المعنى
Thanking someone kindly.
خلفية ثقافية
The phrase reflects the 'Evil Eye' culture. By wishing someone 'not to be missing,' you are essentially wishing them a life free from the 'missing' parts caused by bad luck or illness. In villages, this phrase is often followed by 'Bereket versin' (May it bring abundance) if food is involved, showing a deep connection between social presence and physical sustenance. In big cities like Istanbul, 'Eksik olma' is a way to maintain a sense of 'neighborhood' even in apartment blocks, signaling that you are a 'good, polite person' (kibar bir insan). Using 'Eksik olmayın' with a client can soften a business relationship, making it feel more like a partnership based on mutual respect rather than just money.
The 'Elder' Rule
When in doubt, always use 'Eksik olmayın.' It is never wrong to be too polite in Turkey.
Don't shorten it
Never just say 'Eksik.' It means 'missing' or 'defective' and will confuse people.
المعنى
Thanking someone kindly.
The 'Elder' Rule
When in doubt, always use 'Eksik olmayın.' It is never wrong to be too polite in Turkey.
Don't shorten it
Never just say 'Eksik.' It means 'missing' or 'defective' and will confuse people.
Smile while saying it
This phrase is about warmth. A robotic 'Eksik olma' sounds like you're reading from a dictionary.
Combine with 'Sağ ol'
Saying 'Sağ ol, eksik olma' is a very natural and powerful way to show deep gratitude.
اختبر نفسك
Which form should you use when thanking your elderly neighbor for bringing you soup?
Komşunuz size çorba getirdi. Ne dersiniz?
Since the neighbor is an elder, the plural/formal 'Eksik olmayın' is the most respectful and appropriate choice.
Complete the sentence with the correct form of the phrase.
Canım arkadaşım, yardımların için ____.
With a 'canım arkadaşım' (dear friend), the singular/informal 'eksik olma' is natural.
Match the response to the situation.
Situation: A stranger holds the door for you while you carry heavy bags.
A stranger requires the formal 'olmayın' and adding 'çok naziksiniz' (you are very kind) completes the polite interaction.
Fill in the missing part of the dialogue.
A: Kalemimi ödünç alabilirsin. B: ____, çok teşekkürler.
The standard informal gratitude is 'Eksik olma.'
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وسائل تعلم بصرية
When to use 'Eksik olma'
Social
- • Neighbors
- • Friends
- • Family
Favors
- • Help with bags
- • Giving directions
- • Borrowing items
Gifts
- • Birthday presents
- • Food sharing
- • Compliments
Gratitude Levels in Turkish
بنك التمارين
4 تمارينKomşunuz size çorba getirdi. Ne dersiniz?
Since the neighbor is an elder, the plural/formal 'Eksik olmayın' is the most respectful and appropriate choice.
Canım arkadaşım, yardımların için ____.
With a 'canım arkadaşım' (dear friend), the singular/informal 'eksik olma' is natural.
Situation: A stranger holds the door for you while you carry heavy bags.
A stranger requires the formal 'olmayın' and adding 'çok naziksiniz' (you are very kind) completes the polite interaction.
A: Kalemimi ödünç alabilirsin. B: ____, çok teşekkürler.
The standard informal gratitude is 'Eksik olma.'
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الأسئلة الشائعة
10 أسئلةNo, it is a secular phrase used by everyone in Turkey, regardless of their religious beliefs.
Yes, but use the formal version: 'Eksik olmayın.' It shows you appreciate their guidance or help.
'Sağ ol' means 'be healthy' and is a general thanks. 'Eksik olma' is slightly more heartfelt and implies you value the person's presence.
It's better to say 'Elinize sağlık' (Health to your hands) to the chef or 'Teşekkürler' to the waiter. 'Eksik olma' is for personal favors.
Yes, it's very common in emails, text messages, and letters to friends and family.
You can say 'Rica ederim' (You're welcome) or 'Siz de eksik olmayın' (You too, don't be missing).
Yes, 'Eksik olmayın' is used for multiple people or for one person you want to show respect to.
It has traditional roots, but it is very much alive and used by young people today, especially in a warm social context.
It might be a bit 'heavy' for just passing salt. 'Teşekkürler' is enough. Use 'Eksik olma' for something that required a bit more effort.
It's a more traditional, poetic version of the same phrase. You'll hear it in songs or from older people in villages.
عبارات ذات صلة
Sağ ol
synonymBe healthy / Thank you
Var ol
similarExist / Thank you
Ayağına sağlık
specialized formHealth to your feet
Kesene bereket
specialized formAbundance to your wallet
Allah razı olsun
similarMay God be pleased with you
