我已经结婚了。

You can use this phrase in almost any conversation. It works when meeting new colleagues. It works when catching up with old friends. Just drop it into a conversation about family or life. You don't need to add much else. It stands perfectly on its own.

Use it when someone asks about your relationship status. Use it at a wedding when someone asks if you're next. Use it at work during small talk. It is also a very polite "shield." If someone is flirting and you aren't interested, this is your best friend. It ends the pursuit without being rude.

Don't use it if you are only engaged. In Chinese culture, 结婚 specifically means the legal or ceremonial act. Don't use it if you are just in a long-term relationship. Also, avoid saying it too aggressively. Unless someone is really pushing you, keep the tone light. You don't want to sound like you're bragging about your ring!

Marriage is a huge milestone in Chinese society. People might ask about your status quite early. It isn't considered nosy; it's considered caring. In the past, being married was the "default" for adults. Today, things are changing, but the phrase remains a vital social marker. Telling someone you are married often changes how they interact with you. It usually brings a sense of stability and respect.

You might hear 我结婚了 (Wǒ jiéhūn le). This just means "I got married." It's slightly less emphatic than using "already." If you have kids, you might say 我连孩子都有了 (Wǒ lián háizi dōu yǒu le). This means "I even have kids already!" It’s a funny way to show you’ve been married for a while. If you want to be very casual, just say 结了 (jié le) when asked.