معنی
Acknowledging that a situation or feeling applies to both parties.
زمینه فرهنگی
In Japanese companies, this phrase is used to maintain 'Wa' (harmony). It prevents one person from feeling too much 'Giri' (social debt) when a colleague helps them. In apartment complexes (mansion), this phrase is often used regarding noise. If someone apologizes for their baby crying, the neighbor says this to imply 'my TV/dog is probably loud too.' In farming communities, this phrase is the foundation of the 'Yui' system of mutual labor. It's not just a phrase; it's a survival contract. On platforms like X (Twitter), users say this when they follow each other back or share each other's content, acknowledging the mutual benefit of the interaction.
The 'Trailing Off' Technique
In business, just saying '{お互い様|おたがいさま}ですから...' and trailing off is often more polite than finishing the sentence. It lets the other person feel the empathy without you being too blunt.
Watch the Hierarchy
Never say this to your teacher or boss if they are helping you. It sounds like you think you are their equal.
معنی
Acknowledging that a situation or feeling applies to both parties.
The 'Trailing Off' Technique
In business, just saying '{お互い様|おたがいさま}ですから...' and trailing off is often more polite than finishing the sentence. It lets the other person feel the empathy without you being too blunt.
Watch the Hierarchy
Never say this to your teacher or boss if they are helping you. It sounds like you think you are their equal.
The Spirit of Wa
Use this phrase to show you value the relationship more than the specific favor or mistake.
خودت رو بسنج
Choose the most natural response to the following situation.
Your neighbor helped you carry heavy groceries. You say 'Thank you,' and they reply:
'{お互い様|おたがいさま}です' is the standard way to say 'we help each other' in a neighborly context.
Fill in the blank with the correct form.
A: {遅|おく}れてすみません！ B: {大丈夫|だいじょうぶ}ですよ。そんなのは（ ）ですから。
The context of an apology for being late calls for a phrase that acknowledges mutual fallibility.
Match the phrase variation to the correct relationship.
1. {お互い様|おたがいさま}でございます 2. {お互い様|おたがいさま}だよ
'De gozaimasu' is extremely formal, while 'dayo' is casual.
🎉 امتیاز: /3
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بانک تمرین
3 تمرینهاYour neighbor helped you carry heavy groceries. You say 'Thank you,' and they reply:
'{お互い様|おたがいさま}です' is the standard way to say 'we help each other' in a neighborly context.
A: {遅|おく}れてすみません！ B: {大丈夫|だいじょうぶ}ですよ。そんなのは（ ）ですから。
The context of an apology for being late calls for a phrase that acknowledges mutual fallibility.
1. {お互い様|おたがいさま}でございます 2. {お互い様|おたがいさま}だよ
'De gozaimasu' is extremely formal, while 'dayo' is casual.
🎉 امتیاز: /3
سوالات متداول
4 سوالYes, but use the casual form '{お互い様|おたがいさま}だよ'. It's great for resolving small arguments or shared chores.
Yes, especially in situations like crowded trains or when both of you are struggling with something in public.
Not exactly. It's a specific type of 'You're welcome' that implies 'I'm helping you now, but you'd do the same for me.'
Not at all. It's one of the most common phrases in Japanese daily life.
عبارات مرتبط
{お陰様|おかげさま}で
similarThanks to you / Fortunately
{持|も}つ{持|も}たれつ
synonymGive and take / Helping each other
{似|に}た{者|もの}{同士|どうし}
similarTwo of a kind
{五分五分|ごぶごぶ}
contrastFifty-fifty / Even
