Giving Suggestions
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use 'Ska vi...?' for direct suggestions and 'Vad sägs om...?' for open-ended ideas to sound natural in Swedish.
- Use 'Ska vi' + infinitive for 'Shall we' (e.g., Ska vi fika?)
- Use 'Vad sägs om' + noun/verb for 'What about' (e.g., Vad sägs om kaffe?)
- Use 'Vi kan' for a gentle, helpful suggestion (e.g., Vi kan gå nu.)
Overview
fika (the iconic Swedish coffee break), a business strategy, or a weekend trip, the way you phrase your suggestion matters. Swedes value consensus and 'lagom' (just the right amount), so suggestions are often phrased as questions to allow the other person space to agree or disagree politely.ska. While it often translates to 'shall' or 'will', in the context of Ska vi...?, it is the standard, friendly way to initiate plans. Understanding these patterns allows you to move from a passive observer to an active participant in Swedish life.Ska vi...?, softer forms like Vi kan..., and the very useful Vad sägs om...? which is perfect for negotiating times and places.- 1The 'Ska vi' Question: This follows the standard V2 (Verb-Second) rule for questions. Start with the auxiliary verb
ska, followed by the subjectvi, and then the main verb in its infinitive form (the base form without 'att').
- *Structure*:
Ska+vi+ [Infinitive Verb] + ? - *Example*:
Ska vi dansa?(Shall we dance?)
- 1The 'Vad sägs om' Phrase: This is a fixed expression. It can be followed by a noun or a verb phrase starting with
att.
- *Structure*:
Vad sägs om+ [Noun/Verb Phrase] + ? - *Example*:
Vad sägs om en fika?(What about a coffee break?)
- 1The 'Vi kan' Statement: This is a declarative sentence used as a suggestion. It feels less like a question and more like pointing out a possibility.
- *Structure*:
Vi+kan+ [Infinitive Verb]. - *Example*:
Vi kan ses imorgon.(We can meet tomorrow.)
inte after the first verb: Ska vi inte gå? (Shall we not go? / Why don't we go?).- Texting and Social Media: Use
Ska vi...?for quick plans. It's direct and expected. If you're suggesting a specific time in a group chat,Vad sägs om kl. 18?is the gold standard. - Work Meetings: Swedes prefer a democratic approach. Instead of saying 'We must do this,' try
Vi skulle kunna...(We could...) orVad tror ni om...?(What do you think about...?). This invites feedback and avoids sounding bossy. - Travel and Ordering Food: When with friends, use
Ska vi dela på en pizza?(Shall we share a pizza?). It sounds much more inclusive than 'I want to share a pizza.' - Dating:
Ska vi ses någon dag?(Shall we meet some day?) is a classic, low-pressure way to ask someone out. The 'någon dag' adds a layer of Swedish politeness by not forcing a specific deadline immediately.
Vad om...?, which is grammatically incorrect in Swedish. You must use Vad sägs om...? or Hur är det med...?.ska.- *Wrong*:
Ska vi går? - *Correct*:
Ska vi gå?
vill (want). In English, we often say 'Do you want to go?', but in Swedish, Vill du gå? can sometimes sound like you are asking about their deep desires or if they are bored and want to leave. Ska vi gå? is much more common for a simple suggestion to move to the next activity.Ska vi...? and Vill vi...?.Ska vi...? is a functional suggestion. It's about the plan. If you say Ska vi äta?, you are proposing that now is the time to eat.Vill vi...? (or more commonly Vill du...?) asks about preference or desire. If you ask Vill du äta?, you are asking if the person is hungry.Ska vi is the 'safer' and more natural choice because it focuses on the shared activity rather than the individual's internal state. However, if you want to be extra polite and ensure the other person actually *wants* to do the activity, you can combine them: Har du lust att...? (Do you feel like...?).Meanings
The art of proposing an action, idea, or plan to others using specific auxiliary verbs or fixed idiomatic phrases.
Direct Invitation
Using 'Ska vi' to propose a joint activity immediately or in the near future.
“Ska vi äta lunch?”
“Ska vi ses klockan fem?”
Soft Suggestion
Using 'Vi kan' or 'Vi skulle kunna' to offer an option without being pushy.
“Vi kan titta på en film.”
“Vi skulle kunna åka tåg istället.”
Alternative Proposal
Using 'Vad sägs om' to suggest an alternative or a specific time/place.
“Vad sägs om på lördag?”
“Vad sägs om att gå till parken?”
Rhetorical/Negative Suggestion
Using 'Varför inte' to suggest something by asking why it shouldn't be done.
“Varför inte prova något nytt?”
“Varför inte ringa henne nu?”
Common Verbs for Suggestions
| Infinitive | Present | Past | Meaning in Suggestions |
|---|---|---|---|
| Ska | Ska | Skulle | Shall / Should |
| Kan | Kan | Kunde | Can / Could |
| Bör | Bör | Borde | Ought to / Should |
| Vill | Vill | Ville | Want / Would like |
| Föreslå | Föreslår | Föreslog | To suggest |
Spoken vs. Written Forms
| Written | Spoken (Common) | Context |
|---|---|---|
| Skall vi | Ska vi | Formal vs. Standard |
| Vad sägs om | Vassägsom | Fast speech |
| Skulle vi | Skulle vi / Skulle'vi | Standard |
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Direct Question | Ska vi + verb? | Ska vi äta? |
| Soft Statement | Vi kan + verb. | Vi kan ses sen. |
| Alternative | Vad sägs om + noun? | Vad sägs om kaffe? |
| Negative Suggestion | Ska vi inte + verb? | Ska vi inte gå? |
| Polite Question | Skulle vi kunna + verb? | Skulle vi kunna prata? |
| Why not | Varför inte + verb? | Varför inte ringa? |
| Opinion-based | Vad tror du om + noun? | Vad tror du om idén? |
| Invitation | Har du lust att + verb? | Har du lust att fika? |
Formalitätsspektrum
Får jag föreslå att vi intar måltiden nu? (Dinner time)
Ska vi äta nu? (Dinner time)
Ska vi käka? (Dinner time)
Dags för krubb? (Dinner time)
Ways to Suggest in Swedish
Direct
- Ska vi...? Shall we...?
Open-ended
- Vad sägs om...? What about...?
Polite
- Vi skulle kunna... We could...
Directness Scale
Choosing a Suggestion Form
Is it a specific action?
Is it a time or place?
Suggestion Keywords
Verbs
- • Ska
- • Kan
- • Borde
- • Föreslå
Phrases
- • Vad sägs om
- • Varför inte
- • Vad tror du
Examples by Level
Ska vi fika?
Shall we have coffee?
Ska vi gå nu?
Shall we go now?
Vi kan äta pizza.
We can eat pizza.
Ska vi ses imorgon?
Shall we meet tomorrow?
Vad sägs om en promenad?
What about a walk?
Varför inte gå på bio?
Why not go to the cinema?
Vad sägs om klockan sju?
What about seven o'clock?
Vi kan kanske ses på stan?
Maybe we can meet in town?
Vi skulle kunna ta bussen.
We could take the bus.
Vad tror du om det här förslaget?
What do you think about this proposal?
Skulle du vilja gå ut och äta?
Would you like to go out and eat?
Man kanske skulle ringa polisen?
Maybe one should call the police?
Jag föreslår att vi ajournerar mötet.
I suggest that we adjourn the meeting.
Vi borde väl börja snart?
Shouldn't we start soon?
Vad sägs om att vi delar på kostnaden?
What about us sharing the cost?
Skulle det sitta fint med en glass?
Would a glass of ice cream hit the spot?
Vore det inte på sin plats med en ursäkt?
Wouldn't an apology be in order?
Man kan ju tänka sig att vi gör tvärtom.
One could imagine us doing the opposite.
Jag ställer mig frågande till om vi inte bör omvärdera detta.
I question whether we shouldn't re-evaluate this.
Vad sägs om att vi lägger korten på bordet?
What about us putting the cards on the table?
Måhända vore det klädsamt med en gnutta ödmjukhet?
Perhaps a touch of humility would be becoming?
Låt oss för ett ögonblick anta att förslaget vinner gehör.
Let us for a moment assume the proposal gains traction.
Skulle det händelsevis passa herrn att intaga supén nu?
Would it perchance suit the gentleman to have supper now?
Vi torde nog överväga konsekvenserna mer djupgående.
We ought probably to consider the consequences more deeply.
Easily Confused
Both refer to the future, but 'ska' implies intent or a suggestion, while 'kommer att' is a prediction.
'Vad sägs om' is for making a proposal. 'Vad tycker du om' is for asking an opinion on something that already exists.
'Borde' is a suggestion (should), while 'måste' is a requirement (must).
Häufige Fehler
Vill vi fika?
Ska vi fika?
Ska vi går?
Ska vi gå?
Vi ska fika?
Ska vi fika?
Ska fika?
Ska vi fika?
Vad om klockan två?
Vad sägs om klockan två?
Vad sägs klockan två?
Vad sägs om klockan två?
Varför inte vi går?
Varför går vi inte?
Vi kan kanske att ses.
Vi kan kanske ses.
Jag föreslår oss att gå.
Jag föreslår att vi går.
Sentence Patterns
Ska vi ___?
Vad sägs om ___?
Vi skulle kunna ___.
Varför inte ___?
Real World Usage
Ska vi ses kl 5?
Ska vi ta en fika?
Vad sägs om att vi ändrar strategin?
Ska vi dela på en stor pizza?
Vi skulle kunna hyra en bil.
Ska vi gå på en promenad någon dag?
The 'Kanske' Trick
Avoid 'Vad om'
Consensus is Key
Use the Infinitive
Smart Tips
Use 'skulle kunna' instead of 'kan'.
Always use 'Vad sägs om' followed by the time.
Add 'kanske' after 'vi'.
Use 'Eller ska vi...?' at the end of your first suggestion.
Aussprache
The 'Ska' sound
The 'sk' is a hard 'sk' sound, and the 'a' is short.
Vad sägs om
In fast speech, 'sägs om' often blends together, sounding like 'sä-ssom'.
Rising Intonation
Ska vi fika? ↗
Indicates a friendly, open-ended question.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
Remember 'Ska' for 'Shall' and 'Vi' for 'We'. SKA VI is the key to the Swedish tea (fika)!
Visual Association
Imagine a giant coffee cup (fika) with the words 'SKA VI?' written on it in bright yellow. This is the most important social question in Sweden.
Rhyme
Ska vi gå, eller ska vi stå? (Shall we go, or shall we stand?)
Story
Sven wants to meet his friend. He doesn't say 'I want coffee'. He says 'Ska vi fika?'. His friend says 'Vad sägs om klockan två?'. They agree and use 'Vi kan ses på stan'.
Word Web
Herausforderung
Text a Swedish friend (or an AI) and suggest three different things using 'Ska vi', 'Vad sägs om', and 'Vi kan'.
Kulturelle Hinweise
The 'Fika' invitation is the most common use of this grammar. It's often an informal suggestion that can happen multiple times a day.
Suggestions are preferred over commands. Even a boss might say 'Vi kanske kan...' to sound more collaborative.
Suggestions in Finland-Swedish can sometimes be slightly more direct than in Sweden-Swedish, but 'Ska vi' remains standard.
The verb 'ska' comes from the Old Norse 'skulu', which meant 'to owe' or 'to be obliged'. Over time, it shifted from obligation to future intent and suggestions.
Conversation Starters
Ska vi göra något i helgen?
Jag är hungrig. Vad sägs om pizza?
Vi skulle kunna åka till skärgården. Vad tror du?
Varför inte prova den nya restaurangen på hörnet?
Journal Prompts
Test Yourself
___ vi fika?
Vad sägs ___ imorgon?
Find and fix the mistake:
Ska vi går på bio?
Arrange the words in the correct order:
All words placed
Click words above to build the sentence
We could meet at five.
Answer starts with: Vi ...
Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:
Person A: Jag är trött. Person B: ___
Ska + vi + träffas
Score: /8
Ubungsaufgaben
8 exercises___ vi fika?
Vad sägs ___ imorgon?
Find and fix the mistake:
Ska vi går på bio?
inte / varför / vi / äta / ska / ?
We could meet at five.
1. Ska vi? 2. Vad sägs om? 3. Vi kan.
Person A: Jag är trött. Person B: ___
Ska + vi + träffas
Score: /8
FAQ (8)
Yes, if the context is clear (like pointing at a door to leave), you can just say `Ska vi?`.
It's neutral to informal. In very formal settings, you might use `Får jag föreslå...`.
`Låt oss` (Let us) is much more formal and often used in speeches or writing. `Ska vi` is the everyday spoken version.
It's like saying 'Why don't we...'. It's a very common way to make a suggestion feel more like an invitation.
Not really. That asks for an opinion. Use `Vad tror du om att...` if you want to suggest an idea and get feedback.
Both work, but `Ska vi fika?` is more common because 'fika' is used as a verb in Swedish.
You can jokingly say `Vad sägs om nej?`, but it's quite blunt!
No, it often just marks the future tense or intent. In suggestions, it's the most natural equivalent to 'Shall we'.
In Other Languages
Shall we / What about
English uses 'Do you want to' as a suggestion more often than Swedish uses 'Vill du'.
Sollen wir / Wie wäre es mit
German word order in suggestions can be more complex with separable verbs.
Et si on... / On pourrait...
French uses the imperfect tense for suggestions, whereas Swedish uses the infinitive.
¿Y si...? / ¿Qué tal si...?
Spanish omits the subject pronoun, while Swedish usually keeps 'vi'.
~mashou ka / ~wa dou desu ka
Japanese suggestions are heavily influenced by politeness levels (keigo), which is less prominent in Swedish.
Mā ra’yuka fī... / Hayyā binā
Arabic uses a noun-based 'opinion' structure more frequently for suggestions.
...ba / ...hao ma?
Swedish uses word order and auxiliary verbs at the start of the sentence, while Chinese uses particles at the end.
Related Grammar Rules
Greetings (Hälsningsfraser)
## Overview Swedish greetings are refreshingly egalitarian. Unlike many other European languages, Swedish does not have...
Giving Commands
## Overview The imperative mood in Swedish is remarkably straightforward. Unlike many other languages that require compl...
Introductions (Att presentera sig)
## Overview Introducing yourself in Swedish is straightforward and friendly. The most essential phrase is `Jag heter`, w...
Dining Phrases
## Overview Dining in Sweden is a relaxed but polite affair. Whether you are in a bustling Stockholm cafe or a cozy rest...
Future Intentions
## Overview In Swedish, talking about the future is surprisingly simple. Unlike English, which uses 'will' or 'going to'...