- Emotional Investment
- When used affirmatively, it shows that you place high value on something. For instance, caring about the quality of your work or the happiness of your family.
我很 在意 你的感受,所以我想先问问你。
- Social Harmony
- Using the negative form helps smooth over minor conflicts and demonstrates a magnanimous personality.
别人怎么说,我根本不 在意。
- Comforting Others
- A crucial function of this word is in reassuring friends or colleagues that their minor errors are not a big deal.
刚才那是开玩笑的,你别 在意。
年轻人越来越不 在意 传统的规矩了。
只要你在我身边,其他的我都不 在意。
- With Adverbs of Degree
- Because it expresses a psychological state, it is frequently preceded by words like 很 (very), 非常 (extremely), or 特别 (especially).
老板非常 在意 这个项目的进度。
- Negation Differences
- 不在意 is about emotional detachment, while 没在意 is about a lack of observation or attention in the past.
对不起,我刚才没 在意 你说什么。
他根本不 在意 衣服的品牌。
- Taking Clauses as Objects
- It can seamlessly connect to question words or full phrases to express complex ideas about what exactly is being minded.
她很 在意 别人怎么评价她的工作。
只要尽力了就好,结果谁 在意 呢?
- Romantic Relationships
- Partners use it to gauge affection, express vulnerability, or complain about neglect.
如果你真的爱我,你就会 在意 我的生日。
- Professional Environments
- Used to indicate what is valued by the company, the boss, or the clients.
我们的客户非常 在意 产品的包装细节。
- Casual Reassurance
- A quick, friendly way to tell someone to brush off a minor inconvenience or mistake.
这点小钱你别 在意,我请客。
我刚才说话太直了,希望你没 在意。
人长大了,就要学会不 在意 那些无聊的流言蜚语。
- Confusing with 关心
- Use 关心 for showing love and looking after someone's wellbeing. Use 在意 for emotional attachment to concepts, opinions, or specific actions.
Mistake: 我很 在意 爷爷的身体。 (Better: 我很关心爷爷的身体。)
- Missing Adverbs
- Always pair affirmative psychological verbs with adverbs like 很, 非常, or 比较.
Mistake: 这件事,我 在意。 (Better: 这件事,我很在意。)
- Confusing with 注意
- 注意 is cognitive focus; 在意 is emotional focus.
Mistake: 过马路要 在意 安全。 (Correct: 过马路要注意安全。)
Mistake: 上课请 在意 听讲。 (Correct: 上课请注意听讲。)
Mistake: 谢谢你的 在意。 (Better: 谢谢你这么在意我。)
- 在意 vs. 在乎
- Both mean 'to care about.' 在乎 is slightly more colloquial and emotional; 在意 is slightly more versatile across formal and informal registers.
我不在乎(不 在意)别人怎么看我。
- 在意 vs. 介意
- 在意 is neutral-to-positive emotional investment. 介意 is negative sensitivity or taking offense.
我抽烟你介意吗? (Do you mind if I smoke? Here, 在意 would sound weird.)
- 在意 vs. 重视
- 重视 is formal, objective, and institutional. 在意 is personal, subjective, and emotional.
学校非常重视(not 在意)学生的心理健康教育。
妈妈很 在意 我的成绩。 (Personal and emotional)
别为了一点小事斤斤计较,不值得去 在意。
Examples by Level
没关系,别在意。
It's okay, don't mind it.
别 (don't) + 在意 (mind) is a fixed phrase for comforting.
我不在意。
I don't mind / I don't care.
不 (not) negates the verb to show lack of concern.
你在意吗?
Do you mind? / Do you care?
Adding 吗 at the end turns the statement into a yes/no question.
他很在意。
He cares a lot.
很 (very) is required before affirmative psychological verbs.
大家都不在意。
Everyone does not mind.
都 (all) emphasizes that the lack of concern applies to the whole group.
请别在意。
Please don't mind.
请 (please) makes the imperative 别在意 more polite.
我真的不在意。
I really don't mind.
真的 (really) adds emphasis to the negation.
谁在意?
Who cares?
谁 (who) used rhetorically to mean 'nobody cares'.
我很在意你的看法。
I really care about your opinion.
在意 can take a noun phrase (你的看法 - your opinion) as an object.
她非常在意这件衣服的颜色。
She cares extremely about the color of this dress.
非常 (extremely) shows a higher degree than 很.
你为什么这么在意?
Why do you care so much?
这么 (so much) modifies the verb to question the intensity of the feeling.
我没在意他说的话。
I didn't pay attention to what he said.
没 (did not) negates past action, meaning 'didn't notice/pay attention'.
别在意那些小事。
Don't mind those little things.
在意 taking a specific noun (那些小事 - those little things) as an object.
只要你不在意就好。
As long as you don't mind, it's fine.
只要...就 (as long as... then) introduces a condition.
他似乎有些在意。
He seems to care a little.
有些 (a little) softens the degree of caring.
我其实挺在意的。
I actually care quite a bit.
挺...的 (quite) is a common colloquial structure for degree.
我很在意别人怎么看我。
I care a lot about how others see me.
在意 taking a question clause (别人怎么看我) as its object.
他表面上不在意,心里却很难过。
On the surface he doesn't care, but in his heart he is very sad.
Contrastive structure using 表面上 (on the surface) and 却 (but/however).
这件错事让我一直很在意。
This mistake has made me care/worry about it all along.
让 (make/let) introduces the cause of the psychological state.
老板最在意的是工作效率。
What the boss cares about most is work efficiency.
Using 的 to nominalize the verb phrase: 最在意的是 (the thing cared about most is).
你越在意,就越容易出错。
The more you care, the easier it is to make mistakes.
越...越... (the more... the more...) shows correlation.
我刚才在看手机,没在意你进来了。
I was looking at my phone just now, I didn't notice you came in.
没在意 meaning 'failed to notice' followed by a clause.
不管结果如何,我们都不在意。
No matter what the result is, we don't care.
不管...都 (no matter... still) shows unconditional negation.
她对细节在意得让人受不了。
She cares about details to an unbearable degree.
Verb + 得 + complement of degree (让人受不了 - unbearable).
在感情中,过度在意往往会给对方带来压力。
In a relationship, caring too much often brings pressure to the other person.
过度 (excessively) modifies 在意, which acts almost as a noun phrase here.
他之所以生气,是因为他在意你对他的态度。
The reason he is angry is that he cares about your attitude towards him.
之所以...是因为 (the reason why... is because) explains the root cause.
学会不在意别人的评价,是成熟的标志。
Learning not to care about others' evaluations is a sign of maturity.
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有点
A1A little; somewhat; rather.
一点
A1A little; a bit; slightly.
可恶
A2Hateful; detestable; abominable.
心不在焉
A2Absent-minded; preoccupied.
接受地
A2Acceptingly; receptively.
成就感
B1Sense of achievement; fulfillment.
撒娇
A2To act like a spoiled child; to act cute.
上瘾
B1To be addicted to something.
沉迷
A2To be addicted to; to be engrossed in.
敬佩
B1Admiration; respect; reverence.