C2 Discourse & Pragmatics 1 min read 困难

Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds

Adapt your Indonesian register by choosing between formal 'Anda' or informal 'kamu' based on the social hierarchy and intimacy of your audience.

  • Use 'Anda' for professional or unknown settings: 'Apakah Anda sudah makan?'
  • Use 'kamu' or 'lo' for friends and peers: 'Kamu udah makan belum?'
  • Adjust verb prefixes (me-/ber-) to drop them in casual speech: 'Saya membeli' vs 'Aku beli'.
Social Context + Pronoun Choice + Verb Prefix Selection = Appropriate Register

Meanings

The strategic selection of vocabulary, pronouns, and grammatical structures to align with the social distance and power dynamic between speakers.

1

Formal/Professional

Used in business, government, or with strangers.

“Apakah Anda memerlukan bantuan?”

“Saya akan menghadiri rapat tersebut.”

2

Colloquial/Casual

Used with friends, family, and peers.

“Lo mau ke mana?”

“Gue nggak tahu nih.”

3

Intimate

Used between romantic partners or very close friends.

“Sayang, kamu mau makan apa?”

“Aku kangen kamu.”

Register Comparison Table

Category Formal Informal Slang
I Saya Aku Gue
You Anda Kamu Lo
No Tidak Enggak Nggak
Yes Ya Ya Iya
Eat Makan Makan Makan
Buy Membeli Membeli Beli

Common Prefix Reductions

Formal Prefix Casual Form
Membeli Beli
Mencari Cari
Berjalan Jalan
Berbicara Ngomong

Reference Table

Reference table for Audience Adaptation
Form Structure Example
Formal Pronoun + Verb + Object Saya membeli buku.
Informal Pronoun + Verb + Object Aku beli buku.
Question Apakah + Pronoun + Verb Apakah Anda mengerti?
Casual Q Pronoun + Verb + -kah/Intonation Kamu ngerti?
Negative Tidak + Verb Saya tidak tahu.
Casual Neg Nggak + Verb Gue nggak tahu.
Request Mohon + Verb Mohon duduk.
Casual Req Tolong + Verb Tolong duduk.

正式程度

正式
Saya sedang makan.

Saya sedang makan. (Daily life)

中性
Aku sedang makan.

Aku sedang makan. (Daily life)

非正式
Aku lagi makan.

Aku lagi makan. (Daily life)

俚语
Gue lagi makan.

Gue lagi makan. (Daily life)

The Register Spectrum

Register

Formal

  • Saya I
  • Anda You

Casual

  • Aku I
  • Kamu You

Slang

  • Gue I
  • Lo You

Examples by Level

1

Apa kabar Anda?

How are you? (formal)

2

Kamu mau makan?

Do you want to eat? (informal)

3

Saya tidak tahu.

I don't know. (formal)

4

Aku mau pergi.

I want to go. (informal)

1

Apakah Anda sudah makan?

Have you eaten? (formal)

2

Lo udah makan belom?

Have you eaten yet? (slang)

3

Saya ingin membeli ini.

I want to buy this.

4

Aku mau beli ini.

I want to buy this.

1

Pak Budi, apakah Bapak ada waktu?

Mr. Budi, do you have time?

2

Gue nggak bisa datang.

I can't come.

3

Mohon maaf atas keterlambatan saya.

Sorry for my delay.

4

Sori ya, gue telat.

Sorry, I'm late.

1

Anda sekalian diharapkan hadir tepat waktu.

You all are expected to arrive on time.

2

Kalian mau pada ke mana nih?

Where are you all going?

3

Saya rasa keputusan ini kurang tepat.

I think this decision is not quite right.

4

Gue rasa ini nggak bener deh.

I think this isn't right.

1

Kiranya Bapak berkenan meninjau dokumen ini.

I hope you are willing to review this document.

2

Gue sih santai aja, terserah lo.

I'm chill, it's up to you.

3

Apakah Anda keberatan jika saya bertanya?

Do you mind if I ask?

4

Boleh nanya nggak?

Can I ask?

1

Dengan segala hormat, saya tidak dapat menyetujui usulan tersebut.

With all due respect, I cannot agree to that proposal.

2

Ya elah, gitu aja dibawa serius.

Come on, don't take it so seriously.

3

Mohon perkenan Bapak untuk memberikan arahan.

I request your guidance, sir.

4

Gue sih ogah kalau disuruh gitu.

I'm not doing that if I'm asked.

Easily Confused

Audience Adaptation 对比 Anda vs Kamu

Learners use 'Anda' for everyone.

Audience Adaptation 对比 Saya vs Aku

Learners don't know which 'I' to use.

Audience Adaptation 对比 Tidak vs Nggak

Learners use 'nggak' in formal writing.

常见错误

Gue makan.

Saya makan.

Using slang with a stranger.

Anda makan?

Kamu makan?

Using formal 'Anda' with a friend.

Saya nggak tahu.

Saya tidak tahu.

Mixing formal pronoun with slang negative.

Kamu membeli.

Kamu beli.

Using formal prefix in casual speech.

Apakah kamu makan?

Kamu makan?

Over-using 'Apakah' in casual speech.

Gue ingin membeli.

Gue mau beli.

Mixing formal vocabulary with slang.

Anda mau ke mana?

Bapak mau ke mana?

Using 'Anda' instead of a title.

Saya mau nongkrong.

Saya ingin pergi.

Using slang 'nongkrong' in formal speech.

Lo sudah makan?

Lo udah makan?

Using formal 'sudah' with slang 'Lo'.

Bapak makan?

Bapak sudah makan?

Missing the aspect marker in formal speech.

Saya rasa lo benar.

Saya rasa Anda benar.

Inconsistent register.

Gue mohon maaf.

Saya mohon maaf.

Formal apology with slang pronoun.

Anda sekalian pada datang.

Anda sekalian diharapkan hadir.

Mixing slang 'pada' with formal 'Anda'.

Bapak mau apa?

Bapak memerlukan sesuatu?

Too blunt for formal.

Sentence Patterns

Saya ___ (formal verb) ___ (object).

Gue ___ (slang verb) ___ (object).

Apakah ___ (formal pronoun) ___ (verb)?

Lo ___ (slang verb) ___ (object) nggak?

Real World Usage

Job Interview constant

Saya sangat tertarik dengan posisi ini.

Texting Friends constant

Gue otw ya!

Ordering Food very common

Saya mau pesan nasi goreng.

Social Media very common

Kalian pada ke mana?

Emailing Professor common

Yth. Bapak Dosen,

Travel common

Berapa harga tiket ini?

💡

Start Formal

Always start formal with strangers. You can always relax later.
⚠️

Don't Mix

Mixing 'Saya' and 'nggak' sounds very strange to native speakers.
🎯

Listen First

Listen to how the other person addresses you and mirror them.
💬

Use Titles

Using 'Pak' or 'Bu' is safer than 'Anda' in many cases.

Smart Tips

Use 'Saya' and 'Anda' until they switch to 'Aku/Kamu'.

Gue siapa ya? Saya siapa ya?

Use 'Gue/Lo' to sound natural.

Apakah Anda mau makan? Lo mau makan nggak?

Use titles like 'Pak' or 'Bu'.

Anda mau apa? Pak Budi mau apa?

Use 'Saya' for politeness.

Gue mau nasi goreng. Saya mau nasi goreng.

发音

Sa-ya ma-kan.

Formal Intonation

Flat, steady, professional.

Gue ma-kan, nih!

Casual Intonation

Rising and falling, expressive.

Formal

↗↘

Professional inquiry.

Casual

↗↗

Friendly excitement.

Memorize It

Mnemonic

S-A-G: Saya (Formal), Aku (Casual), Gue (Slang).

Visual Association

Imagine a ladder. At the top (formal) you wear a suit. In the middle (casual) you wear a t-shirt. At the bottom (slang) you are in pajamas.

Rhyme

Formal is Saya, casual is Aku, slang is Gue, pick the right one for you!

Story

Budi walks into a bank. He says 'Saya'. Then he meets his friend. He says 'Aku'. Then he texts his bestie. He says 'Gue'.

Word Web

SayaAndaAkuKamuGueLoTidakNggak

挑战

Write three sentences about your day: one for your boss, one for your friend, and one for your diary.

文化笔记

Gue/Lo is the standard for youth culture in Jakarta.

Javanese speakers often bring their own politeness levels into Indonesian.

Using titles like 'Pak' or 'Bu' is mandatory in business.

Indonesian register evolved from the need to bridge diverse regional languages with a standard national language.

Conversation Starters

Apa kabar?

Lo lagi ngapain?

Apakah Bapak setuju?

Gue mau cabut nih, lo mau ikut?

Journal Prompts

Write a formal email to a professor.
Write a text to a friend about your day.
Describe a business meeting.
Write a dialogue between two friends.

Test Yourself

Choose the formal pronoun. 多项选择

Which is formal?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Saya
Saya is the standard formal pronoun.
Fill in the blank.

___ (I) mau makan.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aku
Aku is appropriate for casual.
Fix the sentence. Error Correction

Find and fix the mistake:

Gue akan menghadiri rapat.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Saya akan menghadiri rapat.
Formal pronoun with formal verb.
Reorder the words. Sentence Reorder

Arrange the words in the correct order:

All words placed

Click words above to build the sentence

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Apakah Anda sudah makan?
Correct formal structure.
Translate to formal. 翻译

I don't know.

Answer starts with: Say...

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Saya tidak tahu.
Formal negative.
Match the register. Match Pairs

Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Saya-Gue
These are the register pairs.
Which is slang? 多项选择

Which is slang?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Gue
Gue is Jakarta slang.
Fix the slang. Error Correction

Find and fix the mistake:

Lo mau pergi ke mana, Bapak?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Bapak mau pergi ke mana?
Bapak is formal, don't use Lo.

Score: /8

练习题

8 exercises
Choose the formal pronoun. 多项选择

Which is formal?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Saya
Saya is the standard formal pronoun.
Fill in the blank.

___ (I) mau makan.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aku
Aku is appropriate for casual.
Fix the sentence. Error Correction

Find and fix the mistake:

Gue akan menghadiri rapat.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Saya akan menghadiri rapat.
Formal pronoun with formal verb.
Reorder the words. Sentence Reorder

makan / sudah / Anda / Apakah

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Apakah Anda sudah makan?
Correct formal structure.
Translate to formal. 翻译

I don't know.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Saya tidak tahu.
Formal negative.
Match the register. Match Pairs

Match formal to informal.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Saya-Gue
These are the register pairs.
Which is slang? 多项选择

Which is slang?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Gue
Gue is Jakarta slang.
Fix the slang. Error Correction

Find and fix the mistake:

Lo mau pergi ke mana, Bapak?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Bapak mau pergi ke mana?
Bapak is formal, don't use Lo.

Score: /8

常见问题 (8)

No, only with close friends in informal settings.

It's formal, but can sound cold if used too much.

It's a feature of casual, spoken Indonesian.

People will understand, but you might sound awkward.

Listen to the other person's choice of words.

No, it's neutral/informal.

Yes, Javanese or Sundanese influence is common.

Only if it's a formal business text.

In Other Languages

Spanish high

Usted/Tú

Indonesian also changes verb prefixes.

French high

Vous/Tu

Indonesian register is more tied to social hierarchy.

German moderate

Sie/Du

Indonesian is more flexible with slang.

Japanese partial

Keigo

Indonesian is less rigid than Japanese.

Arabic moderate

Antum/Anta

Indonesian doesn't have gendered pronouns.

Chinese partial

Nin/Ni

Indonesian has more pronoun variety.

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