B2 Collocation Neutral 2 min read

find with

Discover something with someone

Literally: to locate or discover with

In 15 Seconds

  • Used to describe someone who is constantly criticizing or complaining.
  • Focuses on small mistakes or flaws in people and things.
  • Common in work, relationships, and reviews of creative works.

Meaning

To 'find fault with' someone or something means you are looking for mistakes or reasons to complain. It is like being a detective who only searches for what is wrong instead of what is right.

Key Examples

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Complaining about a boss

My manager always finds fault with my reports, even when they are perfect.

مديري دائماً ما ينتقد تقاريري، حتى عندما تكون مثالية.

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A picky eater at a restaurant

He tried to find fault with the steak, but it was delicious.

حاول أن يجد عيباً في شريحة اللحم، لكنها كانت لذيذة.

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Texting a friend about a date

He was nice, but he kept finding fault with everything the waiter did.

كان لطيفاً، لكنه استمر في انتقاد كل ما فعله النادل.

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Cultural Background

This expression has been used in English for centuries to describe a critical spirit. It reflects a cultural dislike for people who are never satisfied or who act superior by pointing out others' errors. In modern corporate culture, it is often contrasted with being 'solution-oriented.'

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The 'Always' Connection

This phrase is almost always used with 'always' or 'constantly' because it describes a habit of being negative.

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Don't use it for help

If you want to help someone, say 'I have some feedback.' If you say 'I found fault with your work,' they will think you are being mean.

In 15 Seconds

  • Used to describe someone who is constantly criticizing or complaining.
  • Focuses on small mistakes or flaws in people and things.
  • Common in work, relationships, and reviews of creative works.

What It Means

To find fault with is to be picky. You focus on the flaws in a person, an object, or an idea. It is not just noticing a mistake. It is actively searching for things to criticize. Think of that one friend who hates every movie. They always find fault with the acting or the ending.

How To Use It

You usually follow the phrase with the person or thing you dislike. Use it like this: Subject + find fault with + Object. You can use it in any tense. For example, 'She is always finding fault with my cooking.' It sounds more natural than just saying 'she complains.' It implies a habit of being negative.

When To Use It

Use this when someone is being overly critical. It fits perfectly in work reviews or relationship talks. Use it when a boss is never satisfied. It works when a customer is being difficult at a restaurant. It describes a mindset of constant dissatisfaction. It is great for venting to friends about a judgmental relative.

When NOT To Use It

Do not use it for constructive, helpful feedback. If you are trying to help someone improve, this phrase sounds too harsh. Avoid it in very happy, positive moments. It is a 'negative' phrase by nature. Don't use it if the mistake is huge and obvious. It is usually for small, annoying details.

Cultural Background

English speakers value 'politeness' and 'directness' differently. Saying someone 'finds fault' is a polite way to call them a 'complainer.' It suggests they are looking for trouble where there is none. In Western workplaces, being someone who 'finds fault' is seen as a bad trait. It suggests you aren't a team player.

Common Variations

You might hear people say pick holes in something. That is a more informal, British version. You could also hear nitpick. Nitpick is for very tiny, unimportant faults. Find fault with is the standard, most versatile version of this idea.

Usage Notes

This phrase is neutral and safe for both office and home. Be careful not to use it when you actually mean 'to give helpful advice,' as it sounds like you are accusing the person of being annoying.

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The 'Always' Connection

This phrase is almost always used with 'always' or 'constantly' because it describes a habit of being negative.

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Don't use it for help

If you want to help someone, say 'I have some feedback.' If you say 'I found fault with your work,' they will think you are being mean.

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The 'Fault-Finder'

In English, we sometimes call a person a 'fault-finder.' It is a very old-fashioned and slightly poetic way to call someone a hater!

Examples

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#1 Complaining about a boss
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My manager always finds fault with my reports, even when they are perfect.

مديري دائماً ما ينتقد تقاريري، حتى عندما تكون مثالية.

Shows a repetitive habit of criticism in a professional setting.

#2 A picky eater at a restaurant
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He tried to find fault with the steak, but it was delicious.

حاول أن يجد عيباً في شريحة اللحم، لكنها كانت لذيذة.

Used to describe someone looking for a reason to complain.

#3 Texting a friend about a date

He was nice, but he kept finding fault with everything the waiter did.

كان لطيفاً، لكنه استمر في انتقاد كل ما فعله النادل.

Highlights a negative personality trait during a social event.

#4 A humorous observation about a perfectionist
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If you gave her a bar of gold, she would find fault with the shape of it.

لو أعطيتها سبائك ذهب، لوجدت عيباً في شكلها.

An exaggerated way to say someone is impossible to please.

#5 An emotional conversation in a relationship
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I feel like you just find fault with me lately instead of supporting me.

أشعر أنك فقط تنتقدني مؤخراً بدلاً من دعمي.

Expresses hurt feelings regarding constant criticism.

#6 Discussing a movie critic
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Critics often find fault with popular movies just to seem smart.

غالباً ما ينتقد النقاد الأفلام الشهيرة فقط ليبدوا أذكياء.

Refers to professional criticism that feels unnecessary.

Test Yourself

Choose the correct word to complete the phrase.

It is easy to ___ fault with others, but hard to see our own mistakes.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: find

The standard collocation is 'find fault with'.

Complete the sentence describing a picky person.

Stop finding fault ___ everything I wear!

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: with

We always use the preposition 'with' after 'find fault'.

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Visual Learning Aids

Formality of 'Find Fault With'

Informal

Using 'nitpick' or 'moan about'.

Stop nitpicking!

Neutral

Standard use of 'find fault with'.

He finds fault with my work.

Formal

Using 'express dissatisfaction' or 'critique'.

The committee expressed dissatisfaction.

When to say 'Find Fault With'

Find Fault With
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Work Review

Boss finds fault with a project.

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Dining Out

Customer finds fault with the service.

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Relationships

Partner finds fault with habits.

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Art/Media

Critic finds fault with a new book.

Practice Bank

2 exercises
Choose the correct word to complete the phrase. Fill Blank

It is easy to ___ fault with others, but hard to see our own mistakes.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: find

The standard collocation is 'find fault with'.

Complete the sentence describing a picky person. Fill Blank

Stop finding fault ___ everything I wear!

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: with

We always use the preposition 'with' after 'find fault'.

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Frequently Asked Questions

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Yes, but it is more specific. 'Criticize' can be professional, but 'find fault with' often implies the person is looking for things to be unhappy about.

Yes! You can say, I always find fault with my own drawings. It means you are your own toughest critic.

It isn't a swear word, but it is a negative observation. Telling someone You always find fault with me is a serious confrontation.

Nitpicking is for tiny, tiny details that don't matter. Finding fault can be for bigger things too.

Usually, we keep 'fault' singular in this specific idiom: find fault with. Using the plural sounds less natural.

Very common. It is used to describe difficult clients or overly strict supervisors who are never satisfied.

Just change 'find' to 'found'. For example: The inspector found fault with the building's wiring.

Usually, yes, because finding fault requires a mind. However, a report or a review can also find fault with something.

No, it is strictly for negative criticism. You cannot 'find fault' with something you love.

No, the phrase is a fixed collocation. It is always find fault with.

Related Phrases

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pick holes in

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nitpick

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complain about

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run down

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tear apart

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