Being 'détǐ' means acting or dressing in a way that perfectly fits the social context and one's status.
Word in 30 Seconds
- Appropriate behavior or dress for a specific social occasion.
- Reflects social grace, emotional intelligence, and professional etiquette.
- Commonly describes speech, clothing, and general conduct.
用法模式：最常见的结构是‘得体的 + 名词’（如：得体的谈吐、得体的衣服）。此外，它也常用于‘动词 + 得 + 得体’的补语结构，例如‘话讲得很得体’或‘穿得很得体’。
- 1常见语境：该词多用于正式或半正式的社交场合。在职场面试、商务谈判、外事访问或重要的私人聚会（如婚礼、葬礼）中，‘得体’是评价一个人社交素质的核心标准。它暗示了一个人懂得尊重他人，并能根据场合调整自己的表现。
- 1词义辨析：‘得体’与‘合适’的区别在于，‘合适’的范围更广，可以形容鞋子合脚或天气好；而‘得体’专门用于形容人的社会属性。与‘体面’相比，‘体面’更侧重于外表的尊严或排场，而‘得体’更侧重于行为的内在逻辑和社交礼仪的精准把握。
Examples
他在聚会上的发言非常得体。
everydayHis speech at the party was very appropriate.
面试时，穿着得体能给面试官留下良好的第一印象。
formalDressing appropriately during an interview can leave a good first impression on the interviewer.
虽然他很生气，但回应依然十分得体。
informalAlthough he was angry, his response was still very decent.
在学术论文中使用得体的措辞是严谨性的体现。
academicUsing appropriate wording in academic papers is a reflection of rigor.
Common Collocations
Common Phrases
大方得体
poised and appropriate
言语得体
appropriate in speech
Often Confused With
General 'appropriateness' or 'fitting'. '得体' is specifically for social etiquette and status.
Focuses on 'face', dignity, or looking good/expensive. '得体' focuses on the fitness to the occasion.
Grammar Patterns
How to Use It
Usage Notes
The word is neutral to formal. It is highly valued in professional environments and high-stakes social situations. Using it shows the speaker has a good grasp of social nuances.
Common Mistakes
Do not use '得体' to describe the physical fit of an object (like a key in a lock). It must involve human behavior, appearance, or communication in a social context.
Tips
Use it to compliment social skills
When you want to praise someone's professional or social performance, '得体' is more sophisticated than just saying '好'.
Don't confuse with physical fit
If clothes fit your body size, use '合身'. Use '得体' if the clothes are appropriate for the event.
The concept of 'Face' and Propriety
In Chinese culture, being 'détǐ' is crucial for maintaining 'face' (mianzi) and showing respect to the host or the occasion.
Word Origin
Derived from classical Chinese concepts of 'Li' (Ritual), where '体' refers to the structure or embodiment of social norms.
Cultural Context
In Confucian-influenced societies, 'détǐ' is a key marker of a 'Junzi' (gentleman), showing one knows their place and respects social harmony.
Memory Tip
Think of '得' (to get/attain) and '体' (the form/body of ritual). You have 'attained the right form' for the occasion.
Frequently Asked Questions
4 questions不，它不仅可以形容衣着，还可以形容言语、举止、行为甚至是一封邮件的书写方式。
“恰当”更中性，侧重于对错或逻辑上的合适；“得体”更具评价性，侧重于社交礼仪和个人修养。
意味着你的言行符合专业形象，既不失礼也不过分张扬，能让同事和客户感到舒适。
可以，如果一个小孩子的言行像成年人一样懂礼貌、识大体，我们可以夸他“表现得很得体”。
Test Yourself
作为一名外交官，他在晚宴上的发言非常___。
外交场合的发言需要讲究分寸和礼仪，‘得体’是最精准的描述。
Which situation best suits the use of '得体'?
在葬礼上穿黑正装并保持安静是符合场合礼仪的行为，即‘得体’。
表现 / 他的 / 晚会上 / 在 / 非常 / 得体
标准的中文句式为：主语（他在晚会上的表现）+ 程度副词（非常）+ 形容词（得体）。
Score: /3
Summary
Being 'détǐ' means acting or dressing in a way that perfectly fits the social context and one's status.
- Appropriate behavior or dress for a specific social occasion.
- Reflects social grace, emotional intelligence, and professional etiquette.
- Commonly describes speech, clothing, and general conduct.
Use it to compliment social skills
When you want to praise someone's professional or social performance, '得体' is more sophisticated than just saying '好'.
Don't confuse with physical fit
If clothes fit your body size, use '合身'. Use '得体' if the clothes are appropriate for the event.
The concept of 'Face' and Propriety
In Chinese culture, being 'détǐ' is crucial for maintaining 'face' (mianzi) and showing respect to the host or the occasion.
Examples
4 of 4他在聚会上的发言非常得体。
His speech at the party was very appropriate.
面试时，穿着得体能给面试官留下良好的第一印象。
Dressing appropriately during an interview can leave a good first impression on the interviewer.
虽然他很生气，但回应依然十分得体。
Although he was angry, his response was still very decent.
在学术论文中使用得体的措辞是严谨性的体现。
Using appropriate wording in academic papers is a reflection of rigor.
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充裕的
B2Abundant, ample, or sufficient in quantity.
事故
A2accident; mishap
依照
A2According to; in accordance with.
准确地
A2accurately, precisely
做到
A2to achieve; to accomplish
积极地
A2actively; enthusiastically
应变
B2Adaptive; capable of dealing with emergencies.
行政
A2Administration; the management of affairs.
过后
A2Afterwards; at a later or subsequent time.
赞同
A2To approve of, to endorse; to agree with or support.
