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How to stop screwing yourself over | Mel Robbins | TEDxSF

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Transcriber: Judith Matz Reviewer: Tatjana Jevdjic

00:11

Bigger welcome! Hello, San Francisco!

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TEDx – oh my God, blinding light!

00:18

Hi, everybody! How are you?

00:20

(Audience cheering) Fine?! Oh my gosh! Okay, so...

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My name is Mel Robbins, and for the last seventeen years,

00:27

I have done nothing but help people get everything that they want.

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Within reason! My husband's here.

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So, I've done it in the courtroom, in the boardroom, in the bedroom,

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in people's living room, whatever room you want to be in,

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if I'm there, I will help you get whatever you want by any means necessary.

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For the last three years – I host a syndicated radio show.

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Five days a week, I go live in forty cities

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and I talk to men and women across America who feel stuck.

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Do you know that a third of Americans feel dissatisfied with their lives right now?

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That is a hundred million people!

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That's insane!

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And I've come face to face with it in this new show that I'm doing,

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which is also insane, it's called "In-laws".

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I move in with families across America – (Laughter)

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You guessed it!

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– who are at war with their in-laws.

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We move them into the same house, I verbally assassinate everybody,

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we open up Pandora's box,

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and I get people to stop arguing about the donuts

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and who is hosting Thanksgiving dinner,

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and talk about the real stuff.

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And that's what I want to talk to you about.

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I'm here for you.

01:56

I'm going to tell you everything I know in less than eighteen minutes

02:00

about how to get what you want.

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So I want you to take a millisecond right now

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and think about what you want.

02:06

You!

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And I want you to be selfish.

02:10

Screw Simon and the "We" thing. This is about me, right now!

02:13

(Laughter) (Applause) Sorry, Simon.

02:17

What do you want? And here's the deal.

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I don't want it to sound good to other people.

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Being healthy will not get your ass on a treadmill.

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Losing your manboobs, so you can hook up with somebody,

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now that's motivation. (Laughter)

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So, I want to know: What do you want?

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Do you want to lose weight? Do you want to triple your income?

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Do you want to start a nonprofit? Do you want to find love?

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What is it? Get it, right here.

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You know what it is, don't analyze it to death, just pick something.

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That's part of the problem. You won't pick.

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So, we're going to be talking about how you get what you want.

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And frankly, getting what you want is simple.

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But notice I didn't say it was easy.

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It's very simple.

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In fact, if you think about it,

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we live in the most amazing moment in time.

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So that thing that you have up here, whatever it may be,

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you want to use healthy eating to cure your diabetes,

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you want to figure out how to take care of the elders

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and start a new hospice center,

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you want to move to Africa and build a school... Guess what?

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You can walk into a book store – right now! –

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and buy at least ten books written by credentialed experts

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on how the hell you do it.

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You could Google it.

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And you could probably find at least, I don't know - a thousand blogs

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documenting the step, by step, by step transformation

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that somebody else is already doing.

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You can find anybody online and cyber-stalk them!

04:04

(Laughter)

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You can just walk in their footsteps – just use the science of drafting.

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Follow what everyone else has done, because somebody is already doing it!

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So why don't you have what you want,

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when you have all the information that you need,

04:19

you have the contacts that you need,

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there are probably free tools online that allow you to start a business,

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