En 15 secondes
- The primary word for making polite requests in English.
- Can be used at the start, middle, or end of sentences.
- Essential for daily interactions like ordering food or asking favors.
Signification
This is the magic word used to show respect and kindness when you ask for something. It turns a command into a polite request so people feel happy to help you.
Exemples clés
3 sur 7Ordering a drink at a cafe
I'll have a medium latte, please.
I'll have a medium latte, please.
Asking a colleague for help
Could you please send me that report by noon?
Could you please send me that report by noon?
Texting a friend to bring something
Bring some snacks for the movie, please!
Bring some snacks for the movie, please!
Contexte culturel
British people are famous for over-using 'please.' Using it multiple times in a single interaction is common and expected. In the US, 'please' is essential in service industries. A customer who doesn't say 'please' to a server is often seen as very rude or 'entitled.' While Japanese has equivalents, the concept of 'please' is often built into the grammar. English learners from Japan sometimes forget to use 'please' because they feel their tone is already polite. Because 'Bitte' means both 'please' and 'you're welcome,' Germans often accidentally say 'please' when they should say 'you're welcome.'
The Comma Rule
When writing 'please' at the end of a sentence, it's often more professional to put a comma before it: 'Help me, please.'
Don't over-sarcastic
Be careful with your tone when saying 'Oh, please!' as it can be very offensive if used in the wrong moment.
En 15 secondes
- The primary word for making polite requests in English.
- Can be used at the start, middle, or end of sentences.
- Essential for daily interactions like ordering food or asking favors.
What It Means
Please is the most important word in the English language for social harmony. It is a polite addition to any request. Without it, you might sound like you are giving orders. It shows you respect the other person's time and effort. Think of it as a social lubricant that makes interactions smoother. It transforms a blunt statement into a warm invitation.
How To Use It
You can place please at the beginning, middle, or end of a sentence. Put it at the start for a very polite tone: Please, take a seat. Use it at the end for a standard, friendly request: Can I have a coffee, please? In the middle, it often adds emphasis to a verb: Could you please help me? It is incredibly flexible. You can even use it as a one-word answer to accept an offer. If someone asks, "Would you like some cake?" just say Please! with a smile.
When To Use It
Use it every single time you want something from someone else. Use it at a restaurant when ordering food. Use it at work when asking a colleague for a file. Use it at home with your family to stay on their good side. Even if you are paying for a service, please is expected. It is common in text messages, emails, and face-to-face talks. Basically, if you are not sure, just say please!
When NOT To Use It
Do not use it when you are giving a direct, urgent command in an emergency. If a building is on fire, don't say, "Please, run!" Just yell "Run!" Also, avoid overusing it in a single sentence. Saying Please, could you please help me please? makes you sound desperate or sarcastic. Finally, don't use it when you are genuinely angry and trying to be firm. In those rare moments, the politeness of please might actually sound like cold passive-aggression.
Cultural Background
English-speaking cultures, especially in the UK and North America, are obsessed with politeness. The word comes from the phrase "if it please you." It implies that the other person has the choice to say no. This gives them power and shows you aren't a bully. In some cultures, being direct is seen as honest. In English, being too direct is often seen as rude. Children are taught from age two to use their "magic word."
Common Variations
You might hear Pretty please when someone is being extra persuasive or cute. Yes, please is the standard way to accept an offer. In very formal settings, people might use If you please at the end of a sentence. Sometimes, people use Please? with a rising intonation to beg for something. In casual texts, you might see it shortened to pls or plz. No matter the version, the goal is always the same: be kind!
Notes d'usage
The word `please` is universally accepted across all levels of formality. The main 'gotcha' is your tone of voice; a sarcastic `please` can change the meaning entirely.
The Comma Rule
When writing 'please' at the end of a sentence, it's often more professional to put a comma before it: 'Help me, please.'
Don't over-sarcastic
Be careful with your tone when saying 'Oh, please!' as it can be very offensive if used in the wrong moment.
Yes, please!
Always use 'please' when saying 'yes' to an offer. Just saying 'yes' can sound greedy or rude.
The Magic Word
In English-speaking countries, parents will often refuse to give a child something until they say 'the magic word' (please).
Exemples
7I'll have a medium latte, please.
I'll have a medium latte, please.
Standard way to order food or drinks politely.
Could you please send me that report by noon?
Could you please send me that report by noon?
Using 'please' in the middle of a request is very professional.
Bring some snacks for the movie, please!
Bring some snacks for the movie, please!
Softens a direct command between friends.
Excuse me, could you tell me the time, please?
Excuse me, could you tell me the time, please?
Essential when approaching people you don't know.
Can we get the robot? Pretty please?
Can we get the robot? Pretty please?
'Pretty please' is used for extra persuasion or by children.
Would you like a seat? Yes, please.
Would you like a seat? Yes, please.
The standard way to say 'yes' to an offer.
Please, I just need a minute to think.
Please, I just need a minute to think.
Used at the start to show emotional sincerity.
Teste-toi
Complete the sentence to make it polite.
Can I have a glass of water, ______?
We use 'please' at the end of a request to be polite.
Which response is correct?
Person A: 'Thank you for the gift!' Person B: '________'
You should never use 'please' as a response to 'thank you.'
Complete the dialogue in a cafe.
Waiter: 'Would you like some sugar?' Customer: 'Yes, _______.'
When accepting an offer, 'Yes, please' is the standard polite form.
Match the sentence to the correct situation.
'Oh, please! I don't believe that for a second.'
'Oh, please!' is an informal way to show you think something is ridiculous.
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Aides visuelles
Banque d exercices
4 exercicesCan I have a glass of water, ______?
We use 'please' at the end of a request to be polite.
Person A: 'Thank you for the gift!' Person B: '________'
You should never use 'please' as a response to 'thank you.'
Waiter: 'Would you like some sugar?' Customer: 'Yes, _______.'
When accepting an offer, 'Yes, please' is the standard polite form.
'Oh, please! I don't believe that for a second.'
'Oh, please!' is an informal way to show you think something is ridiculous.
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Questions fréquentes
12 questionsYes! 'Please sit down' is very common. It sounds like a polite instruction.
It is neutral. It is used with both kings and beggars. It's always safe to use.
It's a playful, extra-polite way to ask for a favor, usually used with friends or family.
No. This is a common mistake. Always say 'You're welcome' after 'Thank you.'
It means 'I don't believe you' or 'Stop being annoying.' It's informal and can be sarcastic.
Not necessarily. 'Kindly' is more formal and can sometimes sound a bit cold or demanding in modern English.
In casual writing, no. In formal writing, a comma before 'please' at the end of a sentence is preferred.
You can use 'please' or the common abbreviation 'plz.'
Yes. 'To please someone' means to make them happy. 'It pleases me to meet you.'
Yes, in many English-speaking cultures, omitting 'please' makes you sound demanding or angry.
In English, 'the magic word' is a common nickname for 'please.'
Yes. 'Please don't touch that' is a very polite way to give a warning.
Expressions liées
Kindly
similarA formal way to say please.
If you don't mind
builds onA way to ask if a request is okay.
Thank you
similarExpression of gratitude.
You're welcome
contrastResponse to thank you.
Pretty please
specialized formA very informal, pleading 'please.'
