B1 Expression ニュートラル

at tage noget ilde op

to take offense

意味

Being hurt by someone's words.

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文化的背景

Danes value 'ligeværdighed' (equality). Taking something 'ilde op' often happens if someone feels they are being talked down to. In Danish offices, feedback is very direct. This phrase is used as a necessary buffer to keep the atmosphere professional. It is considered polite to check if someone took a joke 'ilde op' if they stop laughing suddenly. Younger generations might find 'ilde op' a bit old-fashioned and use 'at blive stødt' or 'at tude' (slang for crying/complaining) instead.

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The 'Det' Rule

Always use 'det' (it) as a placeholder if you aren't naming a specific thing. 'Jeg tog det ilde op' is much more common than 'Jeg tog din kommentar ilde op'.

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Don't over-apologize

If you say 'Tag det ikke ilde op' too many times, it can actually make you sound more offensive, as if you know you are being mean.

意味

Being hurt by someone's words.

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The 'Det' Rule

Always use 'det' (it) as a placeholder if you aren't naming a specific thing. 'Jeg tog det ilde op' is much more common than 'Jeg tog din kommentar ilde op'.

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Don't over-apologize

If you say 'Tag det ikke ilde op' too many times, it can actually make you sound more offensive, as if you know you are being mean.

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Irony Alert

Danes use a lot of irony. If you take an ironic joke 'ilde op', a Dane might say you 'mangler selvironi' (lack self-irony).

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Fill in the missing words to complete the idiom.

Jeg håber ikke, at du tager det ___ ___.

✓ 正解! ✗ おしい! 正解: ilde op

The correct idiom is 'at tage noget ilde op'.

Which sentence is the most polite way to give criticism?

Du vil sige til en ven, at deres kaffe smager dårligt.

✓ 正解! ✗ おしい! 正解: Tag det ikke ilde op, men kaffen er lidt tynd.

Using 'Tag det ikke ilde op' softens the criticism.

Match the Danish phrase with its English equivalent.

Match the pairs:

✓ 正解! ✗ おしい! 正解: a

These are the standard translations for these social expressions.

Complete the dialogue.

A: Jeg kan ikke komme til din fødselsdag. B: Det er okay, jeg ___ ___ ___ ___ ___.

✓ 正解! ✗ おしい! 正解: tager det ikke ilde op

The word order must be: verb + object + ikke + adverb + particle.

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4 問題
Fill in the missing words to complete the idiom. Fill Blank B1

Jeg håber ikke, at du tager det ___ ___.

✓ 正解! ✗ おしい! 正解: ilde op

The correct idiom is 'at tage noget ilde op'.

Which sentence is the most polite way to give criticism? Choose A2

Du vil sige til en ven, at deres kaffe smager dårligt.

✓ 正解! ✗ おしい! 正解: Tag det ikke ilde op, men kaffen er lidt tynd.

Using 'Tag det ikke ilde op' softens the criticism.

Match the Danish phrase with its English equivalent. Match B1

左の各項目を右のペアと一致させてください:

✓ 正解! ✗ おしい! 正解: a

These are the standard translations for these social expressions.

Complete the dialogue. dialogue_completion B1

A: Jeg kan ikke komme til din fødselsdag. B: Det er okay, jeg ___ ___ ___ ___ ___.

✓ 正解! ✗ おしい! 正解: tager det ikke ilde op

The word order must be: verb + object + ikke + adverb + particle.

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よくある質問

10 問

Yes, for example 'at se ilde ud' (to look bad/ill) or 'ilde til mode' (uncomfortable).

Absolutely. It's very common in professional emails to soften requests or feedback.

Not exactly. It's more about being hurt or offended than being purely angry.

There isn't a direct opposite idiom, but you could say 'at tage det pænt' (to take it nicely/well).

No, you must include 'op'. Without 'op', the phrase is incomplete in modern Danish.

It's neutral-formal. You can use it with your boss or your grandmother.

It sounds like 'ILL-uh'. The 'd' is silent.

No, it is only for emotional or social 'pain'.

In Danish, 'op' often signifies bringing something into consideration or discussion.

Yes, especially in dramas where characters have social misunderstandings.

関連フレーズ

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at tage det personligt

similar

To take it personally

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at blive fornærmet

synonym

To be insulted

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at bære nag

builds on

To hold a grudge

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at se stort på noget

contrast

To ignore something / not care

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