathisch' (He laughed in an unlikeable/sinister way). However, it is much more common as an adjective.
Durch seine arrogante Art wirkte er auf die Gäste sehr antipathisch.
In complex sentences, you might see it paired with 'obwohl' (although) or 'trotzdem' (nevertheless). 'Obwohl er mir antipathisch ist, muss ich mit ihm arbeiten' (Although I find him unlikeable, I have to work with him). This highlights the conflict between personal feelings and external requirements, a very common scenario for using this word.
Er hat ein antipathisches Gesicht, aber einen guten Charakter.
Mastering the use of antipathisch allows you to express nuanced social judgments. Whether you use the direct 'finden' structure or the more subtle 'mir ist...' dative construction, you are communicating a specific type of interpersonal friction that is central to many German conversations.
In the real world, you will encounter antipathisch in a variety of contexts, ranging from casual gossip to serious psychological analysis. It is a staple of everyday German conversation when people discuss their feelings about others. You won't just find it in textbooks; it's alive in the streets, in offices, and on television screens across Germany, Austria, and Switzerland.
- Reality TV and Media
- German reality TV shows like 'Ich bin ein Star – Holt mich hier raus!' (the German version of 'I'm a Celebrity...') are breeding grounds for this word. Viewers and contestants alike use it to describe participants who are perceived as manipulative, lazy, or arrogant. It's the ultimate label for the 'villain' of the season.
In der letzten Folge wurde sie von den Zuschauern als die antipathischste Kandidatin gewählt.
In the workplace, the word is often whispered in the cafeteria or near the coffee machine. It's used to describe that one colleague who always talks over others or the manager who lacks empathy. Because 'antipathisch' describes a feeling that is hard to pin down, it’s often the word people reach for when they can't quite explain *why* they don't like someone, but they know they don't.
- Literature and Film Reviews
- Critics often use this word to describe characters. A review might say, 'The protagonist is so antipathisch that the reader finds it hard to care about his journey.' This usage focuses on the emotional distance created between the audience and the character.
You might also hear it in political discussions, though usually in a more guarded way. A commentator might describe a politician's public persona as 'antipathisch' to explain their low polling numbers, suggesting that the public simply doesn't connect with them on a human level, regardless of their policies.
Der Politiker wirkt in Interviews oft unterkühlt und antipathisch.
- Everyday Socializing
- When friends meet up to talk about new acquaintances, 'antipathisch' is frequently used to filter out people they don't want to hang out with again. 'Er war mir irgendwie antipathisch' is a common excuse for not wanting to go on a second date or invite someone to a party.
In conclusion, antipathisch is everywhere. It’s in the drama of television, the quiet complaints of the office, the analytical prose of critics, and the honest conversations of friends. It is the go-to word for describing the friction of the human experience.
While antipathisch is a useful word, learners often make several common mistakes when trying to integrate it into their German vocabulary. Understanding these pitfalls will help you sound more like a native speaker and avoid potentially awkward misunderstandings.
- Confusing with 'Unsympathisch'
- The most frequent confusion is between 'antipathisch' and 'unsympathisch'. While they are synonyms, 'unsympathisch' is much more common in daily, informal speech. Using 'antipathisch' in a very casual setting might sound a bit overly formal or dramatic, like you're using a 'big word' where a simpler one would do.
Mistake: 'Der Hund ist mir antipathisch.' (Better: 'Der Hund ist mir unsympathisch.' - 'Antipathisch' is usually reserved for complex human personalities.)
Another error is the incorrect use of cases. As mentioned before, the dative construction 'jemandem (Dativ) antipathisch sein' is very common. Learners often use the accusative here by mistake. Remember, the person who *feels* the dislike is in the dative case.
- The 'To Me' Confusion
- Incorrect: 'Er ist *mich* antipathisch.' Correct: 'Er ist *mir* antipathisch.' This is because you are the recipient of the feeling, which in German logic requires the dative.
Falsch: Ich finde ihn antipathisch zu mir. (Richtig: Ich finde ihn antipathisch. The 'to me' is already implied by 'ich finde'.)
A third mistake is overusing the word. Because it's a strong word, using it for every minor annoyance can make you sound overly negative or judgmental. If someone just has a bad day, they aren't 'antipathisch'; they are just 'schlecht gelaunt' (in a bad mood). Save 'antipathisch' for those people whose core personality seems to clash with yours.
- Misunderstanding the Intensity
- Using 'antipathisch' for a friend who made one mistake is too harsh. It implies a fundamental dislike of their character. Use 'nervig' (annoying) or 'anstrengend' (exhausting) for temporary behaviors.
Er war gestern sehr antipathisch. (Better: 'Er war gestern sehr unfreundlich.' - Antipathy is usually a stable trait, not a one-day occurrence.)
By keeping these common mistakes in mind, you can use antipathisch with precision. Focus on the dative case, distinguish it from the more casual 'unsympathisch', and ensure you are using it to describe a fundamental personality clash rather than a passing mood.
To truly master the concept of 'unlikeability' in German, you need to know the alternatives to antipathisch. Depending on the intensity and the specific reason for your dislike, different words might be more appropriate. German has a rich vocabulary for expressing social friction.
- Unsympathisch
- This is the closest and most common alternative. It's used in almost all situations where 'antipathisch' would fit, but it feels more natural in everyday speech. If you're unsure which one to use, go with 'unsympathisch'.
- Abstoßend
- This word is much stronger. It means 'repulsive' or 'revolting'. It can describe someone's physical appearance or their moral character. Use this only when the dislike is extreme.
- Unangenehm
- Meaning 'unpleasant', this is a softer alternative. It's often used when someone's behavior makes you feel awkward or uncomfortable, but doesn't necessarily make you hate them.
Während er mir früher nur antipathisch war, finde ich sein Verhalten heute regelrecht abstoßend.
For specific types of unlikeability, you can use words like 'arrogant' (arrogant), 'eingebildet' (conceited), or 'überheblich' (haughty). These words explain *why* the person is perceived as antipathisch. If someone is unlikeable because they are cold and distant, you might use 'unterkühlt' or 'unnahbar'.
- Widerwärtig
- This is a very strong word, often translated as 'vile' or 'loathsome'. It is used for people who commit acts that are morally reprehensible. It is far beyond a simple lack of chemistry.
In a professional context, you might use 'schwierig' (difficult) as a euphemism. 'Ein schwieriger Kollege' is often code for someone who is antipathisch but whom you have to deal with politely. It shifts the focus from your personal feeling to the person's general work style.
Anstatt ihn direkt antipathisch zu nennen, beschrieb der Personalchef ihn als 'eine Herausforderung für die Teamdynamik'.
- Ekelhaft / Eklig
- While these usually mean 'disgusting' (like bad food), they can be used colloquially to describe a person's character if they have done something particularly slimy or untrustworthy.
By expanding your vocabulary beyond just antipathisch, you can express your social preferences with much greater precision. Whether you need the casual 'unsympathisch', the professional 'schwierig', or the powerful 'abstoßend', you now have the tools to describe exactly how someone rubs you the wrong way.
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Fun Fact
The word 'antipathisch' entered the German language in the 18th century, a time when psychology and the study of human emotions were becoming popular subjects of study.
Pronunciation Guide
- Pronouncing the 'th' like the English 'th' (as in 'think'). In German, 'th' is always just 't'.
- Stressing the first syllable instead of the third.
- Missing the 'i' sound in the second syllable.
Difficulty Rating
The word is long but follows standard patterns. It's easily recognizable if you know 'sympathisch'.
Requires knowledge of adjective endings and specific verb patterns like the dative construction.
The 'th' can be tricky for English speakers who want to pronounce it like 'th' in 'think'.
Clearly pronounced in most contexts, but can be missed in fast, informal speech.
What to Learn Next
Prerequisites
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Grammar to Know
Adjective Declension
Ein antipathischer Mann (Nominative), eines antipathischen Mannes (Genitive).
Dative Verbs/Expressions
Er ist MIR (Dative) antipathisch.
Attributive vs. Predicative Adjectives
Die antipathische Frau (Attributive) vs. Die Frau ist antipathisch (Predicative).
Comparison of Adjectives
antipathisch, antipathischer, am antipathischsten.
Substantivized Adjectives
Das Antipathische an ihm ist seine Arroganz.
Examples by Level
Er ist antipathisch.
He is unlikeable.
Basic subject-verb-adjective structure.
Ich mag ihn nicht, er ist antipathisch.
I don't like him, he is unlikeable.
Two simple main clauses.
Ist sie antipathisch?
Is she unlikeable?
Question form of a simple sentence.
Der Mann ist nicht sympathisch, er ist antipathisch.
The man is not likeable, he is unlikeable.
Contrasting two adjectives.
Warum ist er so antipathisch?
Why is he so unlikeable?
Question with 'warum'.
Meine Nachbarin ist antipathisch.
My neighbor is unlikeable.
Subject with possessive pronoun.
Er sieht antipathisch aus.
He looks unlikeable.
Using the separable verb 'aussehen'.
Sie ist eine antipathische Person.
She is an unlikeable person.
Attributive adjective with ending.
Ich finde den neuen Lehrer sehr antipathisch.
I find the new teacher very unlikeable.
Using 'finden' with an accusative object.
Er war mir von Anfang an antipathisch.
He was unlikeable to me from the start.
Dative construction 'mir ... antipathisch'.
Die Verkäuferin war leider sehr antipathisch.
The saleswoman was unfortunately very unlikeable.
Adding an adverb 'leider' for nuance.
Ich möchte nicht mit ihm arbeiten, er ist mir antipathisch.
I don't want to work with him, he is unlikeable to me.
Expressing a preference based on a feeling.
Warum findest du sie so antipathisch?
Why do you find her so unlikeable?
Question with 'finden' and accusative.
Sein Gesicht wirkt auf mich etwas antipathisch.
His face seems a bit unlikeable to me.
Using 'wirken auf' + accusative.
Gestern war er wieder total antipathisch.
Yesterday he was totally unlikeable again.
Using time adverbs 'gestern' and 'wieder'.
Ich kenne niemanden, der so antipathisch ist wie er.
I know no one who is as unlikeable as he is.
Relative clause and comparison with 'wie'.
Obwohl er viel Geld hat, wirkt er auf die Leute sehr antipathisch.
Although he has a lot of money, he seems very unlikeable to people.
Concessive clause with 'obwohl'.
Ich kann ihn nicht leiden, weil er eine so antipathische Art hat.
I can't stand him because he has such an unlikeable way about him.
Causal clause with 'weil'.
Es ist schwierig, mit jemandem befreundet zu sein, der einem antipathisch ist.
It is difficult to be friends with someone who is unlikeable to you.
Infinitive construction with 'zu' and relative clause.
Die antipathische Stimmung im Büro macht die Arbeit anstrengend.
The unlikeable atmosphere in the office makes work exhausting.
Attributive adjective in the nominative.
Wenn er so weitermacht, wird er allen Kollegen antipathisch.
If he continues like this, he will become unlikeable to all colleagues.
Conditional clause with 'wenn'.
Sie hat ein sehr hübsches Gesicht, aber sie wirkt trotzdem antipathisch.
She has a very pretty face, but she still seems unlikeable.
Using 'trotzdem' to show contrast.
Ich habe versucht, nett zu sein, aber er blieb mir antipathisch.
I tried to be nice, but he remained unlikeable to me.
Past tense 'blieb' with dative 'mir'.
Findest du den Hauptcharakter im Buch auch so antipathisch?
Do you also find the main character in the book so unlikeable?
Direct question about a fictional character.
Seine arrogante Ausdrucksweise lässt ihn auf viele Gesprächspartner antipathisch wirken.
His arrogant way of speaking makes him seem unlikeable to many conversation partners.
Using 'lassen' + accusative + infinitive.
Es gibt kaum etwas Schlimmeres als einen antipathischen Vorgesetzten.
There is hardly anything worse than an unlikeable supervisor.
Comparative structure with 'als'.
Trotz seiner Bemühungen konnte er sein antipathisches Image nicht ablegen.
Despite his efforts, he couldn't shake off his unlikeable image.
Preposition 'trotz' with genitive.
Oft sind uns Menschen antipathisch, die uns an unsere eigenen Schwächen erinnern.
Often, we find people unlikeable who remind us of our own weaknesses.
Complex sentence with relative clause.
Die antipathische Ausstrahlung des Schauspielers passte perfekt zur Rolle des Bösewichts.
The actor's unlikeable aura fit perfectly with the role of the villain.
Attributive adjective in the feminine nominative.
Ich empfinde eine tiefe Antipathie gegen alles, was er repräsentiert.
I feel a deep antipathy toward everything he represents.
Using the noun 'Antipathie' with 'gegen'.
Er verhielt sich so antipathisch, dass die Gäste die Party vorzeitig verließen.
He behaved so unlikeably that the guests left the party early.
Consecutive clause with 'so ... dass'.
Man sollte niemanden vorverurteilen, nur weil er einem auf den ersten Blick antipathisch ist.
One shouldn't prejudge anyone just because they are unlikeable to you at first sight.
Modal verb 'sollte' and causal clause.
Die psychologische Forschung legt nahe, dass uns Menschen oft instinktiv antipathisch sind.
Psychological research suggests that people are often instinctively unlikeable to us.
Subordinate clause with 'dass' and dative 'uns'.
Seine latente Arroganz verlieh ihm eine zutiefst antipathische Aura, die kaum zu ignorieren war.
His latent arrogance gave him a deeply unlikeable aura that was hard to ignore.
Use of sophisticated adjectives like 'latent' and 'zutiefst'.
In der Literatur werden antipathische Protagonisten oft genutzt, um die Moral des Lesers herauszufordern.
In literature, unlikeable protagonists are often used to challenge the reader's morality.
Passive voice with 'werden ... genutzt'.
Es ist eine Kunst, eine Figur so antipathisch zu zeichnen, dass man dennoch ihre Geschichte verfolgen will.
It is an art to draw a character so unlikeably that one still wants to follow their story.
Infinitive clause as the subject of the sentence.
Die Abneigung war gegenseitig; beide fanden sich vom ersten Moment an zutiefst antipathisch.
The dislike was mutual; both found each other deeply unlikeable from the first moment.
Reflexive use of 'fanden sich'.
Niemand konnte erklären, warum der ansonsten so freundliche Mann plötzlich so antipathisch wirkte.
No one could explain why the otherwise friendly man suddenly seemed so unlikeable.
Indirect question with 'warum'.
Seine antipathischen Züge wurden durch seinen Mangel an Empathie nur noch verstärkt.
His unlikeable traits were only amplified by his lack of empathy.
Passive voice with 'wurden ... verstärkt'.
Manchmal ist uns jemand antipathisch, ohne dass wir einen konkreten Grund dafür nennen könnten.
Sometimes we find someone unlikeable without being able to give a concrete reason for it.
Conjunction 'ohne dass' with subjunctive II.
Die Phänomenologie der Antipathie offenbart, wie tief verwurzelt unsere sozialen Aversionen sind.
The phenomenology of antipathy reveals how deeply rooted our social aversions are.
High-level academic vocabulary and structure.
Indem der Autor den Antagonisten nicht bloß böse, sondern subtil antipathisch darstellt, erreicht er eine größere Realitätsnähe.
By portraying the antagonist not merely as evil but as subtly unlikeable, the author achieves greater realism.
Gerund-like structure with 'indem'.
Die zutiefst antipathische Wirkung seiner Persönlichkeit war das Resultat einer jahrelangen emotionalen Verrohung.
The deeply unlikeable effect of his personality was the result of years of emotional brutalization.
Genitive attributes and complex noun phrases.
Es bedarf einer gewissen emotionalen Distanz, um jemanden, der einem antipathisch ist, dennoch objektiv zu beurteilen.
It requires a certain emotional distance to judge someone objectively even if they are unlikeable to you.
Use of 'es bedarf' + genitive and final clause with 'um ... zu'.
Seine antipathische Attitüde fungierte als Schutzschild gegen eine Welt, die er als feindselig wahrnahm.
His unlikeable attitude functioned as a shield against a world he perceived as hostile.
Metaphorical usage and relative clause.
Die wechselseitige Antipathie zwischen den beiden Kontrahenten war beinahe physisch greifbar.
The mutual antipathy between the two opponents was almost physically palpable.
Abstract noun 'Antipathie' in a complex subject.
Dass er auf so viele Menschen antipathisch wirkt, scheint ihn in seiner misanthropischen Weltsicht nur zu bestätigen.
The fact that he seems unlikeable to so many people only seems to confirm his misanthropic worldview.
Subject clause starting with 'dass'.
In einer Gesellschaft, die auf Sympathiewerten basiert, ist das 'Antipathisch-Sein' ein schwerwiegendes soziales Stigma.
In a society based on likeability ratings, 'being unlikeable' is a serious social stigma.
Substantivized infinitive 'Antipathisch-Sein'.
Common Collocations
Common Phrases
— That makes him unlikeable. Used when a specific action ruins someone's image.
Sein Geiz macht ihn bei den Kollegen sehr antipathisch.
— He is an abomination to me. A very strong, old-fashioned way to say someone is extremely antipathisch.
Dieser arrogante Kerl ist mir ein Gräuel.
— I can't stand him (literally: I can't smell him). An idiom for finding someone antipathisch.
Ich weiß nicht warum, aber ich kann den neuen Chef einfach nicht riechen.
— An unlikeable contemporary. A slightly formal way to describe an antipathisch person.
Er gilt allgemein als ein unsympathischer Zeitgenosse.
— The chemistry isn't right. A polite way to say two people find each other antipathisch.
Zwischen uns hat die Chemie einfach nicht gestimmt.
— My neck hairs stand up. Describes a physical reaction to someone very antipathisch.
Wenn er den Raum betritt, sträuben sich mir die Nackenhaare.
— He is through/finished (with me). Used when someone has become permanently antipathisch due to an action.
Nach dieser Lüge ist er bei mir unten durch.
— No good wire (connection). Means two people don't get along or find each other antipathisch.
Ich habe keinen guten Draht zu meiner Schwiegermutter.
— A red rag. Describes a person (or thing) that immediately makes one angry or antipathisch.
Sein Name ist für mich wie ein rotes Tuch.
— To be on a war footing. Means to be in constant conflict, often due to mutual antipathy.
Er steht mit seinem Nachbarn auf Kriegsfuß.
Often Confused With
Unfriendly is a temporary behavior; antipathisch is a character trait.
Apathisch means showing no emotion or interest; antipathisch means evoking dislike.
Almost identical, but 'unsympathisch' is more common in casual speech.
Idioms & Expressions
— To give someone the cold shoulder. Often done to someone you find antipathisch.
Sie zeigte ihm den ganzen Abend die kalte Schulter.
informal— To not be 'green' (friendly) with someone. Means to find them antipathisch.
Die beiden sind sich schon seit Jahren nicht grün.
informal— To be a thorn in someone's eye. Describes someone who is very antipathisch or annoying.
Der neue Kollege ist dem Chef ein Dorn im Auge.
neutral— To spit poison and gall. Describes how someone antipathisch speaks about others.
Er spuckte Gift und Galle, als er über seine Ex-Frau sprach.
informal— To not get 'warm' with someone. To fail to develop a liking for someone.
Ich bin mit dem neuen Nachbarn einfach nicht warm geworden.
informal— To be able to eat someone (usually used negatively: 'nicht fressen können'). Means to find someone very antipathisch.
Ich kann diesen Kerl einfach nicht fressen.
informal— To be like cat and dog. Describes two people who find each other very antipathisch.
Die Geschwister sind wie Hund und Katze.
informal— To slide down someone's back. A way to say you don't care about someone you find antipathisch.
Er kann mir mal den Buckel runterrutschen!
informal/slang— To have a face one wants to hit. A very aggressive way to describe someone extremely antipathisch.
Der Typ hat echt eine Visage zum Reinschlagen.
slang/vulgar— To leave someone to the left. To ignore someone you find antipathisch.
Sie ließ ihn auf der Party einfach links liegen.
informalEasily Confused
They sound similar (both end in -pathisch).
Apathisch means listless or indifferent. Antipathisch means unlikeable.
Nach der Nachricht war er völlig apathisch (listless), aber sein Bruder wirkte eher antipathisch (unlikeable).
They are direct opposites.
Sympathisch is positive (likeable); antipathisch is negative (unlikeable).
Der Vater ist sympathisch, der Sohn jedoch antipathisch.
They have the same meaning.
Unsympathisch is more common; antipathisch sounds a bit more formal or precise.
Ich finde ihn unsympathisch (common) / Er ist mir antipathisch (more formal).
Both relate to feelings ('pathos').
Empathisch means empathetic (sharing feelings). Antipathisch means unlikeable.
Ein empathischer Mensch ist selten antipathisch.
Similar ending.
Telepathisch refers to mind-reading. Antipathisch refers to unlikeability.
Wir verstehen uns fast telepathisch, obwohl er anderen antipathisch erscheint.
Sentence Patterns
Ich finde [Akkusativ] antipathisch.
Ich finde ihn antipathisch.
[Nominativ] ist mir antipathisch.
Er ist mir antipathisch.
[Nominativ] wirkt [Adverb] antipathisch auf [Akkusativ].
Er wirkt sehr antipathisch auf mich.
Wegen [Genitiv] ist er mir antipathisch.
Wegen seiner Art ist er mir antipathisch.
Es ist [Adjektiv], jemanden antipathisch zu finden.
Es ist menschlich, jemanden antipathisch zu finden.
Nichts ist mir [Komparativ] als [Nominativ].
Nichts ist mir antipathischer als Arroganz.
Seine [Substantiv] verleiht ihm eine [Adjektiv] antipathische Aura.
Seine Kälte verleiht ihm eine zutiefst antipathische Aura.
Das [Substantivierte Adjektiv] an [Dativ] ist [Nominativ].
Das zutiefst Antipathische an ihm ist sein Zynismus.
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How to Use It
Common in psychological and descriptive contexts, less common in very casual street slang.
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Er ist mich antipathisch.
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Er ist mir antipathisch.
The person experiencing the feeling must be in the dative case (mir), not the accusative (mich).
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Pronouncing 'th' as in English 'think'.
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Pronouncing 'th' as 't'.
In German, the 'th' combination is always pronounced as a hard 't'.
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Using 'antipathisch' to mean 'apathetic'.
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Using 'apathisch' for listless/indifferent.
These are 'false friends' due to their similar sound. Antipathisch = unlikeable.
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Ich habe einen Antipathisch gegen ihn.
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Ich habe eine Antipathie gegen ihn.
You cannot use the adjective as a noun. Use the actual noun 'Antipathie'.
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Er war gestern sehr antipathisch.
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Er war gestern sehr unfreundlich.
Antipathisch usually describes a permanent character trait, while 'unfreundlich' describes a temporary behavior.
Tips
Dative Construction
Always remember to use 'mir' (dative) when saying someone is unlikeable to you. 'Er ist mich antipathisch' is a common mistake for English speakers.
Use Synonyms
In casual conversation, use 'unsympathisch' more often. Save 'antipathisch' for when you want to be more specific or formal.
Silent H
The 'th' is just a 't'. Don't let your English brain trick you into making a 'th' sound!
Be Careful
Calling someone 'antipathisch' is a strong judgment. Use it wisely, especially in professional settings.
Adjective Endings
When using it before a noun, don't forget the endings: 'ein antipathischer Kerl', 'eine antipathische Frau'.
Nuance
Use 'wirkt' (seems) to make your judgment sound slightly less objective and more like a personal impression.
Context Clues
If you hear 'sympathisch' and 'antipathisch' together, the speaker is likely comparing two people or two different impressions.
Opposites
Learning words in pairs (sympathisch/antipathisch) is much more effective than learning them in isolation.
Directness
Germans are often more direct about social dislike. Don't be shocked if you hear this word more often than you expect.
Mnemonic
Think of an 'Anti-Party' person. Someone so unlikeable you wouldn't want them at your party.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
Think of 'Anti' (against) + 'Path' (feeling). You are 'against' having a good 'feeling' for this person. They are on the 'anti-path' to your heart.
Visual Association
Imagine a magnet with two north poles trying to touch. They push each other away. That's 'antipathisch'—a natural force of rejection.
Word Web
Challenge
Write three sentences about a character in a movie you dislike, using 'antipathisch' in a different grammatical way each time (e.g., with 'finden', with 'sein' + dative, and as an attributive adjective).
Word Origin
Derived from the Greek word 'antipathēs', which comes from 'anti' (against) and 'pathos' (feeling/suffering).
Original meaning: Having a natural aversion or contrary feeling.
Indo-European (via Greek and Latin into German).Cultural Context
Calling someone antipathisch is a personal judgment. In a professional setting, use it with caution as it can sound very subjective and harsh.
English speakers often use 'unlikeable' or 'I don't like him'. 'Antipathic' exists in English but is very rare and academic. 'Antipathisch' is much more common in German.
Practice in Real Life
Real-World Contexts
First Meetings
- Er war mir auf den ersten Blick antipathisch.
- Ich hatte sofort ein antipathisches Gefühl.
- Sie wirkte beim ersten Treffen sehr antipathisch.
- Der erste Eindruck war leider eher antipathisch.
Workplace
- Der neue Kollege ist mir etwas antipathisch.
- Seine antipathische Art stört das Teamklima.
- Ich finde den Chef leider sehr antipathisch.
- Wir müssen professionell bleiben, auch wenn er uns antipathisch ist.
Media/Celebrities
- Dieser Moderator ist mir total antipathisch.
- Sie spielt oft antipathische Rollen.
- Warum finden alle diesen Sänger so antipathisch?
- Das Interview hat ihn sehr antipathisch wirken lassen.
Literature/Art
- Der Autor beschreibt eine antipathische Figur.
- Die Zeichnung wirkt düster und antipathisch.
- Ein antipathischer Protagonist kann interessant sein.
- Die Geschichte handelt von einer antipathischen Familie.
Personal Relationships
- Dein neuer Freund ist mir leider etwas antipathisch.
- Ich weiß nicht warum, aber sie ist mir einfach antipathisch.
- Es ist ein gegenseitig antipathisches Verhältnis.
- Versuch doch mal, nicht so antipathisch zu sein!
Conversation Starters
"Gibt es einen Schauspieler, den du total antipathisch findest, obwohl er eigentlich gut spielt?"
"War dir schon mal jemand auf den ersten Blick antipathisch, der später ein guter Freund wurde?"
"Welche Eigenschaften machen einen Menschen für dich sofort antipathisch?"
"Findest du es okay, jemanden antipathisch zu finden, ohne einen Grund zu haben?"
"Wie gehst du damit um, wenn dir dein Chef oder deine Chefin antipathisch ist?"
Journal Prompts
Beschreibe eine Situation, in der dir jemand auf Anhieb antipathisch war. Was war der Grund dafür?
Reflektiere darüber, ob du selbst manchmal auf andere antipathisch wirken könntest. In welchen Momenten?
Schreibe über einen fiktiven Charakter, den du zutiefst antipathisch findest. Was macht diesen Charakter so?
Ist es möglich, mit einer antipathischen Person erfolgreich zusammenzuarbeiten? Wie könnte das funktionieren?
Diskutiere den Unterschied zwischen 'unfreundlich' und 'antipathisch' anhand eines persönlichen Beispiels.
Frequently Asked Questions
10 questionsNot necessarily, but it can sound more definitive. 'Unsympathisch' is the standard way to say you don't like someone. 'Antipathisch' sounds a bit more like a character analysis. Both are quite strong judgments in German social life.
Usually, it's used for people. However, you can use it metaphorically for things that have a 'personality', like a city, a house, or a piece of music that you find deeply unpleasant in a personal way.
It is always a simple 't' sound. The 'h' is silent. Think of it as 'antipatish'.
Yes, it is very direct and quite insulting. It's usually a word used to describe someone to a third party.
The noun is 'die Antipathie'. For example: 'Ich habe eine große Antipathie gegen ihn.'
In German, many feelings and impressions use the dative to show who is experiencing the state. It's like saying 'It is to me unlikeable'.
It's rare, but possible. 'Er lachte antipathisch.' Usually, people would say 'Er hat ein antipathisches Lachen' instead.
'Böse' means evil or mean. Someone can be 'antipathisch' without being evil—maybe they are just arrogant or cold. Conversely, an evil villain in a movie could be 'sympathisch' (charming).
Yes, it is used throughout Germany, Austria, and Switzerland with the same meaning.
The comparative is 'antipathischer'. Example: 'Niemand ist antipathischer als er.'
Test Yourself 200 questions
Write a short paragraph about a character in a movie that you find antipathisch. Why do you feel this way?
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Compare two people you know (or fictional characters), one who is sympathisch and one who is antipathisch.
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Describe a situation where you met someone who seemed antipathisch at first, but later changed your mind.
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Write a formal email explaining why a certain team dynamic is difficult due to personal antipathies (use 'antipathisch').
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Explain the difference between 'unfreundlich' and 'antipathisch' in your own words.
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Create a dialogue between two friends gossiping about an antipathisch person they both know.
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Describe the 'perfect' antipathisch villain for a thriller novel.
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Write five sentences using 'antipathisch' with different grammatical structures (dative, accusative, attributive).
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Discuss whether it is fair to judge someone as 'antipathisch' based only on their appearance.
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How does an 'antipathische Ausstrahlung' affect a person's career? Write your thoughts.
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Write a short story about a man who is so antipathisch that even his shadow leaves him.
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Translate into German: 'I found the waiter extremely unlikeable, so I didn't leave a tip.'
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Describe your reaction when you have to work with someone you find antipathisch.
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Write a review of a book where the main character was very antipathisch.
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Explain why 'Antipathie' can be a useful instinct in some situations.
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Create a list of five adjectives that often go together with 'antipathisch'.
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Write a diary entry about a bad date with an antipathisch person.
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How do you say 'He is the most unlikeable person in the world' in German?
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Draft a short speech about the importance of 'Sympathie' over 'Antipathie' in a team.
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Use the word 'antipathisch' in a sentence with 'obwohl'.
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Tell a story about a person you found antipathisch at first sight. Use the phrase 'auf den ersten Blick'.
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Explain to a friend why you don't want to go to a party where a specific antipathisch person will be.
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Describe a fictional villain and use 'antipathisch' to explain their personality.
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Discuss the pros and cons of being honest about finding someone antipathisch.
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Roleplay: You are a manager and you have to talk to an employee who acts 'antipathisch' towards customers.
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How do you react when you realize someone finds YOU antipathisch? Talk about it.
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Talk about the importance of first impressions and the word 'antipathisch'.
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Give a short presentation on 'Social Chemistry' using the words 'sympathisch' and 'antipathisch'.
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Compare 'antipathisch' with 'unfreundlich' in a spoken explanation.
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Describe an 'antipathische Ausstrahlung' and what contributes to it.
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Is it possible for a whole group to be antipathisch? Discuss.
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Tell a joke or a funny story involving someone who was very antipathisch.
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How would you describe an 'antipathic' character in English compared to German?
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Discuss if 'Antipathie' can be overcome over time.
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Explain the phrase 'Ich kann ihn nicht riechen' using the word 'antipathisch'.
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Practice the pronunciation of 'antipathisch' ten times, focusing on the 't' sound and the stress on 'pa'.
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Talk about a time you had to be professional with someone you found zutiefst antipathisch.
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What makes a politician antipathisch to you? Discuss.
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Describe an 'antipathisches' building or place. Why does it feel that way?
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Summarize why 'antipathisch' is a useful word for B1 learners.
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Listen to a description of a person: 'Er redet nur über sich selbst, lacht über andere und hilft nie.' Is this person sympathisch or antipathisch?
A woman says: 'Ich finde den neuen Chef eigentlich ganz okay, aber meine Kollegin findet ihn total antipathisch.' Does the woman find the boss unlikeable?
A man says: 'Mir war er von Anfang an antipathisch.' When did he start disliking the person?
A review says: 'Der Protagonist ist leider so antipathisch, dass man das Buch nach 50 Seiten weglegen möchte.' Does the reviewer recommend the book?
You hear: 'Es ist mir ein Rätsel, warum sie so antipathisch wirkt.' Does the speaker know the reason for the woman's unlikeability?
You hear: 'Trotz seiner antipathischen Art ist er ein Genie.' What is the man's positive trait?
A friend says: 'Ich finde ihn nicht böse, nur ein bisschen antipathisch.' What is the distinction the friend is making?
You hear: 'Die Antipathie war gegenseitig.' How many people felt the dislike?
You hear: 'Seine arrogante Ausdrucksweise macht ihn extrem antipathisch.' What specifically makes him unlikeable?
A child says: 'Der Mann da ist doof und antipathisch!' Is the child being polite?
You hear: 'Ich versuche, meine Antipathie zu verbergen.' What is the person trying to do?
You hear: 'Er hat eine sehr antipathische Stimme.' What does the speaker dislike?
A coworker says: 'Der neue Kollege kommt antipathisch rüber.' What is the coworker's impression?
You hear: 'Nichts ist mir antipathischer als Unehrlichkeit.' What does the speaker find most unlikeable?
You hear: 'Das war eine zutiefst antipathische Geste.' What was unlikeable?
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Summary
Antipathisch is the essential German word for describing someone who rubs you the wrong way. Use it to express a visceral lack of chemistry, like in: 'Ich finde ihn extrem antipathisch' (I find him extremely unlikeable).
- Antipathisch means unlikeable or unsympathetic; it's the opposite of sympathisch.
- It describes an instinctive feeling of dislike towards someone's personality.
- Commonly used with 'finden' (to find) or in the dative 'jemandem antipathisch sein'.
- It is a strong word, often describing a fundamental character clash.
Dative Construction
Always remember to use 'mir' (dative) when saying someone is unlikeable to you. 'Er ist mich antipathisch' is a common mistake for English speakers.
Use Synonyms
In casual conversation, use 'unsympathisch' more often. Save 'antipathisch' for when you want to be more specific or formal.
Silent H
The 'th' is just a 't'. Don't let your English brain trick you into making a 'th' sound!
Be Careful
Calling someone 'antipathisch' is a strong judgment. Use it wisely, especially in professional settings.
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