Signification
The owner cares most about their property.
Contexte culturel
In the highlands, cattle are not just food; they are capital. The relationship between a farmer and his ox is sacred. This proverb reflects the distrust of 'hired hands' who do not share this sacred bond. In Addis Ababa, small business owners (Suq-bed) are known for spending 12-14 hours a day in their shops. They often cite this proverb to explain why they don't just hire a manager and stay home. There is a strong cultural belief that a mother's 'eye' is essential for a child's growth. While nannies (mogzit) are common, the mother is expected to be the primary 'balabet' of the child's upbringing. Historically, 'Rist' land was owned by the family/lineage. The 'balabet' was the protector of this ancestral land. The proverb reinforces the idea that only the one with the hereditary right will truly protect the land.
Use it to justify your presence
If someone asks why you are working so hard on something you could delegate, this proverb is the perfect, culturally respected answer.
Don't sound like a micromanager
While the proverb is wise, using it too often with your employees might make them feel untrusted.
Signification
The owner cares most about their property.
Use it to justify your presence
If someone asks why you are working so hard on something you could delegate, this proverb is the perfect, culturally respected answer.
Don't sound like a micromanager
While the proverb is wise, using it too often with your employees might make them feel untrusted.
The 'Eye' Concept
Remember that 'proximity' in Amharic culture implies not just distance, but emotional 'oneness' with the object.
Teste-toi
Fill in the missing word in the proverb.
ከቀላቢው _______ ይቀርባል።
The proverb is 'ከቀላቢው ባለቤቱ ይቀርባል' (The owner is closer than the feeder).
Which situation best fits this proverb?
A person wants to hire someone to manage their bank account but is worried about the money.
This proverb is used to advise someone to manage their own important assets.
Match the Amharic word to its English meaning.
Words: 1. ባለቤት, 2. ቀላቢ, 3. ይቀርባል
ባለቤት = Owner, ቀላቢ = Feeder, ይቀርባል = Is closer.
Complete the dialogue with the correct proverb.
A: 'ለምን ስራህን ለሌላ ሰው አትሰጥም?' B: 'አይ፣ _________________ እንደሚባለው እራሴ ብሰራው ይሻላል።'
The context of doing work oneself instead of delegating fits this proverb perfectly.
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Aides visuelles
Banque d exercices
4 exercicesከቀላቢው _______ ይቀርባል።
The proverb is 'ከቀላቢው ባለቤቱ ይቀርባል' (The owner is closer than the feeder).
A person wants to hire someone to manage their bank account but is worried about the money.
This proverb is used to advise someone to manage their own important assets.
Associez chaque element a gauche avec son pair a droite :
ባለቤት = Owner, ቀላቢ = Feeder, ይቀርባል = Is closer.
A: 'ለምን ስራህን ለሌላ ሰው አትሰጥም?' B: 'አይ፣ _________________ እንደሚባለው እራሴ ብሰራው ይሻላል።'
The context of doing work oneself instead of delegating fits this proverb perfectly.
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Questions fréquentes
4 questionsNo, while it originated with livestock, it now applies to business, family, property, and even abstract projects.
It can be. It's better to use it when talking *about* your business philosophy rather than directly to a worker to explain why you don't trust them.
'Balabet' is the standard word for owner. 'Bale-nproperty' isn't a word; you would use 'Bale-habth' for a wealthy person or 'Bale-muya' for a professional.
Generally, no. It sounds too possessive and treats the partner like an object.
Expressions liées
ባለቤት ካልጮኸ ጎረቤት አይረዳም
similarIf the owner doesn't shout, the neighbor won't help.
ከባለቤቱ ያወቀ ቡዳ ነው
contrastOne who claims to know more than the owner is a 'Buda' (evil eye/meddler).
የባለቤት ያለህ
builds onA cry for an owner/protector to appear.
