A1 Expression 중립

Δεν μπορώ να έρθω

I cannot come

Refusing an invitation.

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문화적 배경

Declining an invitation is often seen as the start of a negotiation. Hosts may insist several times before accepting your 'no'. Similar to Greece, but the dialect might use 'Εν μπορώ να έρτω' (En boro na erto). The sentiment of hospitality remains identical. The phrase is often mixed with English (Gringlish). You might hear 'Δεν μπορώ να έρθω στο party.' Punctuality is becoming more important, so 'Δεν μπορώ να έρθω στην ώρα μου' (I can't come on time) is a frequent and necessary apology.

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The 'Future' Trick

Greeks almost always use the future tense 'Δεν θα μπορέσω' for events even just a few hours away. It sounds more natural than the present tense.

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Always give a reason

Saying just 'Δεν μπορώ να έρθω' can sound a bit dry. Add 'γιατί...' (because...) to sound like a local.

Refusing an invitation.

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The 'Future' Trick

Greeks almost always use the future tense 'Δεν θα μπορέσω' for events even just a few hours away. It sounds more natural than the present tense.

💬

Always give a reason

Saying just 'Δεν μπορώ να έρθω' can sound a bit dry. Add 'γιατί...' (because...) to sound like a local.

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Don't use 'Όχι'

Never say 'Όχι μπορώ'. Always use 'Δεν' to negate the verb.

셀프 테스트

Fill in the missing word to say 'I can't come.'

Δεν μπορώ ___ έρθω.

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: να

The particle 'να' is required after 'μπορώ' to connect it to the next verb.

Which sentence is the most polite way to decline a future invitation?

Select the best option:

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: Δυστυχώς, δεν θα μπορέσω να έρθω.

'Δυστυχώς' (unfortunately) and the future tense 'θα μπορέσω' make it very polite.

Complete the dialogue.

A: Θέλεις να πάμε σινεμά αύριο; B: ________, έχω πολλή δουλειά.

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: Δεν μπορώ να έρθω

The context 'έχω πολλή δουλειά' (I have a lot of work) implies a refusal.

Match the phrase to the context.

Context: You missed a party yesterday and are apologizing.

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: Δεν μπόρεσα να έρθω.

'Δεν μπόρεσα' is the past tense, used for events that already happened.

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시각 학습 자료

연습 문제 은행

4 연습 문제
Fill in the missing word to say 'I can't come.' Fill Blank A1

Δεν μπορώ ___ έρθω.

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: να

The particle 'να' is required after 'μπορώ' to connect it to the next verb.

Which sentence is the most polite way to decline a future invitation? Choose A2

Select the best option:

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: Δυστυχώς, δεν θα μπορέσω να έρθω.

'Δυστυχώς' (unfortunately) and the future tense 'θα μπορέσω' make it very polite.

Complete the dialogue. dialogue_completion A1

A: Θέλεις να πάμε σινεμά αύριο; B: ________, έχω πολλή δουλειά.

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: Δεν μπορώ να έρθω

The context 'έχω πολλή δουλειά' (I have a lot of work) implies a refusal.

Match the phrase to the context. situation_matching B1

Context: You missed a party yesterday and are apologizing.

✓ 정답! ✗ 아쉬워요. 정답: Δεν μπόρεσα να έρθω.

'Δεν μπόρεσα' is the past tense, used for events that already happened.

🎉 점수: /4

자주 묻는 질문

14 질문

No, it's not rude, but you should add 'Δυστυχώς' (Unfortunately) at the start to make it professional.

'Έρθω' is for a one-time event, while 'έρχομαι' is for something that happens repeatedly.

No, if you are late but still coming, say 'Θα αργήσω' (I will be late). Use this phrase only if you aren't coming at all.

Change 'μπορώ' to 'μπορούμε'. So: 'Δεν μπορούμε να έρθουμε'.

In Modern Greek, 'να' acts as a bridge between two verbs, similar to 'to' in English 'to come'.

In very casual settings, you can just say 'Δεν μπορώ' (I can't), and the 'to come' is implied.

Yes, but it's better to use the future tense: 'Δεν θα μπορέσω να παρευρεθώ' for such a formal event.

Say 'Δεν μπορώ να έρθω τώρα, αλλά θα έρθω μετά' (I can't come now, but I'll come later).

It means the same but it is extremely archaic/formal. You will rarely hear it in conversation.

Yes, in a standard negative sentence, 'Δεν' always precedes the verb it negates.

It's exactly like the 'th' in the English word 'think'.

Absolutely. It's the standard way to decline an invite in an email.

Young people might say 'Δεν παίζει' (It's not playing/happening).

Conceptually yes, but etymologically it comes from 'euporia' (abundance/means).

관련 표현

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Δεν θα τα καταφέρω

similar

I won't make it

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Δεν προλαβαίνω

specialized form

I don't have time

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Αδυνατώ

formal

I am unable

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Μπορώ να έρθω

contrast

I can come

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Κάτι μου έτυχε

builds on

Something came up

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