در ۱۵ ثانیه
- Describes an emotional state of feeling alone and disconnected.
- Commonly used in songs, poems, and personal conversations.
- Heavier and more emotional than simply being 'bored'.
معنی
It describes a deep sense of being alone or empty, often when you feel like nobody truly understands you. It is more than just being by yourself; it is the emotional weight of missing companionship or connection.
مثالهای کلیدی
3 از 6Talking to a close friend over coffee
搬到新城市后，我常感到寂寞。
After moving to a new city, I often feel lonely.
Texting a partner you miss
你不在家，我好寂寞啊。
You're not home, I'm so lonely.
Discussing a character in a movie
那个老人过着寂寞的生活。
That old man lives a lonely life.
زمینه فرهنگی
The term has evolved from a high-brow poetic concept to a relatable modern struggle. In the late 2000s, it became a viral internet sensation used by 'emo' youth to express a sense of existential boredom and isolation in the digital age.
Don't confuse with Boredom
If you just have nothing to do, use `无聊`. If your heart feels empty, use `寂寞`.
Too Heavy for Small Talk
Avoid saying `我很寂寞` to a cashier or a new acquaintance; it's a bit too much information!
در ۱۵ ثانیه
- Describes an emotional state of feeling alone and disconnected.
- Commonly used in songs, poems, and personal conversations.
- Heavier and more emotional than simply being 'bored'.
What It Means
寂寞 (jìmò) is a word that hits right in the feels. It is not just about having no one around you. It is that quiet, heavy feeling in your chest. You can be at a party and still feel 寂寞. It suggests a lack of spiritual or emotional connection. Think of it as 'loneliness' with a poetic, slightly melancholic edge.
How To Use It
You usually use it as an adjective. Most people put 很 (hěn) or 非常 (fēicháng) in front of it. You can say 我很寂寞 (I am lonely). It is common in songs, movies, and late-night social media posts. It describes a state of mind rather than a physical count of people. Use it when you are feeling a bit vulnerable or reflective.
When To Use It
Use it when you are genuinely missing someone's company. It is perfect for texting a friend when you have been home alone too long. Use it when discussing deep emotions or life's big questions. It works well in creative writing or poetry. If you are watching a sunset alone and feel a bit sad, that is 寂寞.
When NOT To Use It
Do not use it for a quick 'I'm bored' moment. For that, use 无聊 (wúliáo) instead. 寂寞 is too heavy for just having nothing to do. Avoid using it in professional business meetings. It is a very personal, private emotion. Telling your boss you are 寂寞 might lead to a very awkward HR meeting. Keep it for friends, family, or your diary.
Cultural Background
In Chinese culture, 寂寞 has a long history in classical poetry. Ancient scholars often wrote about the 寂寞 of being a misunderstood genius. In modern times, it became a massive internet meme. The phrase '哥抽的不是烟，是寂寞' (I'm not smoking a cigarette, I'm smoking loneliness) became legendary. It reflects a modern urban feeling of isolation despite being constantly connected online.
Common Variations
You might hear 孤独 (gūdú), which is more like 'solitude' or being a 'lone wolf.' 寂寞 is more about the sadness of being alone. There is also 空虚 (kōngxū), which means 'empty.' If you want to sound trendy, you can use it ironically. People often joke about their 'lonely' pets or even their 'lonely' wallets.
نکات کاربردی
It is a neutral to informal word. It carries a lot of emotional weight, so use it when you want to express genuine feelings or for poetic effect.
Don't confuse with Boredom
If you just have nothing to do, use `无聊`. If your heart feels empty, use `寂寞`.
Too Heavy for Small Talk
Avoid saying `我很寂寞` to a cashier or a new acquaintance; it's a bit too much information!
The 'Smoking' Meme
If you see someone post a photo of a drink with the caption 'I'm drinking loneliness,' they are being funny/ironic.
مثالها
6搬到新城市后，我常感到寂寞。
After moving to a new city, I often feel lonely.
A standard way to express life changes and feelings.
你不在家，我好寂寞啊。
You're not home, I'm so lonely.
The 'ā' at the end adds a soft, longing tone.
那个老人过着寂寞的生活。
That old man lives a lonely life.
Used as an adjective to describe someone's lifestyle.
我吃的不是火锅，是寂寞。
I'm not eating hotpot; I'm eating loneliness.
A play on a famous internet meme to be funny.
冬天的夜晚总是让人感到寂寞。
Winter nights always make people feel lonely.
Reflective and poetic usage.
一个人在家不寂寞吗？
Aren't you lonely being home by yourself?
A caring question between friends.
خودت رو بسنج
Choose the best word to describe feeling emotionally alone.
好久没见到朋友了，我觉得很___。
`寂寞` fits because it describes the emotional feeling of missing friends, whereas `无聊` just means bored.
Complete the sentence to express a poetic feeling.
月亮在天空中看起来很___。
In Chinese literature, the moon is often personified as being `寂寞` (lonely).
🎉 امتیاز: /2
ابزارهای بصری یادگیری
Loneliness Formality Scale
Using loneliness to joke about daily life.
I'm eating loneliness.
Talking to friends or family about feelings.
I feel a bit lonely.
Literature, song lyrics, or deep speeches.
A lonely soul.
When to say Jimo
Long distance relationship
Missing a partner.
Moving to a new country
No friends yet.
Late night scrolling
Social media blues.
Artistic expression
Writing a sad song.
بانک تمرین
2 تمرینها好久没见到朋友了，我觉得很___。
`寂寞` fits because it describes the emotional feeling of missing friends, whereas `无聊` just means bored.
月亮在天空中看起来很___。
In Chinese literature, the moon is often personified as being `寂寞` (lonely).
🎉 امتیاز: /2
سوالات متداول
10 سوال孤独 (gūdú) is more objective, like 'solitude' or being a lone wolf. 寂寞 (jìmò) is the subjective, sad feeling of that loneliness.
Not really. Use 无聊 (wúliáo) for boredom. 寂寞 is much more emotional and deep.
Generally, no. It is a very personal word. Use it with friends or in creative contexts, not in a report or a business meeting.
Because it's a very 'poetic' kind of sadness. It resonates with people's feelings of heartbreak and urban isolation.
It is an adjective. You can say 我很寂寞 (I am lonely) or use it to describe a noun like 寂寞的夜 (a lonely night).
Yes! If your dog looks sad while you're at work, you can say 狗狗很寂寞.
It's a famous internet meme meaning 'I'm not smoking a cigarette, I'm smoking loneliness.' It's a humorous way to act 'emo'.
You can say 我不寂寞 (Wǒ bù jìmò). Usually, people add that they have friends or hobbies to stay busy.
孤独 (gūdú) is slightly more formal and often used in literature to describe a state of being.
Almost never. It usually implies a lack of something or a feeling of sadness, unlike 'solitude' which can be peaceful.
عبارات مرتبط
孤独
Solitude; being alone
无聊
Bored; senseless
想家
Homesick
空虚
Hollow; empty inside
