Signification
Leaving the decision to the other person.
Contexte culturel
Indirectness is a sign of politeness. Directly stating a preference can sometimes be seen as selfish, so 'Hajurko ichchha' is a safe social default. In traditional Newari feasts (Bhoj), the order of serving is strict. Saying 'Hajurko ichchha' to the person serving shows you respect the tradition of the feast. Younger generations are becoming more direct, but 'Hajurko ichchha' remains the gold standard for interacting with the elderly or in formal ceremonies like weddings. In a Nepali office, using this phrase with a client can build 'Sambandha' (relationship/rapport) much faster than being purely transactional.
The 'Hajur' Nod
When saying this, a slight downward nod of the head makes it feel 10x more authentic.
Avoid Sarcasm
If you say this too quickly or with a sigh, it sounds like you are annoyed. Keep your voice soft.
Signification
Leaving the decision to the other person.
The 'Hajur' Nod
When saying this, a slight downward nod of the head makes it feel 10x more authentic.
Avoid Sarcasm
If you say this too quickly or with a sigh, it sounds like you are annoyed. Keep your voice soft.
The Guest Rule
If you are a guest, using this phrase will make your hosts feel very respected and comfortable.
Teste-toi
Fill in the blank with the correct possessive form of 'Hajur'.
हुन्छ, ______ इच्छा।
'Ko' is the possessive marker needed to say 'Your wish'.
Which response is most appropriate when your grandfather asks if you want to go for a walk?
Grandfather: 'बाबु, घुम्न जाने हो?'
'Hajurko ichchha' shows the required respect for a grandfather.
Complete the dialogue politely.
A: 'चिया खाने कि कफी?' B: '_________________'
This is the most culturally appropriate and polite way to respond to a host.
Match the phrase to the correct person.
To whom would you say 'हजुरको इच्छा'?
'Hajur' is used for people of higher status or those you respect deeply.
🎉 Score : /4
Aides visuelles
When to use 'Hajurko ichchha'
People
- • Grandparents
- • Teachers
- • Bosses
- • Guests
Places
- • Home
- • Office
- • Temple
- • Restaurant
Topics
- • Food
- • Travel
- • Timing
- • Gifts
Banque d exercices
4 exercicesहुन्छ, ______ इच्छा।
'Ko' is the possessive marker needed to say 'Your wish'.
Grandfather: 'बाबु, घुम्न जाने हो?'
'Hajurko ichchha' shows the required respect for a grandfather.
A: 'चिया खाने कि कफी?' B: '_________________'
This is the most culturally appropriate and polite way to respond to a host.
To whom would you say 'हजुरको इच्छा'?
'Hajur' is used for people of higher status or those you respect deeply.
🎉 Score : /4
Questions fréquentes
5 questionsNot at all! It is used daily with parents, shopkeepers, and elders. It's safe and always appreciated.
Only if you are joking or being mock-formal. Use 'Timro ichchha' for real friends.
'Ichchha' is more like a 'wish' or 'will', while 'Chahana' is a deeper 'desire' or 'wanting'.
You should then make a decision! Say 'त्यसो भए...' (In that case...) and pick an option.
Yes, in formal letters or literature, though 'इच्छानुसार' is more common in very formal documents.
Expressions liées
तपाईंको खुसी
synonymYour happiness/pleasure
जे भन्नुहुन्छ
similarWhatever you say
हजुरकै मर्जी
specialized formYour absolute will
हुन्छ
builds onOkay/Yes
