B1 Expression 중립

خجالت نکشید

khgalt nkshyd

Don't be shy

Encouraging someone to be more confident or open.

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문화적 배경

In Tehran, 'Khajalat nakashid' is often the first step in a long Ta'arof battle. You must say it at least three times before the guest accepts. Shirazis are known for their extreme hospitality. They might use 'Khajalat nakashid' along with 'Ghorbanat beram' (May I be sacrificed for you) to make you feel extra welcome. In Afghanistan, the phrase is also used, but 'Sherm nakonee' (Don't be ashamed) is a common variation in some regions. Tajik speakers use 'Sharm nadored' or 'Khajalat nakashed,' though the accent and some verb endings differ from Iranian Persian.

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The Rule of Three

In Iran, say this phrase three times. The first two are usually ignored as part of the Ta'arof ritual.

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Don't forget the 'Na'

Saying 'Khajalat bekesh' (without the 'na') means 'Shame on you!' and is very rude.

Encouraging someone to be more confident or open.

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The Rule of Three

In Iran, say this phrase three times. The first two are usually ignored as part of the Ta'arof ritual.

⚠️

Don't forget the 'Na'

Saying 'Khajalat bekesh' (without the 'na') means 'Shame on you!' and is very rude.

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Body Language

When saying this, lean forward and smile. It shows your invitation is sincere and not just a formal requirement.

셀프 테스트

Complete the sentence with the correct form of the phrase.

بفرمایید شام، لطفاً ________ نکشید.

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: خجالت

The standard phrase is 'Khajalat nakashid.'

Match the phrase to the situation.

Which phrase is best when a friend is too shy to dance?

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: خجالت نکش

Use the informal 'nakash' for a friend.

What should the host say next?

Guest: 'No thank you, I'm full (but they are looking at the food).' Host: '________'

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: خجالت نکشید، بفرمایید!

The host should encourage the guest to overcome their Ta'arof.

Which verb is correctly used with 'Khajalat'?

او همیشه خجالت ________.

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: می‌کشد

The verb for shyness in Persian is 'keshidan' (to pull).

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시각 학습 자료

연습 문제 은행

4 연습 문제
Complete the sentence with the correct form of the phrase. Fill Blank A1

بفرمایید شام، لطفاً ________ نکشید.

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: خجالت

The standard phrase is 'Khajalat nakashid.'

Match the phrase to the situation. situation_matching A2

Which phrase is best when a friend is too shy to dance?

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: خجالت نکش

Use the informal 'nakash' for a friend.

What should the host say next? dialogue_completion B1

Guest: 'No thank you, I'm full (but they are looking at the food).' Host: '________'

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: خجالت نکشید، بفرمایید!

The host should encourage the guest to overcome their Ta'arof.

Which verb is correctly used with 'Khajalat'? Choose B1

او همیشه خجالت ________.

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: می‌کشد

The verb for shyness in Persian is 'keshidan' (to pull).

🎉 점수: /4

자주 묻는 질문

5 질문

Yes, if you are offering them tea or food, it is very polite. If you want them to speak, use 'Befarmaid' instead.

'Ta'arof nakonid' is more direct. 'Khajalat nakashid' is warmer and more empathetic.

No, that would be inappropriate. Use 'Geryeh nakon' (Don't cry) or 'Arâm bâsh' (Be calm).

Yes, the root is Arabic, but the way it's used with 'keshidan' is uniquely Persian.

You can say 'Mamnun' (Thanks) or 'Chashm' (Eye/I will do so) and then proceed to eat or speak.

관련 표현

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تعارف نکنید

synonym

Don't do Ta'arof

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راحت باشید

similar

Be comfortable

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بفرمایید

builds on

Please / Go ahead

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شرمنده نباشید

contrast

Don't be ashamed (apology)

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