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Polite Wishes with 'möchten' (would like)

Always use möchten for polite requests and wishes to avoid sounding demanding or rude in German.
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Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds

Use 'möchten' to express polite wishes or requests by combining it with an infinitive verb at the end of the sentence.

  • Conjugate 'möchten' to match the subject: Ich möchte, du möchtest.
  • Place the main verb in its infinitive form at the very end of the sentence.
  • Use 'möchten' for polite requests instead of the direct 'ich will' (I want).
Subject + möchten + (Object) + Infinitive Verb

Overview

Ever felt like a total jerk when asking for a coffee in a foreign language? You're not alone. In German, saying "I want" (ich will) can sometimes sound like a demanding toddler.

That's where our hero möchten comes in. It's the magic word that transforms a demand into a polite wish. It is the linguistic equivalent of a warm smile and a firm handshake.

Interestingly, möchten isn't actually a verb on its own. It's a special form of the verb mögen (to like). But don't tell the textbooks that—we treat it as its own thing because it's so incredibly useful.

Whether you're ordering eine Pizza(f) on an app or asking a cute stranger for their number, möchten is your best friend. It’s the difference between "Give me that" and "I would like that, please." Let's make sure you don't accidentally sound like a villain in your next German conversation.

Imagine you're at a hipster café in Berlin. You're surrounded by people on MacBooks and the smell of roasted beans. You walk up to the counter.

You could say Ich will einen Kaffee. But the barista might give you a side-eye that lasts a week. Instead, you say Ich möchte einen Kaffee.

Suddenly, the world is a better place. The word möchten means "would like." It's technically the Konjunktiv II (conditional) form of mögen. In plain English?

It’s a softer, more polite way to express a desire. It’s perfect for A1 learners because it follows a very predictable pattern. It's one of the first "modal-like" verbs you'll learn.

It helps you navigate daily life without offending anyone. Think of it as your "politeness shield." It’s the "please" built right into the verb. Plus, it makes you sound like you’ve been studying German for years, even if it’s only been two weeks.

Just don't use it to ask for things you need to survive, like der Sauerstoff(m) (oxygen). That might be taking the politeness a bit too far.

How This Grammar Works

Using möchten is like building a sandwich. You have your subject (the person), the verb möchten (the bread), and sometimes another verb at the end (the filling). If you just want a thing, like ein Eis(n) (an ice cream), you just say Ich möchte ein Eis.
Easy, right? But what if you want to do something? Like stream a movie or go to der Club(m)?
That's where the "Sandwich Rule" comes in. In German, when you use a modal verb like möchten, any other verb you use must go to the very end of the sentence. And it stays in its original, infinitive form (ending in -en).
For example: Ich möchte einen Film sehen. See how sehen (to see) is just chilling at the end? It’s waiting for its turn.
This structure is non-negotiable. If you put the second verb anywhere else, a German grammar fairy loses its wings. It’s all about that final destination.
It keeps the listener hanging on your every word until the very end. It's like a linguistic cliffhanger every time you speak. Just remember: möchten stays in position 2, and the other verb runs to the finish line.

Formation Pattern

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Conjugating möchten is actually easier than most regular verbs. Why? Because the "I" (ich) and the "he/she/it" (er/sie/es) forms are exactly the same. No, that's not a typo. It's a gift from the German language gods.
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Start with the stem: möcht-.
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Add the endings based on the person.
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Note the identical 1st and 3rd person singular forms.
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| Form | Example | Translation |
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| :--- | :--- | :--- |
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| ich | ich möchte | I would like |
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| du | du möchtest | you would like (informal) |
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| er/sie/es | er möchte | he/she/it would like |
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| wir | wir möchten | we would like |
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| ihr | ihr möchtet | you all would like |
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| sie/Sie | sie möchten | they/You would like (formal) |
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Wait, did you see that du form? möchtest. We add an -e- before the -st because trying to say möchtst sounds like you're sneezing through a mouthful of crackers. German loves harmony, even if it doesn't always sound like it. The same goes for the ihr form: möchtet. It's all about making it pronounceable. Practice saying it in front of a mirror until you feel like a local. Or until your roommate asks if you're okay.

When To Use It

When shouldn't you use it? Seriously. It's everywhere.
  • At a Restaurant/Café: This is the gold standard. Ich möchte den Apfelsaft(m), bitte.
  • Shopping Online/In-person: Ich möchte dieses T-Shirt(n) kaufen.
  • Making Plans: Möchtest du heute Abend streamen? (Would you like to stream tonight?).
  • Expressing Dreams: Ich möchte nach Berlin reisen.
  • Polite Offers: Möchten Sie einen Tee(m)? (Would you like a tea?).
It’s the go-to verb for anything involving a wish that requires someone else's cooperation. It’s social, it’s friendly, and it’s modern. You'll see it on Instagram polls ("Möchtet ihr mehr Vlogs sehen?") and in WhatsApp group chats when deciding which die Pizza(f) to order.
It’s the ultimate "vibe check" verb. If you use möchten, the vibe is usually good. If you use wollen (to want) too much, you might sound like you're writing a ransom note.
Unless you're talking to your best friend about something you're really determined to do, stick with möchten. It’s the safer, classier bet for any A1 student. Plus, it sounds fancy.
Like you own at least one turtleneck sweater.

Common Mistakes

Even the best of us trip up. Here are the pitfalls to avoid so you don't end up in a TikTok "German Fails" compilation:
  • The "Want" Trap: Thinking möchten means "to like." It doesn't. mögen means to like. möchten means would like. Subtle difference, big impact. If you say Ich mag Pizza, you're just stating a fact. If you say Ich möchte Pizza, someone better start preheating the oven.
  • The Missing Verb: Forgetting to put the second verb at the end. Ich möchte gehen nach Hause is a crime. It must be Ich möchte nach Hause gehen. The verb gehen belongs at the end. It's like the caboose on a train.
  • The Wrong Ending: Adding a -t to the ich form (ich möchtet). Nope. ich möchte. Keep it simple.
  • Mixing with "Will": In English, "will" is for the future. In German, will comes from wollen (to want). Don't confuse will with möchte. If you say Ich will einen Kaffee, you're being bossy. If you say Ich möchte einen Kaffee, you're being a delight.
  • Pronunciation: Forgetting the Umlaut (the dots over the ö). Without them, it’s not even a word. It’s just a sad collection of letters. Think of the ö sound as the sound you make when you see something slightly gross, like a month-old die Milch(f) in the fridge.

Contrast With Similar Patterns

Let's clear the air between möchten, wollen, and mögen.
  1. 1mögen: Expresses a general liking. Ich mag die Schokolade(f). You're not asking for it right now; you just think it's great.
  2. 2wollen: Expresses a strong will or intention. Ich will Millionär werden. This is about determination. It’s less about being polite and more about "This is happening, get out of my way."
  3. 3möchten: The polite middle ground. Ich möchte eine Schokolade(f). You're making a request. You're being nice about it.
Think of wollen as a loud rock concert and möchten as a chill lo-fi beat. Both have their place, but you don't play death metal at a wedding (usually). Use wollen for your personal goals and möchten for social interactions.
Also, notice that möchten is used for things that are actually possible right now. You wouldn't really say Ich möchte Weltfrieden (I would like world peace) in a casual convo—that's a bit heavy for a coffee shop. Keep it for the tangible stuff.

Quick FAQ

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Can I use möchten without a second verb?

Absolutely! If the context is clear (like at a restaurant), you can just say Ich möchte die Suppe(f). The "eat" part is implied.

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Is möchten formal or informal?

It’s both! It’s polite enough for your boss but casual enough for your friends. It’s the "universal remote" of German verbs.

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What’s the past tense of möchten?

Trick question! Since it's a conditional form, it doesn't really have its own past tense. We usually switch back to wollen (wanted) or mochte (liked) depending on what we mean. But for A1, don't sweat it yet.

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Does the order change in questions?

Yes! Just like English. Möchten Sie einen Wein(m)? (Would you like a wine?). The verb moves to the front. The second verb still stays at the very end.

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Why is it called a modal verb if it's not actually one?

Because it behaves exactly like one! It changes the "mood" of the sentence and takes the second verb to the end. It’s an honorary member of the Modal Club. It even has the secret handshake.

Conjugation of 'möchten'

Subject Conjugation
ich
möchte
du
möchtest
er/sie/es
möchte
wir
möchten
ihr
möchtet
sie/Sie
möchten

Meanings

Möchten is used to express a polite desire, wish, or request. It is the polite alternative to the more demanding 'wollen'.

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Polite Request

Asking for something politely.

“Ich möchte bitte {die|f} Rechnung.”

“Möchten Sie etwas trinken?”

2

Expressing Desire

Stating what you would like to do.

“Ich möchte heute Abend ins {das|n} Kino gehen.”

“Sie möchte Deutsch lernen.”

Reference Table

Reference table for Polite Wishes with 'möchten' (would like)
Form Structure Example
Affirmative
Subj + möchten + ... + Inf
Ich möchte {die|f} Pizza essen.
Negative
Subj + möchten + nicht + ... + Inf
Ich möchte nicht gehen.
Question
Möchten + Subj + ... + Inf?
Möchtest du tanzen?
Short Answer
Ja/Nein + Subj + möchten + ...
Ja, ich möchte.
With Object
Subj + möchten + Object
Ich möchte {die|f} Rechnung.
Formal
Möchten Sie + ...?
Möchten Sie {das|n} Wasser?

Formality Spectrum

Formal
Ich möchte bitte einen Kaffee.

Ich möchte bitte einen Kaffee. (Ordering in a cafe)

Neutral
Ich möchte einen Kaffee.

Ich möchte einen Kaffee. (Ordering in a cafe)

Informal
Ich will 'nen Kaffee.

Ich will 'nen Kaffee. (Ordering in a cafe)

Slang
Kaffee, bitte!

Kaffee, bitte! (Ordering in a cafe)

The 'Möchten' Universe

Möchten

Politeness

  • Bitte Please

Desire

  • Wunsch Wish

Action

  • Infinitive Verb at end
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Examples by Level

1

Ich möchte einen {der|m} Tee.

I would like a tea.

2

Möchtest du mitkommen?

Would you like to come along?

3

Wir möchten nach {die|f} Berlin fahren.

We would like to go to Berlin.

4

Sie möchte ein {das|n} Eis essen.

She would like to eat an ice cream.

1

Ich möchte nicht zu {der|f} Party gehen.

I would not like to go to the party.

2

Möchten Sie etwas {das|n} Wasser trinken?

Would you like to drink some water?

3

Er möchte heute Abend {die|f} Hausaufgaben machen.

He would like to do the homework tonight.

4

Was möchtet ihr zum {das|n} Abendessen haben?

What would you all like to have for dinner?

1

Ich würde gerne wissen, ob Sie mir helfen möchten.

I would like to know if you would like to help me.

2

Wir möchten uns für {die|f} Einladung bedanken.

We would like to thank you for the invitation.

3

Möchten Sie, dass ich {die|f} Tür schließe?

Would you like me to close the door?

4

Sie möchte ihre {die|f} Karriere in {die|f} Schweiz fortsetzen.

She would like to continue her career in Switzerland.

1

Man möchte meinen, dass das Problem einfach ist.

One might think that the problem is simple.

2

Ich möchte betonen, wie wichtig {die|f} Zusammenarbeit ist.

I would like to emphasize how important the cooperation is.

3

Möchten Sie eventuell einen anderen Termin vorschlagen?

Would you perhaps like to suggest another date?

4

Wir möchten sicherstellen, dass alle {die|f} Regeln verstehen.

We would like to ensure that everyone understands the rules.

1

Ich möchte anmerken, dass dies nicht der Fall ist.

I would like to note that this is not the case.

2

Wer möchte, der kann heute früher gehen.

Whoever would like to, can leave earlier today.

3

Man möchte es kaum glauben, aber es ist wahr.

One would hardly believe it, but it is true.

4

Ich möchte mich hiermit offiziell bewerben.

I would like to officially apply herewith.

1

Man möchte fast sagen, es sei ein Wunder.

One would almost say it is a miracle.

2

Ich möchte nicht versäumen, Ihnen zu gratulieren.

I would not like to fail to congratulate you.

3

Wer möchte, der darf sich gerne beteiligen.

Whoever would like to, is welcome to participate.

4

Ich möchte das Thema hiermit zur Diskussion stellen.

I would like to open this topic for discussion.

Easily Confused

Polite Wishes with 'möchten' (would like) vs Möchten vs. Mögen

Learners think 'möchten' is the verb for 'to like'.

Polite Wishes with 'möchten' (would like) vs Möchten vs. Wollen

Learners use 'wollen' for everything.

Polite Wishes with 'möchten' (would like) vs Möchten vs. Würde gerne

They mean the same thing but are used differently.

Common Mistakes

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Ich möchte essen {die|f} Pizza.

✓

Ich möchte {die|f} Pizza essen.

The infinitive verb must go to the end.
✗

Ich will {die|f} Kaffee.

✓

Ich möchte {die|f} Kaffee.

Using 'will' is too direct/rude.
✗

Ich möchtet {die|f} Wasser.

✓

Ich möchte {die|f} Wasser.

Wrong conjugation for 'ich'.
✗

Möchten du {die|f} Tee?

✓

Möchtest du {die|f} Tee?

Wrong conjugation for 'du'.
✗

Ich möchte habe {die|f} Zeit.

✓

Ich möchte {die|f} Zeit haben.

Infinitive must be at the end.
✗

Möchten Sie gehen zu {die|f} Park?

✓

Möchten Sie zum {das|n} Park gehen?

Verb at end.
✗

Ich möchte gerne zu essen.

✓

Ich möchte essen.

Don't use 'zu' with modal verbs.
✗

Ich möchte, dass ich gehe.

✓

Ich möchte gehen.

Use infinitive instead of subordinate clause.
✗

Ich möchte hätte {die|f} Zeit.

✓

Ich möchte Zeit haben.

Don't use Konjunktiv II for the infinitive.
✗

Möchten Sie mir helfen?

✓

Möchten Sie mir helfen?

Correct, but ensure context is right.
✗

Man möchte es haben getan.

✓

Man möchte es getan haben.

Correct infinitive placement in perfect tense.
✗

Ich möchte, dass Sie kommen.

✓

Ich möchte, dass Sie kommen.

This is correct, but 'Ich möchte Ihren Besuch' is more elegant.
✗

Wer möchte, der kann.

✓

Wer möchte, der kann.

Correct, but ensure register is appropriate.

Sentence Patterns

Ich möchte ___.

Ich möchte ___ ___.

Möchtest du ___ ___?

Ich möchte, dass du ___.

Real World Usage

Restaurant constant

Ich möchte die Karte, bitte.

Travel very common

Ich möchte ein Ticket nach München.

Job Interview common

Ich möchte mich kurz vorstellen.

Texting very common

Möchtest du heute Abend skypen?

Shopping common

Ich möchte diese Hose anprobieren.

Email common

Ich möchte einen Termin vereinbaren.

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The 'End' Rule

Always check your sentence for a second verb. If it exists, move it to the very end!
⚠️

Don't use 'wollen' in restaurants

It sounds like you are demanding food. Always use 'möchten'.
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Use 'gerne'

Adding 'gerne' to 'möchten' makes it sound even more polite and natural.
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Politeness is key

Germans appreciate the effort to be polite. Using 'möchten' is the easiest way to show respect.

Smart Tips

Always add 'bitte' to your 'möchten' sentence.

Ich möchte Pizza. → Ich möchte bitte eine Pizza.

Use 'gerne' to sound more enthusiastic.

Möchtest du ins Kino? → Möchtest du gerne ins Kino?

Use 'möchten' instead of 'wollen'.

Ich will Hilfe. → Ich möchte gerne um Hilfe bitten.

Use 'möchte' to state your purpose clearly.

Ich will einen Termin. → Ich möchte einen Termin vereinbaren.

Pronunciation

IPA: [ˈmœçtən]

The 'ch' sound

The 'ch' in 'möchten' is a soft 'ich-laut', made by pushing air through the middle of the tongue.

Polite Request

Möchten Sie...↗

Rising intonation at the end makes it sound like a question/request.

Memorize It

Mnemonic

Möchten is the polite 'want'—it's like adding a 'please' to your sentence.

Visual Association

Imagine a waiter holding a tray. When you say 'Ich möchte', you are gently pointing at the tray, not grabbing it.

Rhyme

Möchten is polite, it's always right, put the verb at the end, my friend.

Story

Hans walks into a bakery. He doesn't shout 'Ich will Brot!' (rude). Instead, he says 'Ich möchte ein Brot kaufen.' The baker smiles and gives him the best loaf.

Word Web

möchtewollenmögenbittegernewunsch

Challenge

Go to a German restaurant website and write down 5 things you would like to order using 'Ich möchte...'.

Cultural Notes

Germans value directness, but 'möchten' is the standard for politeness in public service.

Austrians often use 'hätte gerne' (would like to have) even more than 'möchten'.

Swiss German speakers often use 'möchte' in formal settings, but 'wollen' is common in casual speech.

Möchten is the Konjunktiv II form of the Old High German verb 'mugan' (to be able to/to like).

Conversation Starters

“

Was möchtest du am Wochenende machen?

“

Möchten Sie heute Abend ins Kino gehen?

“

Was möchtest du in deinem Leben erreichen?

“

Möchten Sie, dass wir das Projekt verschieben?

Journal Prompts

Write about your dream vacation.
Describe your ideal day.
What do you want to change in the world?
Reflect on your language learning goals.

Common Mistakes

Incorrect

Correct

Incorrect

Correct

Incorrect

Correct

Incorrect

Correct

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Test Yourself

Conjugate 'möchten' for 'wir'.

Wir ___ ein Eis essen.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: möchten
Wir takes 'möchten'.
Reorder the words. Sentence Reorder

Arrange the words in the correct order:

All words placed

Click words above to build the sentence

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Ich möchte Pizza essen
Infinitive at the end.
Which is more polite? Multiple Choice

Ich ___ ein Wasser.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: möchte
Möchten is the polite form.
Find the error. Error Correction

Find and fix the mistake:

Du möchtest gehen nach Hause.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Du möchtest nach Hause gehen
Verb at end.
Change to a question. Sentence Transformation

Ich möchte tanzen.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Möchte ich tanzen?
Swap subject and verb.
Match the subject to the verb. Match Pairs

Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: möchte / möchtest / möchten
Correct conjugation.
Complete the dialogue. Dialogue Completion

A: Möchtest du Kaffee? B: Ja, ___.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: ich möchte
Short answer.
Sort by formality. Grammar Sorting

Which is most formal?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Ich hätte gerne...
Hätte gerne is very polite.

Score: /8

Practice Exercises

8 exercises
Conjugate 'möchten' for 'wir'.

Wir ___ ein Eis essen.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: möchten
Wir takes 'möchten'.
Reorder the words. Sentence Reorder

essen / möchte / ich / Pizza

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Ich möchte Pizza essen
Infinitive at the end.
Which is more polite? Multiple Choice

Ich ___ ein Wasser.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: möchte
Möchten is the polite form.
Find the error. Error Correction

Find and fix the mistake:

Du möchtest gehen nach Hause.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Du möchtest nach Hause gehen
Verb at end.
Change to a question. Sentence Transformation

Ich möchte tanzen.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Möchte ich tanzen?
Swap subject and verb.
Match the subject to the verb. Match Pairs

Ich / Du / Wir

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: möchte / möchtest / möchten
Correct conjugation.
Complete the dialogue. Dialogue Completion

A: Möchtest du Kaffee? B: Ja, ___.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: ich möchte
Short answer.
Sort by formality. Grammar Sorting

Which is most formal?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Ich hätte gerne...
Hätte gerne is very polite.

Score: /8

Practice Bank

10 exercises
Reorder the words to form a correct sentence. Sentence Reorder

möchte | ein | kaufen | Auto | Er

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Er möchte ein Auto kaufen.
Translate the sentence into German. Translation

We would like to pay.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Wir möchten bezahlen.
Match the pronoun with the correct form of `möchten`. Match Pairs

Match the pairs:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: ich:möchte, du:möchtest, ihr:möchtet, wir:möchten
Fill in the blank. Fill in the Blank

___ ihr eine Pizza bestellen?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Möchtet
Which sentence is correct? Multiple Choice

Select the correct formal question:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Möchten Sie Hilfe?
Fix the sentence. Error Correction

Er möchtet ein Eis.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Er möchte ein Eis.
Fill in the blank. Fill in the Blank

Was ___ du trinken?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: möchtest
Form a question. Sentence Reorder

nach | Hause | Möchtest | gehen | du | ?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Möchtest du nach Hause gehen?
Translate: They would like to sleep. Translation

They would like to sleep.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Sie möchten schlafen.
Which one sounds like a polite wish? Multiple Choice

Choose the best option:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Ich möchte ein Bier.

Score: /10

FAQ (8)

Mostly yes, but it is specifically for desires. Don't use it for facts.

It is a modal verb derived from 'mögen'.

Modal verbs in German always push the infinitive to the end of the clause.

Yes, 'gerne' adds emphasis to the desire.

'Möchten' is polite; 'wollen' is direct.

Yes, it is perfectly fine.

Add 'nicht' after 'möchten'.

No, we use 'wollte' for the past.

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In Other Languages

Spanish high

Quisiera / Me gustaría

Spanish uses a verb form; German uses a modal verb.

French high

Je voudrais

French uses conditional; German uses subjunctive II.

Japanese moderate

~tai desu

Japanese is agglutinative; German is a modal verb.

Arabic moderate

أود (awaddu)

Arabic is a root-based language.

Chinese partial

想 (xiǎng)

Chinese has no conjugation.

English high

I would like

English is analytic; German uses verb-final word order.

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