معنی
A polite way to introduce a criticism.
زمینه فرهنگی
The phrase is a direct result of 'konflikträdsla' (conflict avoidance). Swedes often prefer to use 'softeners' to maintain social harmony. In Finland-Swedish, the phrase is also common but sometimes used more directly. The 'social cushion' is still there, but the following criticism might be blunter. Norway has a similar phrase 'Ikke for å være sånn,' reflecting the shared Scandinavian value of avoiding direct confrontation in public. In international offices in Sweden, this phrase is often translated literally into English ('Not to be like that...'), which can sometimes confuse non-Swedish colleagues who aren't used to such indirectness.
The 'Men' is Key
Always follow the phrase with 'men' (but). Without it, the sentence feels unfinished and confusing.
Don't Overuse
If you use it too much, you will actually become 'sådan' (that difficult person) in the eyes of others.
معنی
A polite way to introduce a criticism.
The 'Men' is Key
Always follow the phrase with 'men' (but). Without it, the sentence feels unfinished and confusing.
Don't Overuse
If you use it too much, you will actually become 'sådan' (that difficult person) in the eyes of others.
Body Language
When saying this, a slight shrug or a small, apologetic smile helps reinforce that you are trying to be polite.
خودت رو بسنج
Fill in the missing words to complete the polite complaint.
Inte ___ att ___ sådan, men du har glömt att stänga dörren.
The fixed phrase is 'Inte för att vara sådan.'
Which sentence is the most natural way to tell a friend they are being too loud in a library?
Du pratar för högt!
This uses the 'social cushion' to make the request polite.
Match the phrase variation to the correct context.
Match: 1. Inte för att vara petig, 2. Inte för att vara elak, 3. Inte för att vara sådan
'Petig' is for small details, 'elak' is for personal comments, and 'sådan' is for general social friction.
Complete the dialogue naturally.
A: Här är din kaffe! B: Tack... Oh, vänta. ________, men jag bad om havremjölk.
This is the standard way to correct a service error politely.
🎉 امتیاز: /4
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بانک تمرین
4 تمرینهاInte ___ att ___ sådan, men du har glömt att stänga dörren.
The fixed phrase is 'Inte för att vara sådan.'
Du pratar för högt!
This uses the 'social cushion' to make the request polite.
Match: 1. Inte för att vara petig, 2. Inte för att vara elak, 3. Inte för att vara sådan
'Petig' is for small details, 'elak' is for personal comments, and 'sådan' is for general social friction.
A: Här är din kaffe! B: Tack... Oh, vänta. ________, men jag bad om havremjölk.
This is the standard way to correct a service error politely.
🎉 امتیاز: /4
سوالات متداول
10 سوالNo, it's actually intended to be the opposite! It's a way to avoid being rude while still addressing a problem.
Yes, 'sån' is very common in spoken Swedish and informal writing like texts.
It's a placeholder for 'a person who complains' or 'a difficult person.'
Yes, but be careful. It's better to use it for minor logistical issues rather than major work performance critiques.
Technically 'sådana', but in this idiom, we almost always use the singular 'sådan'.
Yes, it's a very common modern variation. It's slightly more informal.
Usually with 'Oj, förlåt!' (Oh, sorry!) or 'Ingen fara!' (No problem!).
90% of the time, yes. Occasionally it's used to introduce a weird or 'picky' fact.
Because of the cultural value placed on consensus and avoiding direct conflict.
Only if your comment is actually a bit mean. 'Sådan' is safer for general complaints.
عبارات مرتبط
Inte för att...
builds onNot that...
Bara så du vet
similarJust so you know
Om jag ska vara ärlig
similarIf I'm going to be honest
Med all respekt
formalWith all respect
