Expressing Vibes and Feelings with ~げ (~ge)
~げ to describe the nuanced, observable 'air' or 'vibe' of someone's internal feelings or a situation's atmosphere.
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use ~げ (~ge) to describe the 'vibe' or 'appearance' of someone or something based on your intuition.
- Attach ~げ to the stem of i-adjectives (drop 'i'): {寂しい|さびしい} → {寂しげ|さびしげ}.
- Attach ~げ to the stem of na-adjectives: {元気|げんき} → {元気げ|げんきげ}.
- It turns adjectives into nouns or adverbs describing a perceived state or feeling.
Overview
In Japanese, expressing what you observe is a nuanced art. You have learned ~そう for direct visual evidence, like a cake that looks delicious (おいしそう). However, when you perceive something deeper—an internal feeling, a mood, or an atmosphere that is subtly expressed externally—you need a more refined tool.
This is the role of the suffix ~げ (~ge). It attaches to the stem of adjectives and certain verbs to describe the outward appearance or 'air' of an inner state. Think of it as the grammar for detecting a 'vibe'.
~げ translates to 'seeming,' 'looking like,' or 'with an air of.' While ~そう is about sensory data (what you see, hear, etc.), ~げ is about inference. You are not just seeing sadness; you are observing the signs of sadness. This distinction is crucial at the B2 level and beyond.
A person might have a 悲しげな顔 (a sad-looking face), or a company might release a statement with a 自信なさげなトーン (a tone that seems to lack confidence). Mastering ~げ allows you to move from simply stating facts to describing the subtle, often unspoken, emotional context of a situation. It has a slightly literary and formal feel, but it is common in mature, observant speech and writing across many contexts.
Linguistically, ~げ is thought to derive from the character 気, meaning 'spirit,' 'mood,' or 'sensation.' This origin highlights its function: it describes a perceivable 気配 (indication, sign, hint) of a feeling or state. It is not about the feeling itself, but the way that feeling 'leaks' into the observable world. When you use ~げ, you are positioning yourself as an astute observer, commenting on the subtle cues that betray a person's or situation's true nature.
How This Grammar Works
~げ is to transform an adjective or a verb in its ~たい form into a na-adjective (形容動詞). Once ~げ is attached, the resulting word behaves exactly like any other na-adjective. This is the most important rule to remember, as it dictates all subsequent usage patterns.- 1To modify a noun: Use
~げな+ Noun. This is the most common usage, describing a noun that possesses a certain 'air' or 'look.' Theなis the standard adjectival particle for na-adjectives.
彼は寂しげな目をしていた。(Kare wa sabishige na me o shite ita.) - He had lonely-looking eyes.何か言いたげな様子だったので、声をかけた。(Nani ka iitage na yōsu datta node, koe o kaketa.) - They seemed like they wanted to say something, so I spoke to them.
- 1To function as an adverb: Use
~げに+ Verb. This modifies the following verb, describing an action performed 'in a ... way' or 'with a ... look.'
彼女は満足げにうなずいた。(Kanojo wa manzokuge ni unazuita.) - She nodded with a look of satisfaction.子供たちは楽しげに遊んでいる。(Kodomo-tachi wa tanoshige ni asonde iru.) - The children are playing, looking like they're having fun.
- 1To act as a predicate: Use
~げだ(plain) or~げです(polite) to end a sentence. This usage is less common than the adjectival or adverbial forms but is grammatically correct. It makes a direct assertion about the observable state.
彼の表情はどこか苦しげだった。(Kare no hyōjō wa doko ka kurushige datta.) - His expression seemed somewhat pained.新しいプロジェクトリーダーは、かなり自信ありげです。(Atarashii purojekuto rīdā wa, kanari jishin arige desu.) - The new project leader seems quite confident.
~げ creates a standard na-adjective is the key to using it flexibly and accurately. All the conjugation rules you know for na-adjectives (e.g., past tense ~げだった, negative ~げではなかった, te-form ~げで) apply perfectly.Formation Pattern
~げ are consistent and depend on the word type. The resulting word is always a na-adjective.
い) + げ | 悲しい → 悲し | 悲しげ (sad-looking) | かなしげ |
い) + げ | 楽しい → 楽し | 楽しげ (fun-looking) | たのしげ |
な) + げ | 不安な → 不安 | 不安げ (anxious-looking) | ふあんげ |
な) + げ | 得意な → 得意 | 得意げ (proud/smug-looking) | とくいげ |
たい form) | Stem (drop い from たい) + げ | 言いたい → 言いた | 言いたげ (looks like one wants to say) | いいたげ |
たい form) | Stem (drop い from たい) + げ | 知りたい → 知りた | 知りたげ (looks like one wants to know) | しりたげ |
ある/ない
~げ is its interaction with ない (to not exist/have) and ある (to exist/have). This creates some very common and useful expressions. The pattern involves using the stem form なさ or あり.
ない: The adjective ない becomes なさ + げ. This is a common way to express the 'lack' of a quality.
自信がない (not confident) → 自信なさげ (seeming to lack confidence)
落ち着きがない (not calm) → 落ち着きなさげ (seeming restless or not calm)
彼は終始、落ち着きなさげに貧乏ゆすりをしていた。 (Kare wa shūshi, ochitsukinasage ni binbōyusuri o shite ita.) - The entire time, he was restlessly shaking his leg.
ある: This is used less frequently than なさげ, but appears in fixed expressions, most notably with 意味 (meaning) and 自信 (confidence).
意味がある (is meaningful) → 意味ありげ (seeming meaningful/significant)
自信がある (is confident) → 自信ありげ (seeming confident)
彼女は彼に意味ありげな視線を送った。 (Kanojo wa kare ni imiari-ge na shisen o okutta.) - She gave him a meaningful/significant look.
When To Use It
~げ over other similar expressions like ~そう or ~っぽい is a hallmark of an advanced speaker. Use ~げ in the following situations:~げ. It is used when you observe someone and infer their emotional or mental state from their behavior, expression, or tone. You are commenting on the external signs of an internal feeling.部長は不満げな顔でこちらを見ている。(Buchō wa fumange na kao de kochira o mite iru.) - The department head is looking over here with a dissatisfied expression.合格発表を見て、彼女は嬉しげに飛び跳ねた。(Gōkaku happyō o mite, kanojo wa ureshige ni tobihaneta.) - Seeing the acceptance notice, she jumped up and down with a look of pure joy.
~げ can also describe the 'vibe' of an inanimate object or a location, personifying it by giving it an apparent emotional quality.古くて怪しげな店が路地裏にあった。(Furukute ayashige na mise ga rojiura ni atta.) - There was an old, suspicious-looking shop in the back alley.秋の夕暮れは、どこか物寂しげな風景だ。(Aki no yūgure wa, doko ka monosabishige na fūkei da.) - The autumn twilight creates a somewhat lonely-looking landscape.
~げ carries a more descriptive, formal, and sometimes literary nuance than ~そう. It is frequently used in novels, essays, and news reports to provide rich descriptions. Using it in business emails or presentations to describe a client's reaction (不安げな表情) can make your report sound more observant and precise.~げ vs. ~そう vs. ~っぽい~げ | Inferred Inner State. 'An air of...' | Indirect, observational. You see the signs of a feeling. | 悲しげな顔 (A sad-looking face; you infer sadness from their expression.) |~そう | Direct Sensory Evidence. 'Looks/sounds like...' | Direct, visual/auditory. You see something about to happen or a clear visual property. | 雨が降りそう (It looks like it will rain; you see dark clouds.) おいしそうなケーキ (A delicious-looking cake; you see its appearance.) |~っぽい | Typical Quality. '-ish,' 'like a...' | Judgmental, categorical. The noun possesses the typical, often negative, characteristics of something. | 子供っぽい (Childish; they act like a typical child.) 黒っぽい服 (Blackish clothes; the color is in the black category.) |~そう for what your eyes see directly. Use ~げ for the emotions you infer from those sights. Use ~っぽい when you categorize something as having the typical traits of a group.Common Mistakes
~げ sound much more natural. Pay close attention to the following points.~げ with ~そう~げ cannot be used for direct sensory information or objective properties. It is exclusively for inferred internal states. If you use it for a physical description, it sounds overly poetic or simply incorrect.- Incorrect:
このケーキはおいしげだ。(Kono kēki wa oishige da.) - Why it's wrong: 'Delicious' is a sensory quality. The cake isn't feeling delicious; it looks delicious. The correct grammar is based on direct visual assessment.
- Correct:
このケーキはおいしそうだ。(Kono kēki wa oishisō da.) - Incorrect:
空が暗くて、雨が降りげだ。(Sora ga kurakute, ame ga furige da.) - Why it's wrong: The possibility of rain is an inference from physical evidence (dark clouds), not an emotional state of the sky.
~そうis for this kind of prediction based on observation. - Correct:
空が暗くて、雨が降りそうだ。(Sora ga kurakute, ame ga furisō da.)
~げ to Describe Your Own Feelings~げ is an observational tool used for others. Using it for yourself (私は悲しげです。 - Watashi wa kanashige desu.) sounds bizarre, as if you are observing your own emotions from a detached, third-person perspective. You know your own feelings directly; you don't need to infer them.- Incorrect:
今日はとても眠げです。(Kyō wa totemo nemuge desu.) - Correct:
今日はとても眠いです。(Kyō wa totemo nemui desu.) - The only exception is when quoting someone else's observation of you, or in highly literary, self-reflective writing where you are intentionally creating a sense of detachment.
~げ to Unsuitable Adjectives~げ has a strong preference for adjectives describing emotions, feelings, mental states, and perceivable dispositions. It does not work with simple physical attributes like color, size, shape, or objective states.- Cannot be used with:
赤い(red),大きい(big),高い(expensive/tall),重い(heavy),新しい(new). - You would never say
赤げなリンゴ(a reddish-looking apple) or大きげなビル(a big-looking building). For these, you would use~そうif there's uncertainty, or simply state the fact.
~げ into every sentence in a casual chat with friends can make you sound stiff or pretentious. In very casual speech, ~そう or ~みたい are often used even for feelings, though ~げ is more precise. Use it when you want to sound particularly observant or when the context is slightly more formal.Common Collocations
~げ expressions are so common that they function almost as set phrases. Learning these will significantly improve your fluency and make your Japanese sound more sophisticated.自信ありげ/なさげ- (Seeming confident / lacking confidence)- One of the most useful pairs. Perfect for describing someone's demeanor in a presentation, interview, or competition.
彼は面接で自信ありげに質問に答えた。(Kare wa mensetsu de jishin arige ni shitsumon ni kotaeta.) - He answered the questions confidently in the interview.
怪しげ- (Suspicious-looking, shady)- Used for people, places, or even abstract things like emails or websites that give off a dubious vibe.
路地裏に立つ男と目が合ったが、実に怪しげだった。(Rojiura ni tatsu otoko to me ga atta ga, jitsu ni ayashige datta.) - I made eye contact with a man standing in the alley, and he looked truly shady.
得意げ- (Proud-looking, smug, triumphant)- Describes the look of someone who is proud of their accomplishment.
ドヤ顔(doyagao) is the slang term for a得意げな顔. 子供は満点のテストを母親に得意げに見せた。(Kodomo wa manten no tesuto o hahaoya ni tokuige ni miseta.) - The child smugly showed his mother the test with the perfect score.
言いたげ- (Looking as if one wants to say something)- Extremely common for describing a person who is holding something back or hesitating to speak.
彼女は何か言いたげだったが、結局何も言わずに部屋を出ていった。(Kanojo wa nani ka iitage datta ga, kekkyoku nani mo iwazu ni heya o dete itta.) - She looked like she wanted to say something, but in the end, she left the room without saying anything.
大人げない- (Childish, immature)- This is a fixed, negative expression. The positive form
*大人げis not used. It means 'lacking the quality of an adult.' {そんなことで怒るなんて、大人げないよ。(Sonna koto de okoru nante, otonagenai yo.) - Getting angry over something like that is so childish.
惜しげもなく- (Lavishly, generously, without regret)- A literary expression meaning to give or use something valuable (like money, talent, or praise) freely and without hesitation.
彼は自らのノウハウを後輩に惜しげもなく教えた。(Kare wa mizukara no nōhau o kōhai ni oshige mo naku oshieta.) - He generously taught his own expertise to his juniors without holding anything back.
Quick FAQ
~げ more polite than ~そう?It's not about politeness, but formality and nuance. ~げ is more formal, descriptive, and literary. In a business context, describing a client as 不安げ (fuan-ge) sounds more observant and analytical than 不安そう (fuan-sō), which can sound more like a casual, personal impression. Neither is inherently rude.
~げ with positive emotions?Yes, absolutely. While many common examples are negative (悲しげ, 不安げ), it works perfectly well for positive feelings. 嬉しげ (happy-looking), 楽しげ (fun/joyful-looking), and 満足げ (satisfied-looking) are all very common.
悲しげ and 悲しそう?Think of it as inference vs. impression. 悲しそう (kanashisō) is a direct, somewhat simple impression: "You look sad." 悲しげ (kanashige) is a more detached observation of the evidence of sadness: "You have an air of sadness about you." The latter implies you are analyzing their expression, posture, and tone. ~げ is often preferred in writing because it feels more objective and descriptive.
~なさげ vs ~くなさげ?The standard negative formation is [Noun/Adjective Stem] + なさげ. For example, 面白くない (not interesting) becomes 面白くなさげ (seeming uninteresting), and 自信がない (not confident) becomes 自信なさげ (seeming unconfident). The pattern {adjective stem} + くない becomes {adjective stem} + くなさげ. It's a bit of a mouthful, so [Noun] + なさげ is more common in practice.
~げ in a text message to a friend?Yes, especially for specific collocations. Texting あの人、めっちゃ怪しげじゃない？ ("Doesn't that person look super shady?") is perfectly natural. Using more literary forms might seem a bit dramatic depending on your relationship, but common ones are fine.
~げ conjugate in the past tense?Since it creates a na-adjective, it follows the standard na-adjective conjugation. The past tense is ~げだった (plain) or ~げでした (polite).
彼は寂しげだった。(Kare wa sabishige datta.) - He seemed lonely.その時の彼女は、とても誇らしげでした。(Sono toki no kanojo wa, totemo hokorashige deshita.) - At that time, she appeared very proud.
Formation Table
| Base Type | Example | Base | Result |
|---|---|---|---|
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i-adj
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寂しい
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寂し
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寂しげ
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na-adj
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元気
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元気
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元気げ
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i-adj
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嬉しい
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嬉し
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嬉しげ
|
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na-adj
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不満
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不満
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不満げ
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i-adj
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悲しい
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悲し
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悲しげ
|
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na-adj
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大人
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大人
|
大人げ
|
Meanings
Indicates that the speaker perceives a certain quality or feeling in someone's appearance or behavior.
Visual Impression
Describes how someone looks to the observer.
“{彼|かれ}は{嬉しげ|うれしげ}に{話|はなし}した。”
“{困|こま}ったような{顔|かお}を{見|み}せる。”
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
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Affirmative
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Stem + げ
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寂しげ
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Negative
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Stem + げではない
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寂しげではない
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Past
|
Stem + げだった
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寂しげだった
|
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Adverbial
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Stem + げに
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寂しげに
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Adnominal
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Stem + げな
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寂しげな
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Question
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Stem + げですか
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寂しげですか
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Formality Spectrum
彼は寂しげな様子です。 (Describing someone's mood.)
彼は寂しげです。 (Describing someone's mood.)
彼、寂しげだね。 (Describing someone's mood.)
寂しげ〜。 (Describing someone's mood.)
The ~ge Vibe Map
Emotion
- 寂しげ lonely-looking
State
- 元気げ energetic-looking
Examples by Level
{寂しげ|さびしげ}な{猫|ねこ}。
A lonely-looking cat.
{嬉しげ|うれしげ}な{顔|かお}。
A happy-looking face.
{元気げ|げんきげ}な{子|こ}。
An energetic-looking child.
{困|こま}り{げ|げ}。
Looking troubled.
{彼|かれ}は{自信|じしん}あり{げ|げ}に{歩|ある}いた。
He walked looking confident.
{彼女|かのじょ}は{悲|かな}し{げ|げ}な{声|こえ}で{言|い}った。
She said it in a sad-sounding voice.
{不思議|ふしぎ}そうに{見|み}る。
Looking curiously.
{大人|おとな}げない{行動|こうどう}。
Childish behavior.
{何|なに}か{言|い}いた{げ|げ}な{目|め}をしていた。
He had eyes that looked like he wanted to say something.
{不満|ふまん}げな{表情|ひょうじょう}。
A dissatisfied-looking expression.
{彼|かれ}の{態度|たいど}は{余裕|よゆう}あり{げ|げ}だった。
His attitude seemed to have composure.
{興味|きょうみ}あり{げ|げ}に{聞|き}く。
Listening as if interested.
{彼女|かのじょ}の{寂|さび}し{げ|げ}な{背中|せなか}が{印象的|いんしょうてき}だった。
Her lonely-looking back was impressive.
{彼|かれ}は{不満|ふまん}げに{唇|くちびる}を{噛|か}んだ。
He bit his lip, looking dissatisfied.
{勝利|しょうり}を{確信|かくしん}したような{誇|ほこ}らし{げ|げ}な{笑|わら}み。
A proud smile that looked like he was sure of victory.
{気|き}の{毒|どく}げな{様子|ようす}。
Looking pitiful.
{何|なに}か{言|い}いた{げ|げ}な{沈黙|ちんもく}が{流|なが}れた。
A silence that seemed to want to say something flowed.
{彼|かれ}の{振|ふ}る{舞|ま}いは{どこか|どこか}大人げない。
His behavior is somewhat childish.
{不安|ふあん}げな{面持|おももち}で{空|そら}を{見上|みあ}げた。
He looked up at the sky with an anxious expression.
{満足|まんぞく}げに{頷|うなず}く。
Nodding with a look of satisfaction.
{古|ふる}い{小説|しょうせつ}には、{寂|さび}し{げ|げ}な{情景|じょうけい}が{多|おお}く{描|えが}かれている。
Old novels often depict lonely-looking scenes.
{彼|かれ}の{言動|げんどう}には{大人|おとな}げなさが{滲|にじ}み{出|で}ていた。
Childishness was seeping out of his words and actions.
{何|なに}か{隠|かく}し{げ|げ}な{態度|たいど}。
An attitude that looks like it's hiding something.
{誇|ほこ}らし{げ|げ}に{語|かた}る{姿|すがた}。
The figure of someone speaking proudly.
Easily Confused
Both mean 'looks like'.
Common Mistakes
学生げ
学生らしい
暑いげ
暑そう
食べるげ
食べたそう
悲しげなことだ
悲しいことだ
Sentence Patterns
___げな顔をしている。
Real World Usage
彼は寂しげに笑った。
Use for emotions
Smart Tips
Use ~げ for emotional depth.
Pronunciation
Pitch accent
The pitch usually falls on the syllable before 'ge'.
Falling
寂しげ↓
Confirming an impression.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
Think of 'ge' as 'get a vibe'. You 'get' a vibe from someone's face.
Visual Association
Imagine a person standing in the rain. You see their face and immediately 'get' that they look sad. The 'ge' is the bubble above your head showing your intuition.
Rhyme
When the vibe is what you see, just add the suffix ge.
Story
I saw a man in the park. He looked lonely (寂しげ). I walked up to him. He looked like he wanted to talk (話したげ). I asked him if he was okay.
Word Web
Challenge
Look at three people in public (or in a movie) and describe their 'vibe' using ~げ in your head.
Cultural Notes
Used extensively to show character depth without explicit narration.
Derived from the classical suffix 'ge' indicating appearance.
Conversation Starters
あの人、何だか寂しげじゃない？
Journal Prompts
Common Mistakes
Test Yourself
彼は___げな顔をした。
Score: /1
Practice Exercises
1 exercises彼は___げな顔をした。
Score: /1
Practice Bank
7 exercises{彼女|かのじょ}は{寂|さび}し___にほほえんだ。
「{何|なに}か / {言|い}いたげな / {彼|かれ}は / {顔|かお} / をしていた」
Choose the more literary option:
He responded with an air of confidence.
{彼|かれ}は{嬉|うれ}しげな{笑|わら}った。
{自信|じしん}ありげ ↔ {自信|じしん}___
Scenario Matching:
Score: /7
FAQ (1)
No, use ~そう.
Scaffolded Practice
1
Mastery Progress
Needs Practice
Improving
Strong
Mastered
In Other Languages
parecer
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avoir l'air
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scheinen
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~そう
Subjectivity.
يبدو
Grammar type.
看起来
Word order.
Learning Path
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