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How to stop screwing yourself over | Mel Robbins | TEDxSF
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Transcriber: Judith Matz Reviewer: Tatjana Jevdjic
Bigger welcome! Hello, San Francisco!
TEDx – oh my God, blinding light!
Hi, everybody! How are you?
(Audience cheering) Fine?! Oh my gosh! Okay, so...
My name is Mel Robbins, and for the last seventeen years,
I have done nothing but help people get everything that they want.
Within reason! My husband's here.
So, I've done it in the courtroom, in the boardroom, in the bedroom,
in people's living room, whatever room you want to be in,
if I'm there, I will help you get whatever you want by any means necessary.
For the last three years – I host a syndicated radio show.
Five days a week, I go live in forty cities
and I talk to men and women across America who feel stuck.
Do you know that a third of Americans feel dissatisfied with their lives right now?
That is a hundred million people!
That's insane!
And I've come face to face with it in this new show that I'm doing,
which is also insane, it's called "In-laws".
I move in with families across America – (Laughter)
You guessed it!
– who are at war with their in-laws.
We move them into the same house, I verbally assassinate everybody,
we open up Pandora's box,
and I get people to stop arguing about the donuts
and who is hosting Thanksgiving dinner,
and talk about the real stuff.
And that's what I want to talk to you about.
I'm here for you.
I'm going to tell you everything I know in less than eighteen minutes
about how to get what you want.
So I want you to take a millisecond right now
and think about what you want.
You!
And I want you to be selfish.
Screw Simon and the "We" thing. This is about me, right now!
(Laughter) (Applause) Sorry, Simon.
What do you want? And here's the deal.
I don't want it to sound good to other people.
Being healthy will not get your ass on a treadmill.
Losing your manboobs, so you can hook up with somebody,
now that's motivation. (Laughter)
So, I want to know: What do you want?
Do you want to lose weight? Do you want to triple your income?
Do you want to start a nonprofit? Do you want to find love?
What is it? Get it, right here.
You know what it is, don't analyze it to death, just pick something.
That's part of the problem. You won't pick.
So, we're going to be talking about how you get what you want.
And frankly, getting what you want is simple.
But notice I didn't say it was easy.
It's very simple.
In fact, if you think about it,
we live in the most amazing moment in time.
So that thing that you have up here, whatever it may be,
you want to use healthy eating to cure your diabetes,
you want to figure out how to take care of the elders
and start a new hospice center,
you want to move to Africa and build a school... Guess what?
You can walk into a book store – right now! –
and buy at least ten books written by credentialed experts
on how the hell you do it.
You could Google it.
And you could probably find at least, I don't know - a thousand blogs
documenting the step, by step, by step transformation
that somebody else is already doing.
You can find anybody online and cyber-stalk them!
(Laughter)
You can just walk in their footsteps – just use the science of drafting.
Follow what everyone else has done, because somebody is already doing it!
So why don't you have what you want,
when you have all the information that you need,
you have the contacts that you need,
there are probably free tools online that allow you to start a business,
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