In 15 Seconds
- The standard way to invite someone to start eating.
- Essential for showing hospitality and being a good host.
- Changes slightly based on whether you talk to a man or woman.
Meaning
A warm, polite invitation to start eating or join a meal. It is the Arabic equivalent of saying 'Please, help yourself' or 'Dig in.'
Key Examples
3 of 7Hosting a friend for dinner
العشاء جاهز، اتفضل كل.
Dinner is ready, please eat.
Sharing a snack with a colleague
عندي كيك زيادة، اتفضل كل.
I have extra cake, please eat.
Talking to a female guest
يا سارة، اتفضلي كلي.
Sarah, please eat.
Cultural Background
In the Gulf, it is common to repeat the invitation multiple times. Often accompanied by 'Sahhtain' (two healths) during the meal. Egyptians are very warm and might use 'Ya basha' (my boss/sir) with it. Hospitality is central; the host might serve the food personally.
Use your hands
Always gesture toward the food when saying this.
Be persistent
In some cultures, guests will refuse at first out of politeness; keep inviting them!
In 15 Seconds
- The standard way to invite someone to start eating.
- Essential for showing hospitality and being a good host.
- Changes slightly based on whether you talk to a man or woman.
What It Means
اتفضل كل is the ultimate green light for a meal. It is more than just a command to eat; it is a gesture of hospitality. When you say this, you are telling your guest that they are welcome at your table. It bridges the gap between the food being served and the actual act of eating. It is warm, inviting, and essential for any social gathering involving food.
How To Use It
You need to match the phrase to the person you are talking to. If you are speaking to a man, use اتفضل كل. For a female friend, say اتفضلي كلي. If you have a group of people over, use the plural اتفضلوا كلوا. It is usually said with a gentle hand gesture toward the dishes. You do not need a complex sentence. Just the phrase and a smile are enough to make anyone feel at home.
When To Use It
Use this the moment food is placed on the table. It is perfect for dinner parties, casual lunches, or even when you are just sharing a snack. If you are eating at your desk and a colleague walks by, it is a very polite Arabic custom to offer them some of your food using this phrase. It shows you are not selfish and that you value their presence.
When NOT To Use It
Never use this if you are the guest! That is the host's job. If you say it at someone else's house, it might seem like you are the one in charge of the kitchen. Also, do not say it if you are in a very hurried, professional meeting where food is not the focus. It is a social phrase, so keep it for moments where sharing a meal is appropriate.
Cultural Background
Hospitality, or Karam, is a pillar of Arab culture. In the past, desert travelers relied on the generosity of strangers for survival. Today, that tradition lives on through food. You might notice that an Arabic host will repeat اتفضل كل several times. They are not being pushy; they are just making sure you are not being too shy to eat. It is a polite dance of offering and accepting.
Common Variations
You can simply say تفضل (Please/Go ahead) if the context is obvious. In more casual settings, you might hear مد ايدك, which literally means 'stretch out your hand' or 'dig in.' In Egypt, you might hear اتفضل لقمة (Have a bite). All these variations carry the same spirit of sharing and generosity that defines the region.
Usage Notes
The phrase is highly dependent on gender and number agreement. Always remember to add the 'i' for women (`kuli`) and 'u' for groups (`kulu`) to sound natural.
Use your hands
Always gesture toward the food when saying this.
Be persistent
In some cultures, guests will refuse at first out of politeness; keep inviting them!
Examples
7العشاء جاهز، اتفضل كل.
Dinner is ready, please eat.
A standard way to start a meal at home.
عندي كيك زيادة، اتفضل كل.
I have extra cake, please eat.
Shows generosity in a workspace.
يا سارة، اتفضلي كلي.
Sarah, please eat.
Uses the feminine conjugation 'kuli'.
يا جماعة، الأكل كتير، اتفضلوا كلوا!
Everyone, there is a lot of food, please eat!
Uses the plural conjugation 'kulu'.
ليش ما عم تأكل؟ اتفضل كل!
Why aren't you eating? Please, eat!
A gentle nudge to make a guest feel comfortable.
البيتزا وصلت، اتفضل كل معنا!
The pizza is here, come eat with us!
A casual way to invite someone over via text.
انسى الرجيم اليوم، اتفضل كل!
Forget the diet today, go ahead and eat!
Using the phrase to playfully break a friend's resolve.
Test Yourself
Fill in the correct imperative form for a group.
يا أصدقائي، ______ كُلوا!
Since 'friends' (asdiqa'i) is plural, you must use the plural imperative 'Tafaddalu'.
Which is the most polite way to invite a guest to eat?
Choose the best option.
'Tafaddal kul' is the standard polite invitation.
Complete the dialogue.
Host: 'The food is ready.' Guest: 'Thank you.' Host: '______'
The host needs to invite the guest to start eating.
🎉 Score: /3
Visual Learning Aids
Practice Bank
3 exercisesيا أصدقائي، ______ كُلوا!
Since 'friends' (asdiqa'i) is plural, you must use the plural imperative 'Tafaddalu'.
Choose the best option.
'Tafaddal kul' is the standard polite invitation.
Host: 'The food is ready.' Guest: 'Thank you.' Host: '______'
The host needs to invite the guest to start eating.
🎉 Score: /3
Frequently Asked Questions
2 questionsYes, it is polite and respectful.
It depends on the context, but generally it is fine.
Related Phrases
بالهناء والشفاء
similarBon appétit
سمّوا بالله
similarSay the name of God
سفرة دايمة
builds onMay your table always be full