Meaning
A feeling of regret or deep sorrow.
Cultural Background
The concept of 'Vicdan Azabı' (remorse) is very strong. 'İçine oturmak' is the most common way to express this feeling in daily life. In Turkish poetry, the 'iç' is often portrayed as a vast, sometimes dark landscape where memories and regrets live. Arabesk music frequently uses this idiom to describe the 'weight' of life and unrequited love. Parents often use this to express their sadness when their children are unhappy or far away.
Use with 'Keşke'
This idiom pairs perfectly with 'Keşke' (I wish). Example: 'Keşke gitseydim, gitmemek içime oturdu.'
Check the Case
Always use '-e' (içime, içine). Using '-de' (içimde) changes the meaning to literal sitting.
Meaning
A feeling of regret or deep sorrow.
Use with 'Keşke'
This idiom pairs perfectly with 'Keşke' (I wish). Example: 'Keşke gitseydim, gitmemek içime oturdu.'
Check the Case
Always use '-e' (içime, içine). Using '-de' (içimde) changes the meaning to literal sitting.
Test Yourself
Fill in the blank with the correct form of 'içine oturmak'.
Ona veda edememek çok ______.
The phrase is 'içime oturdu' (it sat inside me).
Which situation is most appropriate for 'İçine oturmak'?
Hangi durumda bu deyimi kullanırız?
The idiom is used for sadness or regret, such as losing a beloved item.
Complete the dialogue.
Ayşe: 'Sınavı kazanamadın mı?' Mehmet: 'Hayır, o kadar çalışmıştım ki, ______.'
Mehmet is expressing deep regret and sadness over failing despite his hard work.
Match the person with the correct phrase form.
Eşleştirin:
The possessive suffix must match the subject.
🎉 Score: /4
Visual Learning Aids
Practice Bank
4 exercisesOna veda edememek çok ______.
The phrase is 'içime oturdu' (it sat inside me).
Hangi durumda bu deyimi kullanırız?
The idiom is used for sadness or regret, such as losing a beloved item.
Ayşe: 'Sınavı kazanamadın mı?' Mehmet: 'Hayır, o kadar çalışmıştım ki, ______.'
Mehmet is expressing deep regret and sadness over failing despite his hard work.
Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:
The possessive suffix must match the subject.
🎉 Score: /4
Frequently Asked Questions
10 questionsYes, but only for a 'heavy' feeling in the stomach after eating too much. For other physical pains, use 'ağrımak'.
It is fine for a personal letter, but too emotional for a formal business letter.
'Üzüldüm' is general sadness. 'İçime oturdu' implies the sadness is heavy, lingering, and often involves regret.
It's understandable but less common. 'Yüreğime oturdu' is the standard alternative.
No, it is a standard idiom used by all age groups and social classes.
You can say 'Vicdanıma oturdu' or simply 'İçime oturdu'.
Yes, e.g., 'Onun içine oturdu' (It weighed on him).
Yes, as a warning: 'Bunu yapmazsan içine oturur' (If you don't do this, you'll regret it deeply).
No, it is exclusively for negative/heavy emotions.
Missed opportunities and empathy for the poor or suffering.
Related Phrases
İçine dert olmak
similarTo become a constant worry.
İçine sinmek
contrastTo feel comfortable/satisfied with something.
Yüreği sızlamak
similarTo feel a stinging pity.
İçini dökmek
builds onTo pour one's heart out.
