Meaning
To succeed in doing what one wants, despite opposition.
Cultural Background
In Spain, being 'cabezón' (stubborn) is often seen as a regional trait in places like Aragon. 'Salirse con la suya' can be used with a touch of respect for someone's tenacity. In Mexico, the phrase might be used in the context of 'el que manda' (the one in charge). It often appears in ranchera song lyrics about pride and stubborn love. Linked to 'viveza criolla,' getting your way is sometimes seen as being 'piola' (clever/sharp). It's a social skill to navigate difficult systems. Often associated with 'malicia indígena,' which refers to a mix of caution and cleverness to achieve one's ends without direct confrontation.
The 'La' Rule
Always keep 'la' feminine. Even if you are a man, you say 'Me salí con la mía.'
Don't be too aggressive
Using this phrase about someone can sound like you are calling them stubborn or selfish.
Meaning
To succeed in doing what one wants, despite opposition.
The 'La' Rule
Always keep 'la' feminine. Even if you are a man, you say 'Me salí con la mía.'
Don't be too aggressive
Using this phrase about someone can sound like you are calling them stubborn or selfish.
Villain Speak
In movies, villains often say '¡No te saldrás con la tuya!' (You won't get away with it!).
Test Yourself
Complete the sentence with the correct form of 'salirse con la suya' (remember to change the possessive!).
Yo quería ir a la playa y al final fuimos. Me ______ con la ______.
Since the subject is 'Yo', the verb must be 'me salí' and the possessive must be 'mía'.
Which sentence is grammatically correct?
Select the correct option:
The phrase must be reflexive ('se salieron') and the possessive must be feminine ('la suya').
Match the situation to the most appropriate phrase.
A child cries until his parents buy him candy.
This idiom is perfect for describing a child getting what they want through persistence or crying.
Complete the dialogue.
A: ¿Vamos al cine o al teatro? B: Al teatro. A: ¡Vale! Siempre te ______ con la ______.
A is talking to B (tú), so 'te sales con la tuya' is the correct form.
🎉 Score: /4
Visual Learning Aids
Practice Bank
4 exercisesYo quería ir a la playa y al final fuimos. Me ______ con la ______.
Since the subject is 'Yo', the verb must be 'me salí' and the possessive must be 'mía'.
Select the correct option:
The phrase must be reflexive ('se salieron') and the possessive must be feminine ('la suya').
A child cries until his parents buy him candy.
This idiom is perfect for describing a child getting what they want through persistence or crying.
A: ¿Vamos al cine o al teatro? B: Al teatro. A: ¡Vale! Siempre te ______ con la ______.
A is talking to B (tú), so 'te sales con la tuya' is the correct form.
🎉 Score: /4
Frequently Asked Questions
14 questionsNot always, but it usually implies that someone else had to give in. It can be used playfully between friends.
No, that is a common mistake. It is always 'la suya' because it refers to 'la voluntad' (feminine).
'Tener éxito' is just 'to succeed.' 'Salirse con la suya' implies you succeeded *despite* someone else wanting something different.
You say 'Me salí con la mía.'
Yes, it is universally understood and used across Spain and Latin America.
Probably not. It sounds a bit too informal and potentially manipulative. Use 'lograr consensos' instead.
It refers to an implied feminine noun, usually 'voluntad' (will) or 'idea'.
Yes: 'Nos salimos con la nuestra' or 'Ellos se salieron con la suya'. Note 'la' stays singular.
Yes, 'El equipo se salió con la suya.'
No, it's a standard idiom. It's safe for most casual and semi-formal conversations.
The most common translation is 'No te saldrás con la tuya.'
Yes, it's a common variation, especially in Spain.
The reflexive 'se' adds a sense of personal involvement or benefit to the action.
No, it implies intention and effort to get what you want.
Related Phrases
Hacer su santa voluntad
similarTo do exactly what one wants without considering others.
Lograr su objetivo
synonymTo achieve one's goal.
Llevarse el gato al agua
similarTo win a difficult argument or competition.
Ceder
contrastTo give in / to yield.
