Kiffer
To like / to love (informal)
Phrase in 30 Seconds
Kiffer is the essential French slang verb to express that you're really enjoying something or someone in a cool, relaxed way.
- Means: To really like, love, or get a kick out of something.
- Used in: Casual chats with friends, social media, and talking about hobbies.
- Don't confuse: Don't use it with your boss or in a formal interview.
Explanation at your level:
Meaning
To really enjoy something or someone.
Cultural Background
In France, 'kiffer' is ubiquitous. It's used by teenagers, young adults, and even 'bobos' (bourgeois-bohemians) in Paris. It's a symbol of how 'banlieue' culture has influenced the whole country. While the word comes from here, its use as a French verb is a European invention. In North Africa, 'kif' still often refers to the substance or a general state of mind. In Quebec, 'kiffer' is recognized but less common than in France. Quebecers are more likely to use 'tripper' to express the same feeling. In countries like Ivory Coast or Senegal, 'kiffer' is very popular in urban music (Ivorian Coupé-Décalé or Rap). It's used to show status and enjoyment of the 'good life'.
Use 'Grave'
To sound truly native, pair 'kiffer' with 'grave'. 'Je kiffe grave !' is the ultimate expression of cool approval.
The 'Crush' Trap
Be careful: 'Je te kiffe' can mean 'I like you' or 'I'm attracted to you'. Context is everything!
Meaning
To really enjoy something or someone.
Use 'Grave'
To sound truly native, pair 'kiffer' with 'grave'. 'Je kiffe grave !' is the ultimate expression of cool approval.
The 'Crush' Trap
Be careful: 'Je te kiffe' can mean 'I like you' or 'I'm attracted to you'. Context is everything!
Age Matters
While common, if you are over 50, using 'kiffer' might make you look like you're trying too hard to be young. Use it sparingly.
Test Yourself
Fill in the blank with the correct form of 'kiffer' in the present tense.
Mes amis et moi, nous _______ trop ce nouveau restaurant.
The subject is 'Mes amis et moi' (we), so the ending is -ons.
Which sentence is the most appropriate for a casual chat with a friend?
You want to say you liked the movie.
'Trop kiffé' is the perfect informal way to express enthusiasm.
Match the French slang to its neutral equivalent.
Match the pairs:
These are the standard equivalents of the slang terms.
Complete the dialogue with the most natural slang word.
A: Tu viens au concert ? B: Grave ! Je ______ trop ce groupe !
In a dialogue starting with 'Grave!', 'kiffe' is the most stylistically consistent choice.
🎉 Score: /4
Visual Learning Aids
Liking something in French
Frequently Asked Questions
10 questionsNo, it's not a swear word. It's just very informal. It's like saying 'I'm into this' instead of 'I enjoy this'.
Yes, but it usually implies a crush or that you find them very cool. 'Je kiffe mon prof' means you think your teacher is awesome.
It's 'kiffer' on steroids. Use it when you absolutely love something.
Only in modern novels that use slang to be realistic, like 'Kiffe kiffe demain' by Faïza Guène.
You can say 'Je kiffe pas trop' or 'C'est pas mon kiff'.
They share the same Arabic root, but 'kiffer' is a much newer addition to the French language.
Only if the email is to a very close friend. Never in a professional email.
In casual spoken French among young people, yes. In formal or written French, no.
It means 'It's my thing' or 'It's what I love doing'.
No, like all regular -er verbs in the infinitive, the 'r' is silent. It sounds like 'kiff-ay'.
Related Phrases
surkiffer
specialized formTo love something intensely
kiffant
builds onCool, enjoyable
un kiff
builds onA pleasure or a hobby
être en kiff sur
similarTo have a crush on
valider
similarTo approve of / to like
Where to Use It
At a concert
Léo: Alors, tu aimes le groupe ?
Sarah: Franchement, je kiffe grave ! Le son est énorme.
Eating out
Marc: Il est comment ton burger ?
Julie: Je kiffe trop la sauce, elle est incroyable.
Talking about a crush
Emma: Tu as vu le nouveau ?
Chloé: Ouais, je crois que je kiffe un peu sur lui.
Watching a movie
Tom: Tu as aimé la fin ?
Léa: J'ai pas trop kiffé, c'était un peu bizarre.
On vacation
Paul: C'est bien les vacances ?
Marie: On kiffe la life sous le soleil !
Buying new clothes
Vendeuse: Ça vous plaît ?
Client: (à son ami) Je kiffe trop la couleur, je la prends !
Memorize It
Mnemonic
Kiffer starts with 'K' like 'Key'. It's the 'Key' to expressing what you love in French!
Visual Association
Imagine a person wearing cool sunglasses, leaning back with a huge smile, holding a slice of pizza. That person is 'en train de kiffer'.
Rhyme
Si tu aimes ce que tu fais, dis que tu kiffes à tout jamais !
Story
Imagine you are in a French 'boulangerie'. You see a pain au chocolat that looks amazing. You take a bite, close your eyes, and say 'Je kiffe'. The baker smiles because he knows you're having a great time.
Word Web
Challenge
Try to find three things today that you 'kiffe' and say them out loud in French: 'Je kiffe...' (e.g., my coffee, this song, the weather).
In Other Languages
Molar
Molar is used more for things being 'cool', while kiffer is more about the act of liking.
Abfahren auf
The German version is a phrasal verb, making the grammar more complex.
ハマる (Hamaru)
Hamaru implies a bit more obsession than the general 'kiffer'.
كيف (Kif)
In Arabic, it's often a noun or a particle, whereas French turned it into a regular verb.
Curtir
Curtir is slightly more mainstream and less 'slangy' than kiffer was originally.
感冒 (Gǎnmào)
The metaphor is completely different (illness vs. pleasure).
꽂히다 (Kkot-hida)
More about the suddenness of liking something.
To dig
Kiffer is much more commonly used by all ages in France today than 'dig' is in the US/UK.
Easily Confused
They sound similar and share the same root.
Kif-kif means 'it's all the same' (equal), while kiffer is a verb for liking.
Learners use kiffer in formal situations by mistake.
Use 'aimer' for your boss, 'kiffer' for your best friend.
FAQ (10)
No, it's not a swear word. It's just very informal. It's like saying 'I'm into this' instead of 'I enjoy this'.
Yes, but it usually implies a crush or that you find them very cool. 'Je kiffe mon prof' means you think your teacher is awesome.
It's 'kiffer' on steroids. Use it when you absolutely love something.
Only in modern novels that use slang to be realistic, like 'Kiffe kiffe demain' by Faïza Guène.
You can say 'Je kiffe pas trop' or 'C'est pas mon kiff'.
They share the same Arabic root, but 'kiffer' is a much newer addition to the French language.
Only if the email is to a very close friend. Never in a professional email.
In casual spoken French among young people, yes. In formal or written French, no.
It means 'It's my thing' or 'It's what I love doing'.
No, like all regular -er verbs in the infinitive, the 'r' is silent. It sounds like 'kiff-ay'.