Bedeutung
Used when giving something or asking politely.
Kultureller Hintergrund
The Dutch value 'gelijkwaardigheid' (equality). Using 'alsjeblieft' (the 'je' form) is very common even between people who don't know each other well, provided they are of a similar age or in a casual setting like a cafe. Flemish Dutch tends to be slightly more formal. You will hear 'Alstublieft' much more frequently in daily life, even among younger people, compared to the Northern Netherlands. Politeness is drilled in early. If a child asks for something without saying 'alsjeblieft', a parent will often ask 'Wat is het toverwoord?' (What is the magic word?). In Dutch restaurants, 'alsjeblieft' is a rhythmic marker. It is expected that the server says it every time they place something on the table. Silence is often perceived as a lack of service quality.
The Silent L
Don't worry about pronouncing the 'l' perfectly. Most natives say 'asjeblieft' in casual conversation.
The 'U' Rule
When in doubt, use 'Alstublieft'. It's never rude to be too formal, but it can be rude to be too informal.
Bedeutung
Used when giving something or asking politely.
The Silent L
Don't worry about pronouncing the 'l' perfectly. Most natives say 'asjeblieft' in casual conversation.
The 'U' Rule
When in doubt, use 'Alstublieft'. It's never rude to be too formal, but it can be rude to be too informal.
The Hand-off Timing
Say the word exactly as your fingers let go of the object. It creates a perfect social beat.
The Magic Word
If you forget everything else in Dutch, 'Alsjeblieft' and 'Dank je' will get you through 90% of social interactions.
Teste dich selbst
Fill in the missing word in this informal dialogue.
Sanne: 'Mag ik een appel, _______?' Tom: 'Ja hoor, _______!'
In both cases, 'alsjeblieft' is used: first for the request, then for handing over the apple.
You are in a formal meeting with a new client. Which word do you use when handing them a cup of coffee?
Hier is uw koffie, _______.
Because it is a formal meeting with a client, the 'u' form (alstublieft) is required.
Match the use of 'alsjeblieft' to the correct situation.
1. 'Een biertje, alsjeblieft.' 2. 'Bedankt! - Alsjeblieft.' 3. 'Alsjeblieft, je wisselgeld.'
1 is a request (Asking), 2 is a response to thanks (Responding), 3 is handing over money (Giving).
Complete the dialogue between a child and their grandmother.
Kind: 'Mag ik een snoepje?' Oma: 'Wat zeg je dan?' Kind: 'Mag ik een snoepje, _______?'
Dutch parents and grandparents often prompt children to say 'alsjeblieft' when they forget to be polite.
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Visuelle Lernhilfen
The Three Faces of Alsjeblieft
Giving
- • Handing a gift
- • Giving change
- • Serving food
Asking
- • Ordering coffee
- • Asking for help
- • Requesting a pen
Responding
- • After 'Dank je'
- • After 'Bedankt'
- • Polite acknowledgement
Aufgabensammlung
4 AufgabenSanne: 'Mag ik een appel, _______?' Tom: 'Ja hoor, _______!'
In both cases, 'alsjeblieft' is used: first for the request, then for handing over the apple.
Hier is uw koffie, _______.
Because it is a formal meeting with a client, the 'u' form (alstublieft) is required.
1. 'Een biertje, alsjeblieft.' 2. 'Bedankt! - Alsjeblieft.' 3. 'Alsjeblieft, je wisselgeld.'
1 is a request (Asking), 2 is a response to thanks (Responding), 3 is handing over money (Giving).
Kind: 'Mag ik een snoepje?' Oma: 'Wat zeg je dan?' Kind: 'Mag ik een snoepje, _______?'
Dutch parents and grandparents often prompt children to say 'alsjeblieft' when they forget to be polite.
🎉 Ergebnis: /4
Häufig gestellte Fragen
10 FragenYes, it is very common as a response to 'Dank je'.
'Alsjeblieft' is informal (je), 'alstublieft' is formal (u).
No, you say 'Dank je'. The person GIVING the gift says 'alsjeblieft'.
It's the phonetic spelling of 'alsjeblieft' and is widely used in informal writing and speech.
The most common abbreviation is 'a.j.b.' (or 'u.v.b.' for the formal version).
Yes, e.g., 'Alsjeblieft, hier is je koffie.'
Yes, but 'Alstublieft' is much more common in Flanders than in the Netherlands.
It's an expression of annoyance, like 'Oh, please!' or 'Give me a break!'
No, 'alsjeblieft' is used for both one person and multiple people.
It's a standard part of Dutch service etiquette to acknowledge every item served.
Verwandte Redewendungen
Alstublieft
specialized formThe formal version of 'alsjeblieft'.
Dank je
contrastThank you.
Graag gedaan
similarYou're welcome / My pleasure.
Asjeblieft
synonymInformal spoken version.
Alstu
specialized formVery short 'here you go'.
