A1 Idiom خنثی

দুধের মাছি

দধর মছ

Fair-weather friend

معنی

A friend only during good times.

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زمینه فرهنگی

Milk is a symbol of purity and wealth in Bengali culture. Attracting flies to something pure is seen as a negative, parasitic action. In villages, everyone knows everyone. A 'dudher machhi' is quickly identified and socially shamed for their lack of 'manushotwa' (humanity). Many poets, including Rabindranath Tagore, have written about the transience of opportunistic friendships, often using nature metaphors. In cities like Kolkata or Dhaka, the term is frequently used in offices to describe colleagues who only support the boss when they are in power.

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Spotting them

If someone only texts you when you post about a promotion or a new car, they might be a 'dudher machhi'.

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Don't be one!

Make sure to check in on your friends when they are going through a hard time so you aren't labeled a 'dudher machhi'.

معنی

A friend only during good times.

💡

Spotting them

If someone only texts you when you post about a promotion or a new car, they might be a 'dudher machhi'.

⚠️

Don't be one!

Make sure to check in on your friends when they are going through a hard time so you aren't labeled a 'dudher machhi'.

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Hospitality

In Bengal, even if you know someone is a 'dudher machhi', you might still feed them, but you won't trust them with secrets.

خودت رو بسنج

Choose the correct meaning of 'দুধের মাছি'.

রহিম বিপদের সময় আমাকে সাহায্য করেনি। সে একজন ______।

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: দুধের মাছি

Since Rahim didn't help in danger, he is a fair-weather friend.

Fill in the blank with the correct word.

সুসময়ে অনেক ______ পাওয়া যায়, কিন্তু দুঃসময়ে কেউ থাকে না।

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: দুধের মাছি

The idiom 'দুধের মাছি' fits the context of people appearing only in good times.

Match the situation to the idiom.

Someone who only calls you when you win a prize.

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: দুধের মাছি

Winning a prize is a 'good time' that attracts opportunists.

Complete the dialogue.

A: আমার সব টাকা শেষ হওয়ার পর বন্ধুরা আর আসে না। B: বুঝলাম, ওরা সবাই ______ ছিল।

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: দুধের মাছি

The friends leaving after money is gone is the definition of a fair-weather friend.

🎉 امتیاز: /4

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4 تمرین‌ها
Choose the correct meaning of 'দুধের মাছি'. Choose A1

রহিম বিপদের সময় আমাকে সাহায্য করেনি। সে একজন ______।

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: দুধের মাছি

Since Rahim didn't help in danger, he is a fair-weather friend.

Fill in the blank with the correct word. جای خالی A2

সুসময়ে অনেক ______ পাওয়া যায়, কিন্তু দুঃসময়ে কেউ থাকে না।

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: দুধের মাছি

The idiom 'দুধের মাছি' fits the context of people appearing only in good times.

Match the situation to the idiom. situation_matching B1

Someone who only calls you when you win a prize.

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: দুধের মাছি

Winning a prize is a 'good time' that attracts opportunists.

Complete the dialogue. dialogue_completion A2

A: আমার সব টাকা শেষ হওয়ার পর বন্ধুরা আর আসে না। B: বুঝলাম, ওরা সবাই ______ ছিল।

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: দুধের মাছি

The friends leaving after money is gone is the definition of a fair-weather friend.

🎉 امتیاز: /4

سوالات متداول

5 سوال

Yes, it is a mild to moderate insult. It calls someone selfish and disloyal.

Yes, if he only shows up when you have something he wants, you can use it jokingly or seriously.

The opposite is 'বিপদের বন্ধু' (Bipoder bondhu) or 'আসল বন্ধু' (Asol bondhu).

It's better to use 'সুসময়ের বন্ধু' in very formal essays, but 'dudher machhi' is fine in journalism.

Yes, you can say 'দুধের মাছিরা' to refer to a group of opportunistic people.

عبارات مرتبط

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সুসময়ের বন্ধু

synonym

Friend of good times

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বসন্তের কোকিল

similar

Cuckoo of spring

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বিপদের বন্ধু

contrast

Friend in danger

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ঘরের শত্রু বিভীষণ

builds on

The enemy within

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সুযোগ সন্ধানী

specialized form

Opportunist

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