Meaning
A discussion about an important, grave, or sensitive matter.
Cultural Background
Directness is valued. 'Ein ernstes Gespräch' is not seen as aggressive, but as a way to solve problems efficiently. In Switzerland, the phrase is used similarly, but often with more emphasis on 'klärendes' (clarifying) to soften the blow. Austrians often use the phrase with a slightly more formal tone, sometimes adding 'ein Wörtchen' (a little word) to make it sound slightly less intimidating. In HR, this phrase is a standard euphemism for a 'disciplinary meeting'.
Context is Key
Always use this phrase to set the stage. If you start the conversation without warning, the other person might feel blindsided.
The 'Direct' German
Don't be afraid of the directness. In Germany, being clear about the seriousness of a topic is considered professional and respectful.
Meaning
A discussion about an important, grave, or sensitive matter.
Context is Key
Always use this phrase to set the stage. If you start the conversation without warning, the other person might feel blindsided.
The 'Direct' German
Don't be afraid of the directness. In Germany, being clear about the seriousness of a topic is considered professional and respectful.
Test Yourself
Fill in the correct verb.
Wir müssen ein ernstes Gespräch ______.
The standard collocation is 'ein Gespräch führen'.
Which sentence is appropriate for a professional setting?
Choose the best option.
This is the most standard and professional way to phrase it.
Match the situation to the phrase.
You need to tell your employee they are late every day.
Reprimanding an employee requires a serious tone.
🎉 Score: /3
Visual Learning Aids
Practice Bank
3 exercisesWir müssen ein ernstes Gespräch ______.
The standard collocation is 'ein Gespräch führen'.
Choose the best option.
This is the most standard and professional way to phrase it.
You need to tell your employee they are late every day.
Reprimanding an employee requires a serious tone.
🎉 Score: /3
Frequently Asked Questions
3 questionsYes, it is very common in professional settings.
No, it is direct, which is often appreciated in German culture.
They will be worried. Only use it if you really need to address a serious issue.
Related Phrases
Ein ernstes Wort reden
similarTo have a serious word with someone.
Klartext reden
specialized formTo speak plainly/bluntly.
Unter vier Augen
builds onIn private.
Die Leviten lesen
contrastTo lecture someone.
