Meaning
Statement indicating a feeling of sadness.
Cultural Background
The concept of 'Mono no aware' (the pathos of things) finds beauty in the sadness of transience, like falling cherry blossoms. Japanese people often suppress personal sadness to avoid making others feel uncomfortable, a practice known as 'Enryo'. Sad endings are very popular and are often called 'naki-ge' (crying games/stories), where the goal is to feel {悲|かな}しい. When giving a gift for a sad occasion (like a funeral), specific wrapping and etiquette are required to respect the {悲|かな}しみ.
Use with '~sugiru'
In casual Japanese, say '{悲|かな}しすぎる' (too sad) to emphasize your feeling.
Third Person Rule
Don't say '{彼|かれ}は{悲|かな}しい' unless you are writing a novel. Use '{悲|かな}しそうだ' in speech.
Meaning
Statement indicating a feeling of sadness.
Use with '~sugiru'
In casual Japanese, say '{悲|かな}しすぎる' (too sad) to emphasize your feeling.
Third Person Rule
Don't say '{彼|かれ}は{悲|かな}しい' unless you are writing a novel. Use '{悲|かな}しそうだ' in speech.
Noun Nuance
Use '{悲|かな}しみ' for deep, poetic grief and '{悲|かな}しさ' for the general state of being sad.
The 'Sad' Reaction
When someone shares bad news, a simple '{悲|かな}しいですね' is a very polite and empathetic way to respond.
Test Yourself
Fill in the blank with the correct form of {悲|かな}しい.
{昨日|きのう}は{映画|えいが}を{見|み}て、とても（ ）です。
The sentence starts with '{昨日|きのう}' (yesterday), so the past tense is required.
Which sentence is the most natural for a Japanese speaker?
You see a friend crying. What do you say?
Using '~sou' (looks like) is the natural way to address someone else's emotions.
Match the Japanese to the English.
1. {悲|かな}しくない 2. {悲|かな}しみ 3. {悲|かな}しく 4. {悲|かな}しかった
These are the basic conjugations and noun/adverb forms.
Complete the dialogue.
A: {田中|たなか}さんが{会社|かいしゃ}を{辞|や}めるそうですよ。 B: え、そうですか。それは（ ）ですね。
Losing a colleague is generally a 'sad' event in a social context.
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Visual Learning Aids
Sad vs Lonely
Practice Bank
4 exercises{昨日|きのう}は{映画|えいが}を{見|み}て、とても（ ）です。
The sentence starts with '{昨日|きのう}' (yesterday), so the past tense is required.
You see a friend crying. What do you say?
Using '~sou' (looks like) is the natural way to address someone else's emotions.
Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:
These are the basic conjugations and noun/adverb forms.
A: {田中|たなか}さんが{会社|かいしゃ}を{辞|や}めるそうですよ。 B: え、そうですか。それは（ ）ですね。
Losing a colleague is generally a 'sad' event in a social context.
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Frequently Asked Questions
10 questionsYes, but only to describe your own feelings. To describe someone else, use {悲|かな}しそう (looks sad).
{悲|かな}しい is sorrow/grief. {寂|さび}しい is loneliness/missing someone.
It is neutral. Add 'desu' to make it polite enough for most situations.
Use the negative form: {悲|かな}しくないです。
Yes, in certain contexts it can describe a 'sad' or regrettable state of affairs.
Because the original word 'kanashi' meant something was so dear it made you feel emotional.
The most direct opposite is {嬉|うれ}しい (happy/glad).
No, use {痛|いた}い (itai) for physical pain.
Young people use '{ぴえん}' for a light, cute sadness, or '{悲|かな}しみ}' as a noun-slang.
{悲|かな}しい{曲|きょく} (kanashii kyoku).
Related Phrases
{寂|さび}しい
similarLonely
{切|せつ}ない
similarBittersweet/Heartrending
{辛|つら}い
similarPainful/Hard
{残念|ざんねん}
similarRegrettable/Pity
{嬉|うれ}しい
contrastHappy
{悲|かな}しむ
builds onTo grieve/mourn
