B1 Proverb خنثی

কারো পৌষ মাস কারো সর্বনাশ

কর পষ মস কর সরবনশ

One's harvest, another's ruin

معنی

One person's gain is another's loss.

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زمینه فرهنگی

In rural Bengal, the month of Poush is synonymous with 'Poush Parbon,' where families make various types of 'Pitha' (rice cakes). The proverb reminds people that while they celebrate, they should not forget those suffering from the winter cold. In modern cities like Dhaka or Kolkata, this proverb is frequently used in political talk shows to criticize government policies that favor the elite while burdening the middle class with taxes. Many Bengali writers, including Rabindranath Tagore and Sarat Chandra Chattopadhyay, have used this proverb or its themes to highlight the plight of the poor in their novels. Using this proverb in a business meeting can be a subtle way to point out that a deal is unfair or one-sided without being directly aggressive.

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Use it for Social Critique

If you want to sound like a native intellectual, use this when discussing news about inflation or corporate profits.

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Don't be too insensitive

Be careful using this directly to someone who is suffering. It's better used as a third-party observation.

معنی

One person's gain is another's loss.

🎯

Use it for Social Critique

If you want to sound like a native intellectual, use this when discussing news about inflation or corporate profits.

⚠️

Don't be too insensitive

Be careful using this directly to someone who is suffering. It's better used as a third-party observation.

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The 'Poush' Vibe

Remember that Poush is cold. If you use this in summer, the literal meaning is lost, but the figurative meaning remains 100% valid.

خودت رو بسنج

Fill in the blanks with the correct words from the proverb.

কারো ______ মাস, কারো ______।

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: b

The standard proverb uses 'পৌষ' (Poush) and 'সর্বনাশ' (Shorbonash).

Match the situation to the proverb's meaning.

A company goes bankrupt, and its rival gets all the customers. This is an example of:

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: b

This situation shows one person's gain (the rival) coming from another's ruin (the bankrupt company).

Complete the dialogue naturally.

রহিম: 'বাজারে চালের দাম বাড়ায় আমাদের খুব কষ্ট হচ্ছে।' করিম: 'হ্যাঁ, কিন্তু অসাধু ব্যবসায়ীদের তো এখন ______।'

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: b

Since the price hike is bad for Rahim, it is a 'harvest' (Poush Mash) for the dishonest traders.

Which sentence uses the proverb correctly in a formal context?

Choose the best sentence:

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: a

Sentence 'a' correctly applies the proverb to a social/political context with the right contrast.

🎉 امتیاز: /4

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بانک تمرین

4 تمرین‌ها
Fill in the blanks with the correct words from the proverb. جای خالی A2

কারো ______ মাস, কারো ______।

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: b

The standard proverb uses 'পৌষ' (Poush) and 'সর্বনাশ' (Shorbonash).

Match the situation to the proverb's meaning. situation_matching B1

A company goes bankrupt, and its rival gets all the customers. This is an example of:

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: b

This situation shows one person's gain (the rival) coming from another's ruin (the bankrupt company).

Complete the dialogue naturally. dialogue_completion B1

রহিম: 'বাজারে চালের দাম বাড়ায় আমাদের খুব কষ্ট হচ্ছে।' করিম: 'হ্যাঁ, কিন্তু অসাধু ব্যবসায়ীদের তো এখন ______।'

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: b

Since the price hike is bad for Rahim, it is a 'harvest' (Poush Mash) for the dishonest traders.

Which sentence uses the proverb correctly in a formal context? Choose B2

Choose the best sentence:

✓ درسته! ✗ نه دقیقاً. پاسخ صحیح: a

Sentence 'a' correctly applies the proverb to a social/political context with the right contrast.

🎉 امتیاز: /4

سوالات متداول

8 سوال

In the context of this proverb, yes. It represents a time of plenty and celebration. Outside the proverb, it's just a month.

No, the proverb is fixed. Using 'Magh' or 'Boishakh' would make it unrecognizable as a proverb.

It's not offensive, but it is cynical. It points out a harsh truth, so use it with empathy.

Yes, it is equally popular and understood in both regions.

The closest is 'One man's meat is another man's poison' or 'One man's gain is another man's loss.'

Only if you are discussing market trends or social issues. Don't use it to describe your own promotion over a colleague!

Yes, it literally means 'destruction of everything.' It's very dramatic.

You can say: 'ওর এখন পৌষ মাস চলছে।' (His Poush Mash is going on now.)

عبارات مرتبط

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পরের মাথায় কাঁঠাল ভাঙা

similar

To exploit someone for one's own gain.

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এক মাঘে শীত যায় না

similar

Danger doesn't come only once; don't be too arrogant in your good times.

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কারো ঘর পোড়ে, কেউ আগুন পোহায়

synonym

One person's house is burning, while another warms themselves by the fire.

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নিজের নাক কেটে পরের যাত্রা ভঙ্গ করা

contrast

To hurt oneself just to cause a loss for someone else.

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