The video owner has disabled playback on external websites.
This video is no longer available on YouTube.
This video cannot be played right now.
Watch on YouTube
افتح أدوات التعلم بالذكاء الاصطناعي
سجّل للوصول إلى أدوات قوية تساعدك على التعلم أسرع من كل فيديو.
Break-Ups Don’t Have to Leave You Broken | Gary Lewandowski | TEDxNavesink
إحصائيات التعلم
مستوى CEFR
الصعوبة
الترجمة (236 مقاطع)
Translator: Ailie McCorkindale
"So, we need to talk."
Hearing those four simple words from your relationship partner
never feels good.
Your heart sinks, palpitates,
your stomach flutters, your palms get sweaty
because it's never, "We need to talk about what a great relationship we have,
how we're best friends
and how we'll spend the rest of our lives together."
It's never that.
It's always, "We need to talk about the beginning of the end."
And whether your relationship is awful, good or great,
we don't like endings, we don't like to lose things,
and especially, we don't like to lose things that are important to us.
And make no mistake,
relationships are the single most important thing to you in your life.
It's the source of all of your best memories.
It's the source of all of your worst memories.
When you think back on your life, when you're 95, 100 years old,
and you look back over the course of your lifetime,
you're not going to think, "I wish I owned a better phone.
I wish I spent more time on the Internet.
I wish I spent more time at work or sleeping."
It's not going to be any of those kinds of things.
It's going to be, "I wish I spent more time with the people I love"
because our relationships, they build us, they define us, they sustain us,
and they can break us too.
And we know relationship break-up can be tough, right?
The research is pretty clear:
loneliness, depression, increased crime, increased drug use.
Some of my own research shows
that break-ups lead you to experience a loss of self,
so when you lose a relationship,
part of who you are as a person goes with it
because relationships are important.
And it's bad, don't get me wrong, it can be bad,
but it's often not as bad as we think.
Researchers at Carnegie Mellon and Northwestern
asked people who are currently in happy relationships
to look out into the future, to make a prediction,
and they said, you know, "If your relationship were to end,
how bad would you feel about it?"
And then, those researchers do what researchers do is they waited.
And they waited for those people, those happy, happy relationships,
they waited for those people to break up.
(Laughter)
Because only then could they actually see how bad was it, right?
They waited for them to break up and said, "So, how bad is it now that you broke up?"
الترجمة الكاملة متاحة في مشغل الفيديو
تدرّب مع التمارين
أنشئ تمارين مفردات وقواعد وفهم من هذا الفيديو
التعليقات (0)
تسجيل الدخول للتعليقالوضع التفاعلي
اختبار
الإجابة الصحيحة:
فيديوهات ذات صلة
All About Penguins for Kids: Penguins of the World for Children - FreeSchool
Hovering a Helicopter is Hilariously Hard - Smarter Every Day 145
What Went Behind Max’s Running Up That Hill Scene? | Stranger Things | Sadie Sink | Netflix India
Titanic - "You jump,i jump right?" (HD)
Advanced Vocabulary from the New York Times Newspaper
TEDx Talks
اختبار
الإجابة الصحيحة:
تظهر الاختبارات أثناء مشاهدة الفيديو
نصيحة للحفظ
من هذا الفيديو
ابدأ تعلم اللغات مجاناً
