Meaning
It is often better to stay quiet.
Cultural Background
Lithuanians often value 'tylus darbas' (quiet work). A person who works hard without talking about it is highly respected. In this region, silence is not considered 'awkward' but rather a sign of comfort and maturity. The concept of 'The Silent Man' was an ideal in ancient Egyptian wisdom literature, representing self-control and alignment with cosmic order. In the age of 'oversharing' on social media, this proverb is seeing a resurgence as a piece of advice for digital privacy.
Use the Dash
In written Lithuanian, always use the long dash (–) rather than a hyphen (-) for this proverb to look like a native.
Don't be Passive-Aggressive
Using this phrase during a relationship conflict can sometimes be seen as passive-aggressive. Use it for wisdom, not for 'the silent treatment'.
Meaning
It is often better to stay quiet.
Use the Dash
In written Lithuanian, always use the long dash (–) rather than a hyphen (-) for this proverb to look like a native.
Don't be Passive-Aggressive
Using this phrase during a relationship conflict can sometimes be seen as passive-aggressive. Use it for wisdom, not for 'the silent treatment'.
The 'Tylus' Ideal
Being called 'tylus žmogus' (a quiet person) in Lithuania is often a compliment, implying you are thoughtful and reliable.
Test Yourself
Complete the proverb with the correct word.
Kalbėjimas – sidabras, ________ – auksas.
The standard form of the proverb uses the verbal noun 'Tylėjimas'.
In which situation would you most likely say 'Tylėjimas – auksas'?
Match the phrase to the situation.
The proverb is used to encourage restraint and avoiding unnecessary or harmful talk.
Choose the best response for B.
A: Ar turėčiau jam pasakyti, ką apie jį galvoju? B: ________.
The proverb is used here to advise against speaking one's mind when it might cause trouble.
Which punctuation mark is traditionally used in this proverb to replace the verb 'is'?
Tylėjimas [?] auksas
In Lithuanian proverbs, a dash often replaces the verb 'yra'.
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Visual Learning Aids
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Practice Bank
4 exercisesKalbėjimas – sidabras, ________ – auksas.
The standard form of the proverb uses the verbal noun 'Tylėjimas'.
Match the phrase to the situation.
The proverb is used to encourage restraint and avoiding unnecessary or harmful talk.
A: Ar turėčiau jam pasakyti, ką apie jį galvoju? B: ________.
The proverb is used here to advise against speaking one's mind when it might cause trouble.
Tylėjimas [?] auksas
In Lithuanian proverbs, a dash often replaces the verb 'yra'.
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Frequently Asked Questions
10 questionsYes, it is grammatically correct, but it sounds less like a proverb and more like a literal statement. The version with the dash is much more natural.
Absolutely. It's often used to describe the importance of listening to clients or keeping trade secrets.
It can be. If you say it to someone who is currently talking, it's a very strong way of telling them to shut up. Use it carefully!
There isn't a direct opposite proverb, but 'Kas ieško, tas randa' (He who seeks, finds) often implies that you must take action (and speak up) to get results.
Gold has been the most precious metal for millennia. Comparing silence to gold elevates it to the highest possible value.
Not a direct one, but 'Užsičiaupk' is the slang for 'Shut up', though it lacks the wisdom of the proverb.
Yes, though often ironically or when discussing 'drama' on social media.
It's a long 'i' sound, like the 'ee' in 'see'.
Yes, if you are giving advice to a colleague about a sensitive matter.
Very similar, but 'Tyla – gera byla' specifically implies that silence is a 'good case' or a safe position to hold.
Related Phrases
Tyla – gera byla
similarSilence is a good case.
Kalbėjimas – sidabras
builds onSpeech is silver.
Liežuvis – tavo priešas
similarThe tongue is your enemy.
Iškalbinga tyla
specialized formEloquent silence.
