Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
In Thai, you make commands polite by adding 'khrap' (male) or 'kha' (female) at the end of your sentence.
- Use 'khrap' if you are male: 'Kin khao khrap' (Please eat).
- Use 'kha' if you are female: 'Kin khao kha' (Please eat).
- Add 'noi' to soften the command: 'Kin khao noi kha' (Please eat a little).
Meanings
Polite imperatives are used to soften commands or requests, making them sound like invitations or polite suggestions rather than bossy orders.
Polite Request
Softening a command to be respectful.
“Pai tee nee kha”
“Kin nam noi khrap”
Polite Imperative Formation
| Action | Softener | Gender Particle | Result |
|---|---|---|---|
| Pai | - | khrap | Pai khrap |
| Pai | noi | khrap | Pai noi khrap |
| Pai | - | kha | Pai kha |
| Pai | noi | kha | Pai noi kha |
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Affirmative | Verb + Particle | Pai khrap |
| Negative | Mai + Verb + Particle | Mai pai khrap |
| Softened | Verb + noi + Particle | Pai noi khrap |
| Question | Verb + mai + Particle | Pai mai khrap? |
| Polite | Verb + Particle | Pai kha |
| Formal | Verb + Particle | Pai khrap |
正式程度
Nang long khrap (General)
Nang khrap (General)
Nang (General)
Nang di (General)
Polite Particle Map
Male
- khrap Polite particle
Female
- kha Polite particle
Examples by Level
Pai khrap
Please go
Kin khao kha
Please eat
Nang long khrap
Please sit
Ma nee kha
Please come here
Chui noi khrap
Please help a little
Ao nam noi kha
Please get water
Ror sak kru khrap
Please wait a moment
Pai tee nee kha
Please go here
Chuay pit pratu noi khrap
Please close the door
Ao menu noi kha
Please bring the menu
Ror phom noi khrap
Please wait for me
Chuay bok tang noi kha
Please tell me the way
Chuay pai song tee sanam bin noi khrap
Please take me to the airport
Ao khao pat sai kai noi kha
Please get fried rice with chicken
Chuay check bin noi khrap
Please check the bill
Ror phom sak kru na khrap
Please wait for me a moment
Chuay prab air hai yen noi khrap
Please adjust the AC to be cooler
Ao khao krapao mai sai phrik kha
Please get basil stir-fry without chili
Chuay pai rap phuean chan tee sanam bin noi khrap
Please pick up my friend at the airport
Chuay song ekkasan ni hai phom noi khrap
Please send this document for me
Chuay dam-nern kan hai reo khuen noi khrap
Please expedite the process
Ao a-han ma song tee hong noi kha
Please deliver the food to the room
Chuay pra-san ngan hai phom noi khrap
Please coordinate the work for me
Chuay kae-khai pan-ha ni hai noi kha
Please fix this problem for me
Easily Confused
Learners mix up gender usage.
Learners use them interchangeably.
Lack of particle makes it a command.
常见错误
Pai
Pai khrap
Pai kha (said by man)
Pai khrap
Khrap pai
Pai khrap
Pai please
Pai khrap
Pai noi
Pai noi khrap
Pai khrap noi
Pai noi khrap
Pai khrap kha
Pai khrap
Pai khrap na
Pai khrap
Pai khrap krub
Pai khrap
Pai khrap khrap
Pai khrap
Sentence Patterns
___ khrap
___ noi kha
Mai ___ khrap
Chuay ___ noi kha
Real World Usage
Ao khao pat khrap
Pai sanam bin khrap
Ma nee na kha
Chuay song email khrap
Ao an ni kha
Leo sai khrap
Gender Matters
Don't Forget
Use 'noi'
Smile
Smart Tips
Add 'noi' to your order.
Use 'chuay' + verb.
Always use the particle.
Just say the particle.
发音
Khrap
Often pronounced 'krap' in casual speech.
Kha
High tone, sounds like a question.
Request
Pai khrap ↑
Rising intonation makes it polite.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
K-R-A-P is for the King (Men), K-H-A is for the Queen (Women).
Visual Association
Imagine a man bowing with a 'K' sound and a woman curtsying with an 'H' sound.
Rhyme
If you want to be polite, add khrap or kha to do it right.
Story
A tourist goes to a market. He says 'Pai' (Go). The vendor looks annoyed. He adds 'khrap'. The vendor smiles and helps him.
Word Web
挑战
Say 'Thank you' and 'Please' with the correct particle 5 times today.
文化笔记
Using these particles shows you respect the listener.
Derived from ancient royal court language.
Conversation Starters
Pai nai khrap?
Kin khao rue yang kha?
Chuay noi khrap?
Ao nam noi kha?
Journal Prompts
Test Yourself
Pai ___ (male)
Kin khao ___ (female)
Find and fix the mistake:
Pai (male)
khrap / Pai
Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:
Pai ___ khrap
Pai
Find and fix the mistake:
khrap Pai noi
Score: /8
练习题
8 exercisesPai ___ (male)
Kin khao ___ (female)
Find and fix the mistake:
Pai (male)
khrap / Pai
Male -> ?
Pai ___ khrap
Pai
Find and fix the mistake:
khrap Pai noi
Score: /8
常见问题 (8)
To be polite in Thai culture.
No, pick one based on gender.
Choose the one you feel comfortable with.
Yes, it sounds like a command.
No, the verb stays the same.
When you want to be extra soft.
Yes, but these are essential.
Use them in every sentence.
In Other Languages
Por favor
Thai particles are gendered.
S'il vous plaît
Thai is gendered.
Bitte
Thai is gendered.
Kudasai
Thai is gendered.
Min fadlak
Thai is sentence-final.
Qing
Thai is sentence-final.