In 15 Seconds
- A friendly way to say 'let's talk again soon'.
- Used when ending a conversation or saying goodbye.
- Works for both friends and professional networking contacts.
Meaning
This phrase is a friendly way to say you want to continue communicating in the future. It means you don't want to lose contact after saying goodbye.
Key Examples
3 of 6Saying goodbye to a friend moving away
I'm going to miss you so much, please keep in touch!
I'm going to miss you so much, please stay connected!
Ending a professional networking coffee
It was great meeting you; let's keep in touch on LinkedIn.
It was great meeting you; let's stay connected on LinkedIn.
Texting a former classmate
Hey! We haven't talked in ages. We should really keep in touch more.
Hey! We haven't talked in ages. We should really stay connected more.
Cultural Background
In the US, 'keep in touch' is often used as a 'polite closer.' It doesn't always mean the person will call you. It's a way to end a conversation on a high note without making a specific plan. Brits often prefer 'stay in touch' over 'keep in touch,' though both are used. It is often accompanied by 'we must do lunch,' which is another famously vague social invitation. Germans value directness. If someone says 'Let's keep in touch,' they usually mean it literally and may be offended if you don't respond to their subsequent messages. In Japan, maintaining social harmony (wa) is key. 'Keeping in touch' often involves sending seasonal cards (nengajo) or formal greetings, rather than just casual texting.
The 'With' Rule
Always remember: Keep in touch WITH [someone]. Never leave out the 'with' if you name the person!
Don't overdo it
In professional settings, 'keeping in touch' too often can be seen as annoying. Once every few months is usually enough for networking.
In 15 Seconds
- A friendly way to say 'let's talk again soon'.
- Used when ending a conversation or saying goodbye.
- Works for both friends and professional networking contacts.
What It Means
Keep in touch is all about staying connected. It is a warm way to end a conversation. You are telling someone that you value them. You want to hear from them again soon. It does not mean you will call every day. It just means the door is open for future chats. Think of it as a bridge between today and next time.
How To Use It
You usually say this at the very end of a talk. Use it when you are walking away or hanging up. You can use it as a statement like "Let's keep in touch." You can also use it as a request. For example, "Please keep in touch while you are away." It is very flexible and works in almost any medium. You can say it, text it, or email it.
When To Use It
Use it when a friend moves to a new city. Use it after a great lunch with a former coworker. It is perfect for graduation parties or weddings. If you meet someone cool at a conference, say it. It shows you are friendly and open. It is the ultimate "nice person" exit strategy. Even if you are busy, it sounds polite and sincere.
When NOT To Use It
Do not use it with people you see every single day. If you say it to your spouse, they might be confused. Avoid using it if you actually never want to talk again. Some people use it as a polite lie, but try to be honest. Do not use it in very strict legal settings. It is a bit too casual for a courtroom or a formal contract. Also, don't say it to the pizza delivery guy—that is just awkward.
Cultural Background
This phrase comes from the idea of physical connection. Before phones, people wrote letters to "touch" each other's lives. In Western culture, staying connected is a sign of networking and friendship. Americans often say it very casually, sometimes even to strangers. In some cultures, it is a serious promise. In the US and UK, it is often just a polite way to say goodbye. It became very popular as people started traveling more for work.
Common Variations
You might hear stay in touch which means the exact same thing. Younger people might say hit me up or don't be a stranger. In business, people say let's circle back. If you want to be more specific, say drop me a line. All of these keep the conversation going. They all mean the relationship is not over yet.
Usage Notes
This phrase is incredibly safe to use in almost 95% of social and professional situations. The only 'gotcha' is using it with people you see every day, as it implies a distance that isn't there.
The 'With' Rule
Always remember: Keep in touch WITH [someone]. Never leave out the 'with' if you name the person!
Don't overdo it
In professional settings, 'keeping in touch' too often can be seen as annoying. Once every few months is usually enough for networking.
Email Closings
Use 'Let's keep in touch' as a friendlier alternative to 'Sincerely' when writing to a former colleague.
The Polite Lie
If someone says 'keep in touch' but doesn't give you their number or email, they are probably just being polite!
Examples
6I'm going to miss you so much, please keep in touch!
I'm going to miss you so much, please stay connected!
Expresses a sincere desire to continue the friendship despite the distance.
It was great meeting you; let's keep in touch on LinkedIn.
It was great meeting you; let's stay connected on LinkedIn.
A standard way to transition from a meeting to a digital connection.
Hey! We haven't talked in ages. We should really keep in touch more.
Hey! We haven't talked in ages. We should really stay connected more.
Used to acknowledge a gap in communication and suggest improvement.
We said we'd keep in touch, but I think 'touch' meant every five years.
We said we'd stay connected, but I think 'connected' meant every five years.
Jokes about the common habit of failing to actually stay in contact.
I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my progress.
I will be sure to stay connected and update you on my progress.
Shows respect and a promise to provide future information.
You guys were the best travel buddies! Let's keep in touch!
You guys were the best travel buddies! Let's stay connected!
Warm and enthusiastic goodbye to new acquaintances.
Test Yourself
Complete the sentence with the correct preposition.
It's important to keep in touch ____ your old friends.
We always use 'with' to connect 'keep in touch' to a person.
Which sentence is the most natural for a professional farewell?
You are leaving your job and want to stay connected with your boss.
'Let's keep in touch' is the standard, natural idiom.
Choose the best response for the dialogue.
A: 'I'm moving to New York next week.' B: 'Oh wow! ___________'
This is a perfect context for 'keep in touch' as it involves a move and a desire for future updates.
Match the phrase to the situation.
Which phrase fits a very casual goodbye to a close friend?
'Don't be a stranger' is a very informal variation of 'keep in touch'.
Use the correct form of the verb 'keep'.
We _____ in touch for ten years before we finally met again.
The sentence is in the past tense, so we use the irregular past form 'kept'.
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Visual Learning Aids
Practice Bank
5 exercisesIt's important to keep in touch ____ your old friends.
We always use 'with' to connect 'keep in touch' to a person.
You are leaving your job and want to stay connected with your boss.
'Let's keep in touch' is the standard, natural idiom.
A: 'I'm moving to New York next week.' B: 'Oh wow! ___________'
This is a perfect context for 'keep in touch' as it involves a move and a desire for future updates.
Which phrase fits a very casual goodbye to a close friend?
'Don't be a stranger' is a very informal variation of 'keep in touch'.
We _____ in touch for ten years before we finally met again.
The sentence is in the past tense, so we use the irregular past form 'kept'.
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Frequently Asked Questions
12 questionsIt is neutral. You can use it with your boss or your best friend.
No, always use 'with you'.
There is almost no difference. 'Stay' is slightly more common in British English.
'Keep in touch' is more common and friendly. 'Keep in contact' is more formal.
You can say 'I will!', 'Definitely!', or 'You too!'
Yes, it's a great way to end an email to someone you know well.
No, it is a figurative expression meaning communication.
It's more of an idiomatic expression or a fixed phrase.
The opposite is 'to lose touch'.
No, it's usually used for people. For hobbies, you would say 'keep up with'.
Yes, if you want to see them again!
It depends on the relationship, but for friends, once a month is common.
Related Phrases
Stay in touch
synonymTo maintain communication.
Get in touch
similarTo initiate communication.
Lose touch
contrastTo stop communicating with someone.
Drop a line
similarTo send a short note or message.
Keep someone posted
specialized formTo give someone regular updates on a specific situation.
Don't be a stranger
informalA friendly way to say keep in touch.