B1 Collocation Neutral 1 min read

Set an example.

Provide a model.

Phrase in 30 Seconds

To behave in a way that others should imitate, especially to show them how to act.

  • Means: To act as a model for others to follow.
  • Used in: Parenting, management, and teaching contexts.
  • Don't confuse: 'Set an example' (positive/neutral) with 'set a precedent' (legal/formal).
Action + Observation = Imitation

Explanation at your level:

To set an example means to do something good so other people see it and do the same thing. For example, if you are a good student, you help other students be good too.
When you set an example, you act in a way that others should copy. It is often used for parents, teachers, or bosses. You show people the right way to behave by doing it yourself.
The phrase 'set an example' describes the act of behaving in a manner that serves as a model for others. It is commonly used when discussing leadership, parenting, or social conduct. By performing an action, you provide a standard that you expect others to follow, effectively teaching them through your own behavior rather than just through words.
To 'set an example' is to provide a behavioral template for others to emulate. This collocation is frequently employed in professional and educational discourse to emphasize the importance of personal conduct in influencing group dynamics. It suggests that one's actions are intentional and carry a pedagogical weight, serving as a benchmark for acceptable or desired behavior within a specific social or organizational context.
The idiom 'set an example' functions as a mechanism for social modeling, where an individual's conduct is consciously curated to influence the normative behavior of a collective. It is a cornerstone of leadership theory, where the 'exemplar' acts as a catalyst for cultural transmission. The phrase implies a degree of agency, where the subject recognizes their position as a reference point for others, thereby legitimizing their own actions as the standard for the group.
The collocation 'set an example' is a linguistic manifestation of observational learning theory. It denotes the deliberate projection of a behavioral paradigm intended for replication by an audience. From a sociolinguistic perspective, it functions as an indexical marker of authority or moral standing. When an agent 'sets an example,' they are essentially codifying a set of behavioral expectations, thereby exerting soft power over the group's normative framework. This usage transcends simple imitation, touching upon the cognitive processes of social identification and the internalization of group standards.

Meaning

To behave in a way that others should imitate.

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Cultural Background

Highly individualistic; setting an example is often linked to personal success.

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Use 'for'

Always remember to set an example FOR someone.

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Use 'for'

Always remember to set an example FOR someone.

Test Yourself

Fill in the blank with the correct preposition.

He tried to set an example ___ his younger brother.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: for

We set an example FOR someone.

🎉 Score: /1

Practice Bank

2 exercises
Choose the correct answer Fill Blank

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer:
Fill in the blank with the correct preposition. Fill Blank B1

He tried to set an example ___ his younger brother.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: for

We set an example FOR someone.

🎉 Score: /2

Frequently Asked Questions

1 questions

Yes, it is very common.

Related Phrases

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Lead by example

similar

To lead through actions.

Where to Use It

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Parenting

Mom: Why are you yelling at your brother?

Dad: I'm sorry. I need to set an example of patience.

neutral
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Workplace

Boss: We need to arrive early to set an example for the new team.

formal

Memorize It

Mnemonic

Think of a 'Set' (a tennis set) where you play so well that everyone wants to play like you.

Visual Association

Imagine a parent walking through deep snow, lifting their feet high so their child can step exactly in their footprints.

Rhyme

To show the way, don't just say, set an example every day.

Story

Little Leo watched his dad always hold the door for others. One day, Leo held the door for a stranger. His dad smiled, knowing he had set an example that Leo was now following.

In Other Languages

Most languages have an equivalent. The concept of 'being a mirror' or 'showing the path' is universal.

Word Web

role modelinfluenceimitatestandardbehaviorleadershipmentorconduct

Challenge

Identify one positive habit you have. Today, perform it intentionally in front of someone else to 'set an example'.

Review in 1 day, 3 days, 1 week, and 1 month.

Pronunciation

Stress Stress on 'set'.

Short 'e' sound.

Formality Spectrum

Formal
We must set an example of professional conduct.

We must set an example of professional conduct. (Professional vs. Casual)

Neutral
We should set a good example for the team.

We should set a good example for the team. (Professional vs. Casual)

Informal
Try to set a good example for the kids.

Try to set a good example for the kids. (Professional vs. Casual)

Slang
Show 'em how it's done.

Show 'em how it's done. (Professional vs. Casual)

From Latin 'exemplum', meaning a sample or pattern. It moved through Old French into Middle English.

14th Century:

Fun Fact

The word 'example' is a cousin to 'sample'.

Cultural Notes

Highly individualistic; setting an example is often linked to personal success.

“The entrepreneur set an example of how to start a business from a garage.”

Conversation Starters

Who set an example for you growing up?

Common Mistakes

Set an example to

Set an example for

wrong preposition
We usually set an example *for* the person we want to influence, not *to* them.

L1 Interference

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In Other Languages

Spanish Very Similar

Dar ejemplo

Verb choice (give vs. set).

German moderate

Ein Vorbild sein

Focus on state vs. action.

French Very Similar

Donner l'exemple

Verb choice.

Japanese Very Similar

手本を示す (Tehon o shimesu)

Cultural nuance of showing vs. setting.

Arabic moderate

يضرب مثلاً (Yadribu mathalan)

Unique verb usage.

Chinese Very Similar

树立榜样 (Shùlì bǎngyàng)

Focus on establishing a model.

Korean moderate

본보기가 되다 (Bonbogiga doeda)

State-based vs. action-based.

Portuguese Very Similar

Dar o exemplo

Verb choice.

Spotted in the Real World

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(1989)

“I want you to set an example.”

Teaching students to be individuals.

Easily Confused

Set an example. vs Set a precedent

Both involve setting a standard.

Precedent is for rules/laws; example is for behavior.

Frequently Asked Questions (1)

Yes, it is very common.

usage contexts

Learning Path

Prerequisites

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