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How to talk to the worst parts of yourself | Karen Faith | TEDxKC

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Transcriber: Anggiasti R W Reviewer: Zsófia Herczeg

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It isn’t true what they say,

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that you can’t love anyone until you love yourself.

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Have you heard that?

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People say you have to learn to love yourself

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before you can love anybody else.

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But it’s not true.

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I loved everybody before I loved myself.

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Love doesn’t care which way you come or what state you’re in when you get here.

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Love welcomes everyone unconditionally.

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Oddly, so do focus group moderators -

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(Laughter)

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which is how and why I learned to do it.

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If you’ve never been a part of a focus group,

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you’re missing a really special cultural experience.

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So, in every focus group, there’s a range of characters, right?

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There’s always a shy one and a chatty one,

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a grumpy one that doesn’t want to do any of the exercises,

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and a very excited mom with a notebook,

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who wants to get an A plus in all of the exercises.

01:12

(Laughter)

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There’s a student who lied on the intake because they need the money,

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and a dad full of jokes who can’t read the room.

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(Laughter)

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And usually,

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there’s one ex-military guy

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who keeps staring at the two-way mirror suspiciously.

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(Laughter)

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It’s a situation

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where a group of people that may not otherwise ever meet

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have the chance to share their perspectives.

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And it’s my job as the moderator to make sure that they all get heard.

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Now, it’s not quite a classroom.

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It’s not group therapy.

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And while the community feel has some elements of holiness,

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probably no one would call it a spiritual experience.

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I mean, no one else.

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Because moderating rooms of strange and difficult voices

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is what taught me to welcome

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all the strange and difficult parts of myself.

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No kidding.

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I start every morning meditation

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with the same opener I use as a focus group moderator:

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“Thanks, everyone, for being here.”

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(Laughter)

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“Your input is valued.”

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(Laughter)

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“I’m going to hear from each of you. I’ll give you all the chance to speak.

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Just do your best to be completely present, honest,

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and try to make any requests reasonable.”

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So I don’t know about you, but there are a lot of me in here,

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in the mind of Karen Faith.

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I’m not referring to psychiatric illness specifically,

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but I don’t exclude that.

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(Laughter)

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My mind has plenty of quirks,

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but what I have to share is for anyone with an inner dialogue.

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Though I admit, it’s especially for those of us with a really noisy one.

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