A2 Idiom خنثی 2 دقیقه مطالعه

être aux petits soins

To distance oneself

به‌طور تحت‌اللفظی: To be at the little cares

در ۱۵ ثانیه

  • To be extremely attentive and caring toward someone.
  • The French way of saying someone is being pampered.
  • Used for great hosts, loving partners, or dedicated nurses.

معنی

Contrary to the translation provided in your prompt, this phrase actually means to be extremely attentive and caring toward someone. It is like giving someone the 'VIP treatment' or pampering them with every little detail.

مثال‌های کلیدی

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Describing a great host

Pendant tout le week-end, Julie a été aux petits soins pour nous.

All weekend, Julie was incredibly attentive to us.

2

At a high-end restaurant

Le serveur était aux petits soins, c'était un moment parfait.

The waiter was very attentive; it was a perfect moment.

3

Texting about a sick partner

Mon copain est aux petits soins pour moi car j'ai la grippe.

My boyfriend is taking great care of me because I have the flu.

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زمینه فرهنگی

In France, being 'aux petits soins' is the gold standard for 'l'art de recevoir' (the art of hosting). It is expected in high-end service but also highly valued in friendships. In Quebec, the phrase is often used with a sense of 'chaleur humaine' (human warmth). It's very common in the context of community and looking after neighbors. In Francophone West Africa, the concept of 'Teranga' (hospitality) often involves being 'aux petits soins' for guests, especially regarding food and comfort. Belgians use this phrase frequently in the context of 'convivialité.' It's often associated with making sure everyone has enough to eat and drink at a 'fête'.

🎯

Use it in Reviews

If you want to sound like a native in a Tripadvisor or Google review, use this phrase to describe the service. It carries more weight than just saying 'le service était bon'.

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Plural is Mandatory

Never use the singular. 'Au petit soin' is a classic learner mistake that immediately marks you as a non-native.

در ۱۵ ثانیه

  • To be extremely attentive and caring toward someone.
  • The French way of saying someone is being pampered.
  • Used for great hosts, loving partners, or dedicated nurses.

What It Means

Imagine you are staying at a five-star hotel. The staff anticipates your every need before you even ask. That is exactly what être aux petits soins feels like. It means taking care of someone with immense attention to detail. You aren't just helping them; you are doting on them. It is about those 'little' gestures that make a big difference.

How To Use It

You use this phrase with the verb être. Usually, you add the preposition pour to show who is receiving the care. For example, Il est aux petits soins pour sa femme. It works just like an adjective. You can use it to describe a person's general nature or a specific action. It is a very warm and positive expression.

When To Use It

Use it when someone goes above and beyond. Maybe a friend cooks you soup when you are sick. Or perhaps a waiter is exceptionally attentive during a fancy dinner. It is perfect for romantic contexts too. Use it to praise a partner who treats you like royalty. It also fits well when discussing hospitality or family dynamics.

When NOT To Use It

Do not use this for professional distance or cold efficiency. If a boss gives you a clear task, they aren't aux petits soins. It implies a level of affection or high-end service. Also, avoid it if someone is being overbearing or annoying. This phrase is almost always a compliment. Don't use it for 'distancing oneself'—that would be prendre ses distances.

Cultural Background

French culture places a high value on the art of hosting, or l'art de recevoir. This phrase captures that spirit perfectly. It suggests that true care isn't about grand gestures. It is found in the 'small' (petits) things. It reflects a society that appreciates slow, deliberate attention to comfort and well-being. It has been a staple of the language for centuries.

Common Variations

You might hear aux petits oignons which means something is prepared perfectly. While they sound similar, petits soins is about people and petits oignons is about things. Sometimes people say traiter quelqu'un aux petits soins. This just means 'to treat someone with great care.' Both versions are very common in daily French life.

نکات کاربردی

The phrase is very versatile and fits both casual and professional registers. Just remember it requires the verb 'être' and usually the preposition 'pour'.

🎯

Use it in Reviews

If you want to sound like a native in a Tripadvisor or Google review, use this phrase to describe the service. It carries more weight than just saying 'le service était bon'.

⚠️

Plural is Mandatory

Never use the singular. 'Au petit soin' is a classic learner mistake that immediately marks you as a non-native.

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The Power of 'Petit'

In French, 'petit' is often used to make things sound more affectionate or precise. Here, it makes the care sound more intimate and dedicated.

مثال‌ها

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#1 Describing a great host

Pendant tout le week-end, Julie a été aux petits soins pour nous.

All weekend, Julie was incredibly attentive to us.

Julie made sure the guests had everything they needed.

#2 At a high-end restaurant

Le serveur était aux petits soins, c'était un moment parfait.

The waiter was very attentive; it was a perfect moment.

Describes professional but warm service.

#3 Texting about a sick partner

Mon copain est aux petits soins pour moi car j'ai la grippe.

My boyfriend is taking great care of me because I have the flu.

Shows affection and domestic care.

#4 Humorous comment to a friend

Oh là là, tu es aux petits soins avec ton nouveau chien !

Wow, you're really pampering your new dog!

Using the phrase for a pet to show how much the owner dotes on it.

#5 A grandmother with her grandkids

Mamie est toujours aux petits soins quand on lui rend visite.

Grandma is always so doting when we visit her.

Captures the classic 'grandma' energy of over-feeding and comfort.

#6 In a formal thank-you note

Nous vous remercions d'avoir été aux petits soins durant notre séjour.

We thank you for being so attentive during our stay.

Polite way to acknowledge excellent service.

خودت رو بسنج

Complete the sentence with the correct form of the idiom.

Quand je suis malade, ma mère _______ aux _______ soins pour moi.

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: est / petits

We use the verb 'être' and the plural 'petits' to match 'soins'.

Which preposition usually follows 'être aux petits soins'?

Il est aux petits soins _______ ses invités.

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: pour

'Pour' is the standard preposition used to indicate the person receiving the care.

Choose the most natural response.

Client: 'L'hôtel était comment ?' Voyageur: 'Génial ! Le personnel _______.'

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: était aux petits soins

The idiom uses 'être' in the plural form.

Match the situation to the phrase.

You want to tell your host that you felt very pampered during your stay.

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: Vous avez été aux petits soins pour moi, merci !

This is the most natural and polite way to express gratitude for hospitality.

🎉 امتیاز: /4

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بانک تمرین

4 تمرین‌ها
Complete the sentence with the correct form of the idiom. جای خالی A2

Quand je suis malade, ma mère _______ aux _______ soins pour moi.

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: est / petits

We use the verb 'être' and the plural 'petits' to match 'soins'.

Which preposition usually follows 'être aux petits soins'? Choose A2

Il est aux petits soins _______ ses invités.

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: pour

'Pour' is the standard preposition used to indicate the person receiving the care.

Choose the most natural response. dialogue_completion B1

Client: 'L'hôtel était comment ?' Voyageur: 'Génial ! Le personnel _______.'

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: était aux petits soins

The idiom uses 'être' in the plural form.

Match the situation to the phrase. situation_matching A2

You want to tell your host that you felt very pampered during your stay.

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: Vous avez été aux petits soins pour moi, merci !

This is the most natural and polite way to express gratitude for hospitality.

🎉 امتیاز: /4

سوالات متداول

10 سوال

Not really. You would say 'Je prends soin de moi' or 'Je me chouchoute.' 'Être aux petits soins' almost always requires a recipient other than yourself.

It's neutral. You can use it with your boss, your grandma, or a waiter. It's always polite and warm.

'Dorloter' is a verb that implies physical cuddling or spoiling, whereas 'être aux petits soins' is more about attentive service and noticing needs.

Yes, metaphorically. You can be 'aux petits soins' for your car or your garden, meaning you maintain them with extreme care.

No, it is silent. The word ends with a nasal 'in' sound.

Generally no, but if someone is *too* attentive, you might say it sarcastically, though this is rare.

No, the idiom is fixed in the plural form regardless of the number of actions.

Yes, it's very common in novels, letters, and reviews.

You will hear 'avec' in spoken French, but 'pour' is more elegant and grammatically correct.

There isn't a direct idiomatic opposite, but you could say 'négliger quelqu'un' (to neglect someone).

عبارات مرتبط

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Prendre soin de

similar

To take care of

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Chouchouter

synonym

To pamper/spoil

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Se mettre en quatre

builds on

To go to great lengths

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Aux petits oignons

contrast

Perfectly prepared

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