At the A1 level, you likely won't use 'conformar-se' often. It's a complex reflexive verb. However, you might encounter it in simple phrases about accepting things. Think of it as a fancy way to say 'to accept.' At this stage, focus on the fact that it needs a little word like 'me' or 'se' with it. For example, 'Eu me conformo' (I accept it). You might see it in very simple stories where a character has to accept that they can't have a toy or that the weather is bad. The most important thing for an A1 learner is not to confuse it with 'confirmar' (to confirm). Just remember: 'conformar' is about the 'form' or 'shape' of your feelings, while 'confirmar' is about saying 'yes' to a plan. You will mostly hear it in the present tense: 'Ele se conforma.' Don't worry about the complex grammar yet; just recognize it as a word for 'settling' or 'accepting.'
At the A2 level, you should start to notice the preposition 'com' that usually follows 'conformar-se.' You might use it to talk about daily frustrations that you just have to live with. For example, 'Eu me conformo com o trânsito' (I accept the traffic). You are learning more reflexive verbs now (like se levantar, se chamar), so 'conformar-se' fits into that pattern. You might also see it in the negative: 'Eu não me conformo!' which is a common way to express that you are upset about something. It's a bit like saying 'It's not fair!' or 'I can't believe it!' At this level, try to use it in the past tense too: 'Eu me conformei com a nota' (I accepted the grade). It shows you are moving beyond simple verbs like 'gostar' or 'querer' and starting to describe your internal reactions to the world around you.
At the B1 level, you can use 'conformar-se' to discuss social norms and rules. This is where the meaning of 'complying' starts to become useful. You might talk about how people in a certain country 'se conformam às leis' (conform to the laws). You should also be comfortable using it in the subjunctive mood, which is a big part of B1 grammar. For example: 'É importante que todos se conformem com as novas regras' (It's important that everyone complies with the new rules). You are also starting to see the difference between 'conformar-se' and 'aceitar.' While 'aceitar' is just taking something, 'conformar-se' implies you might have had a different opinion but decided to go along with things. It's a more nuanced way to describe human behavior in society, making your Portuguese sound more natural and less like a direct translation from English.
At the B2 level, you should be able to use 'conformar-se' in more abstract and professional contexts. You might use it in a debate to talk about social resignation: 'A sociedade não pode se conformar com a pobreza' (Society cannot accept/resign itself to poverty). You understand that this verb carries a weight of 'stoicism' or 'giving in.' You should also be familiar with the noun 'conformidade' (compliance) and how it relates to the verb. In business or academic writing, you might use the verb to describe how data 'se conforma' to a hypothesis. Your ability to use the reflexive pronouns correctly in all tenses (including the conditional: 'Eu me conformaria se...') should be solid. You are also starting to pick up on the cultural nuances—how 'não se conformar' is a common expression of social indignation in Portuguese-speaking countries, especially in news and opinion pieces.
At the C1 level, you are mastering the subtle distinctions between 'conformar-se,' 'resignar-se,' and 'condescender.' You use 'conformar-se' to describe complex psychological states of acceptance where an individual aligns their internal will with an external, unchangeable reality. You can use it in literary analysis to describe a character's journey toward accepting their fate. You are also aware of the formal usage 'conformar-se a' versus the common 'conformar-se com.' In a professional setting, you use the term to discuss regulatory compliance and structural alignment with precision. You can use the word's negative form ('indignação' and 'não-conformidade') to construct sophisticated arguments about social change. Your usage is fluid, incorporating the verb into complex sentence structures with multiple clauses, and you never miss the reflexive pronoun or the correct preposition, regardless of the complexity of the sentence.
At the C2 level, 'conformar-se' is a tool for philosophical and existential discourse. You understand its etymological roots in 'con-' (together) and 'formare' (to form), using it to discuss how human identity is 'formed with' the surrounding culture and history. You can use the verb in its most archaic or highly formal senses, such as in legal statutes or classical poetry, where it might appear without the reflexive pronoun in very specific, rare transitive senses ('conformar os planos'). You move effortlessly between the emotional, technical, and philosophical layers of the word. You can discuss the 'estética da conformidade' in art or the 'política do conformismo' in sociology. For you, 'conformar-se' is not just a verb but a concept that encapsulates the human struggle between the desire for autonomy and the necessity of belonging to a larger whole.

conformar-se 30秒で

  • A reflexive verb meaning to resign oneself to a situation or to comply with rules and standards, often requiring the preposition 'com'.
  • Commonly used to express emotional acceptance of difficult news or to discuss legal and professional compliance in various industries.
  • Essential for C1 learners to distinguish between simple acceptance and the deeper psychological alignment implied by this reflexive term.
  • Can be used negatively ('não me conformo') to express strong indignation, shock, or a refusal to accept an unfair reality.

The Portuguese verb conformar-se is a sophisticated and multifaceted term that primarily describes the process of alignment, whether that alignment is physical, legal, or psychological. At its core, it suggests bringing something into harmony with a standard or accepting a reality that cannot be changed. For English speakers, it is most often translated as 'to conform,' 'to comply,' or 'to resign oneself.' However, the Portuguese usage often carries a deeper emotional weight than the English 'to conform.' While in English, conforming often sounds like a lack of individuality, in Portuguese, conformar-se frequently refers to the stoic acceptance of life's challenges. It is a reflexive verb, meaning the action is performed by the subject upon themselves, emphasizing the internal psychological shift required to accept a situation.

Psychological Resignation
This is perhaps the most common daily usage. When someone says 'Eu me conformo,' they are often saying they have found peace with a difficult outcome, such as a job loss or a breakup. It is the act of stopping the struggle against the inevitable.
Legal and Technical Compliance
In professional contexts, it refers to ensuring that products, behaviors, or documents meet specific regulations (normas). Here, it is synonymous with compliance and adherence to standards.
Morphological Adaptation
Less commonly, it can describe physical objects taking the shape of a container or mold, though 'adaptar-se' is more frequent in this physical sense.

Depois de muita luta, ele finalmente teve que conformar-se com a decisão do juiz, percebendo que não havia mais recursos possíveis.

Understanding the nuances of this word requires recognizing that it sits at the intersection of 'acceptance' and 'submission.' In a C1 context, you should use it to describe complex emotional states where a person chooses to stop fighting an external force. It is not necessarily a sign of weakness; rather, it can be a sign of maturity and the ability to move forward. For example, in literature, a character might conformar-se with their destiny, suggesting a tragic but necessary embrace of their fate. In business, a company must conformar-se to environmental regulations to avoid fines, showing a pragmatic adherence to external rules.

Não podemos nos conformar com a mediocridade; devemos sempre buscar a excelência em tudo o que fazemos.

Furthermore, the word can be used in the negative to express rebellion or a refusal to accept the status quo. 'Não me conformo' is a powerful way to say 'I cannot accept this' or 'This is unacceptable to me.' This negative usage is very common in political discourse and social activism, where leaders urge the public not to simply accept (não se conformar) social inequalities or corruption. It implies a moral stance against an unfair reality.

Using conformar-se correctly involves mastering its reflexive nature and its relationship with prepositions. Because it is a reflexive verb, the pronoun (me, te, se, nos, vos, se) must change to match the subject. This is a common stumbling block for English speakers who are used to the non-reflexive 'conform.' In Portuguese, you don't just 'conform'; you 'conform yourself' to something. The most common structure is [Subject] + [Reflexive Pronoun] + [Conformar] + com + [Object].

Eu me conformo com o resultado, embora esperasse algo melhor.

In more formal or technical writing, you might see conformar-se a or conformar-se ante. The 'a' version is often used when talking about following rules or standards (e.g., 'conformar-se às normas'), while 'ante' is used for a more dramatic, stoic acceptance in the face of an overwhelming force (e.g., 'conformar-se ante a fatalidade'). However, in 90% of spoken and written Portuguese, 'com' is your go-to preposition.

Present Tense (Everyday Acceptance)
'Eles se conformam com pouco.' (They settle for little.) This implies a habitual state of being easily satisfied or lacking ambition.
Past Tense (Completed Resignation)
'Nós nos conformamos com a derrota.' (We accepted the defeat.) This describes a specific moment in time when acceptance was reached.
Subjunctive (Hypothetical/Advice)
'É necessário que você se conforme com as regras.' (It is necessary that you comply with the rules.) Used for giving commands or expressing necessity.

Se ele não se conformasse com a situação, teria pedido demissão há muito tempo.

When using it in professional settings, the verb often appears in the passive or impersonal form. For example, 'O projeto deve estar em conformidade' (The project must be in compliance) is a related noun phrase, but the verb form 'O projeto conforma-se às exigências' (The project conforms to the requirements) is also common. In these cases, it lacks the 'emotional resignation' aspect and focuses entirely on structural or logical alignment. Mastering these different shades of meaning allows a C1 speaker to navigate both a heart-to-heart conversation and a formal business meeting with the same word.

The word conformar-se is ubiquitous in Portuguese-speaking cultures, appearing in everything from melancholic Fado lyrics to stern legal documents. Its presence reflects a certain cultural stoicism found in many Lusophone societies—the idea of 'aceitar o destino' (accepting fate). In Portugal, you might hear it in the context of the word 'Fado' itself, which means fate; to conformar-se with one's Fado is a central theme in Portuguese identity. In Brazil, you'll hear it frequently in news reports regarding social issues, where commentators might lament that the population 'se conformou' with corruption or poor public services, using the word to spark a sense of indignation.

Na entrevista, o jogador disse: 'Temos que nos conformar com o empate e focar no próximo jogo.'

In the workplace, conformar-se is the language of audits and quality control. You will hear managers talking about 'conformidade' (compliance) and asking if the current processes 'se conformam' to the new ISO standards. If you are working in a Portuguese-speaking office, being able to discuss how your work 'se conforma' to the company's expectations is crucial for professional advancement. It suggests a reliable, disciplined approach to work.

In Literature and Philosophy
Authors like Fernando Pessoa or Machado de Assis often explore the tension between the individual will and the need to conform to social masks. You will find conformar-se used to describe characters who eventually give up their dreams to fit into the bourgeois society.
In Everyday Gossip
'Ela não se conforma que ele tenha ido embora.' (She can't accept that he left.) Here, it's used to describe someone who is struggling with grief or the end of a relationship, highlighting the lack of closure.

Religious contexts also frequently utilize this verb. In sermons or spiritual counseling, one might be encouraged to 'conformar-se com a vontade de Deus' (conform to God's will). This usage emphasizes humility and the surrender of the ego to a higher power. Whether it's a priest, a boss, a grieving friend, or a quality assurance officer, the word conformar-se provides the linguistic framework for discussing how the internal self relates to external pressures and realities. It is a word of transition—from resistance to acceptance, from chaos to order, or from individuality to community standards.

The most frequent mistake English speakers make with conformar-se is treating it as a non-reflexive verb. In English, you 'conform to the rules.' In Portuguese, if you say 'Eu conformo as regras,' you are actually saying 'I shape the rules' or 'I give form to the rules,' which is almost never what you mean. You must include the reflexive pronoun me, te, se, nos, vos, se to indicate that you are the one undergoing the change or the acceptance.

Incorrect: Eu conformo com a situação.
Correct: Eu me conformo com a situação.

Another common error is using the wrong preposition. While 'to' is the standard in English (conform to), 'com' is the standard in Portuguese. Using 'conformar-se a' is not always wrong (especially in formal contexts), but using 'conformar-se para' or 'conformar-se de' is almost always a mistake. Think of 'com' as 'with'—you are coming to terms with the situation.

Confusion with 'Confirmar'
Because they sound similar, beginners often confuse conformar (to conform/shape) with confirmar (to confirm). If you want to confirm a flight, use 'confirmar.' If you are accepting the flight delay, use 'conformar-se.'
Overusing it for 'Accept'
Don't use conformar-se for simple acceptance of a gift or an invitation. Use 'aceitar' for that. Conformar-se implies a previous state of disagreement or a difficult reality that required effort to accept.

Finally, watch out for the 'false friend' aspect. In English, 'conforming' can sometimes imply 'being a conformist' (someone who lacks original thought). While Portuguese uses conformista for this, the verb conformar-se is often more about emotional resilience than about being a 'sheep.' Don't assume that someone saying 'Eu me conformo' is admitting to being a follower; they might just be saying they are at peace with a situation they cannot change.

Depending on the context, conformar-se can be replaced by several other verbs, each with a slightly different flavor. At the C1 level, choosing the precise synonym is key to sounding like a native speaker. If the focus is on emotional surrender, resignar-se is a powerful alternative. If the focus is on following rules, cumprir or obedecer might be better. If you are talking about fitting in, adaptar-se or ajustar-se are the preferred terms.

Resignar-se vs. Conformar-se
Resignar-se: Implies a more passive, sometimes sadder acceptance. It's often used for unavoidable tragedies (e.g., death).
Conformar-se: Can be more active or pragmatic. You might conform yourself to a new budget, which is a choice, whereas you resign yourself to a loss.
Aceitar vs. Conformar-se
Aceitar: A neutral term for receiving or agreeing to something.
Conformar-se: Implies there was a struggle or a discrepancy that had to be resolved. You 'aceitar' a gift, but you 'conformar-se' with a lower salary than you wanted.
Adaptar-se vs. Conformar-se
Adaptar-se: Focuses on the process of change to fit a new environment (e.g., moving to a new country).
Conformar-se: Focuses on the mental state of acceptance of that environment's limitations.

Ao invés de apenas conformar-se com a situação, tente adaptar-se de forma criativa para encontrar novas soluções.

In technical settings, use estar em conformidade com (to be in compliance with) rather than the verb conformar-se. For example, 'O software está em conformidade com a LGPD' (The software is in compliance with the General Data Protection Law). This sounds much more professional than saying 'O software se conforma com a lei.' By understanding these subtle shifts, you can tailor your Portuguese to be as precise as possible, moving beyond basic communication into the realm of nuanced expression.

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豆知識

The word originally referred to physical shaping (like pottery), but shifted to psychological 'shaping' of the mind to match reality over centuries.

発音ガイド

UK /kõ.fuɾ.ˈmaɾ.sɨ/
US /kõ.foɾ.ˈmaɾ.si/
The primary stress is on the last syllable of the verb root: 'mar'.
韻が合う語
amar-se olhar-se lembrar-se entregar-se mudar-se sentar-se achar-se dar-se
よくある間違い
  • Pronouncing the 'n' as a hard English 'n' instead of nasalizing the vowel.
  • Forgetting to pronounce the reflexive 'se' at the end or before the verb.
  • Confusing the pronunciation with 'confirmar' (confirm).

難易度

読解 3/5

Easy to recognize due to the English cognate 'conform'.

ライティング 7/5

Difficult to remember the reflexive pronoun and the correct preposition 'com'.

スピーキング 6/5

Requires practice to get the nasal vowels and reflexive flow right.

リスニング 5/5

Can be confused with 'confirmar' in fast speech.

次に学ぶべきこと

前提知識

forma aceitar regras se (reflexive pronoun) com

次に学ぶ

resignar-se condescender aquiescer cumprimento normativa

上級

estética da conformidade imperativo categórico determinismo estoicismo

知っておくべき文法

Reflexive Pronoun Placement

Em frases negativas, o pronome vem antes: 'Não **me** conformo'.

Prepositional Government

O verbo exige 'com' para objetos: 'Conformo-me **com** a situação'.

Subjunctive Trigger

Expressões de desejo ou necessidade pedem o subjuntivo: 'É preciso que ele **se conforme**'.

Personal Infinitive

Para nós **nos conformarmos**, precisamos de tempo.

Enclisis in European Portuguese

Conformo-**me** com tudo (Standard in PT-PT at start of sentence).

レベル別の例文

1

Eu me conformo com o frio.

I accept the cold.

Reflexive: Eu + me + conformo.

2

Ela se conforma com a comida.

She accepts the food.

Reflexive: Ela + se + conforma.

3

Nós nos conformamos com o tempo.

We accept the weather.

Reflexive: Nós + nos + conformamos.

4

Eles se conformam com o jogo.

They accept the game (result).

Reflexive: Eles + se + conformam.

5

Você se conforma com isso?

Do you accept this?

Question form.

6

O gato se conforma com a caixa.

The cat accepts the box.

Third person singular.

7

Eu não me conformo.

I don't accept it.

Negative form.

8

Maria se conforma com o atraso.

Maria accepts the delay.

Subject 'Maria' uses 'se'.

1

Eu me conformei com a minha nota baixa.

I resigned myself to my low grade.

Pretérito Perfeito (Past tense).

2

Você precisa se conformar com as regras da escola.

You need to comply with the school rules.

Infinitive after 'precisa'.

3

Nós não nos conformamos com a derrota de ontem.

We don't accept yesterday's defeat.

Negative in the present.

4

Ela se conformou que o voo foi cancelado.

She accepted that the flight was cancelled.

Using 'que' to introduce a clause.

5

Eles se conformam facilmente com qualquer coisa.

They settle easily for anything.

Adverb 'facilmente' modifying the verb.

6

O cachorro se conformou em dormir no chão.

The dog resigned itself to sleeping on the floor.

Using 'em' before an infinitive.

7

Eu me conformo com o que tenho.

I am satisfied with what I have.

Relative clause 'o que tenho'.

8

Por que você se conforma com tão pouco?

Why do you settle for so little?

Question with 'por que'.

1

Espero que você se conforme com a nossa decisão final.

I hope you accept our final decision.

Present Subjunctive after 'Espero que'.

2

Se eu perdesse o emprego, me conformaria com o seguro-desemprego.

If I lost my job, I would settle for unemployment insurance.

Conditional tense.

3

Antigamente, as pessoas se conformavam mais com as tradições.

In the past, people conformed more to traditions.

Pretérito Imperfeito (Past habit).

4

É difícil se conformar com a injustiça no mundo.

It is difficult to accept injustice in the world.

Impersonal 'É difícil'.

5

Ele se conformou com o fato de que não seria promovido.

He resigned himself to the fact that he wouldn't be promoted.

Noun phrase 'o fato de que'.

6

Nós nos conformamos com o regulamento para evitar problemas.

We complied with the regulations to avoid problems.

Preposition 'com' for compliance.

7

Ela se conformava com a rotina, mas sonhava com viagens.

She was resigned to the routine, but dreamed of travels.

Contrast using 'mas'.

8

Vocês se conformam com as condições deste contrato?

Do you agree to the conditions of this contract?

Direct question.

1

A empresa deve se conformar aos padrões internacionais de segurança.

The company must comply with international safety standards.

Formal 'se conformar a'.

2

Muitos cidadãos se conformam com a corrupção por acharem que nada mudará.

Many citizens resign themselves to corruption because they think nothing will change.

Causal clause 'por acharem'.

3

Não podemos nos conformar enquanto houver fome no país.

We cannot stand idly by (be resigned) while there is hunger in the country.

Temporal clause 'enquanto houver'.

4

Ele se conformou ante a evidência de que estava errado.

He yielded in the face of evidence that he was wrong.

Formal preposition 'ante'.

5

A estrutura do prédio se conforma às exigências sísmicas.

The building's structure conforms to seismic requirements.

Technical usage (non-human subject).

6

Embora estivesse triste, ela se conformou com a partida do filho.

Although she was sad, she resigned herself to her son's departure.

Concessive clause 'Embora'.

7

Será que eles se conformarão com as novas taxas de juros?

Will they accept the new interest rates?

Future tense.

8

O autor se conforma com as críticas, pois sabe que são construtivas.

The author accepts the criticism because he knows it is constructive.

Explanatory clause 'pois'.

1

O filósofo argumenta que o homem deve conformar-se à ordem natural das coisas.

The philosopher argues that man must conform to the natural order of things.

Enclitic pronoun (European style) in formal text.

2

A peça explora a tragédia de um herói que se recusa a conformar-se com o seu destino.

The play explores the tragedy of a hero who refuses to resign himself to his fate.

Reflexive infinitive after 'recusa-se a'.

3

É imperativo que a política externa se conforme com os tratados de direitos humanos.

It is imperative that foreign policy complies with human rights treaties.

Subjunctive for necessity.

4

A alma, cansada de lutar, finalmente conformou-se com a solidão.

The soul, tired of fighting, finally resigned itself to loneliness.

Literary/Poetic usage.

5

O software foi atualizado para se conformar com as novas diretrizes de privacidade.

The software was updated to comply with the new privacy guidelines.

Passive voice 'foi atualizado'.

6

Não me conformo que, em pleno século XXI, ainda existam tais preconceitos.

I cannot accept that, in the middle of the 21st century, such prejudices still exist.

Strong expression of indignation.

7

A produção industrial deve conformar-se rigorosamente às normas de sustentabilidade.

Industrial production must strictly conform to sustainability standards.

Adverb 'rigorosamente' for emphasis.

8

Ao conformar-se com a situação, ele perdeu a oportunidade de mudá-la.

By resigning himself to the situation, he lost the opportunity to change it.

Gerund-like use of personal infinitive.

1

A ontologia heideggeriana sugere um modo de ser que não se conforma meramente ao ente.

Heideggerian ontology suggests a mode of being that does not merely conform to the entity.

Highly academic/philosophical register.

2

O texto jurídico prescreve que o ato administrativo deve conformar-se ao princípio da legalidade.

The legal text prescribes that the administrative act must comply with the principle of legality.

Legal jargon.

3

Haverá sempre uma tensão entre o desejo de transcendência e a necessidade de conformar-se à finitude humana.

There will always be a tension between the desire for transcendence and the need to resign oneself to human finitude.

Existential theme.

4

A poética de Camões muitas vezes se conforma com a dor do desterro e do amor não correspondido.

Camões' poetics often resigns itself to the pain of exile and unrequited love.

Literary analysis.

5

A arquitetura brutalista conforma-se à crueza dos materiais, sem adornos supérfluos.

Brutalist architecture conforms to the rawness of the materials, without superfluous ornaments.

Aesthetic/Artistic usage.

6

A subjetividade contemporânea resiste a conformar-se aos moldes pré-estabelecidos pela tradição.

Contemporary subjectivity resists conforming to the molds pre-established by tradition.

Sociological analysis.

7

É na incapacidade de conformar-se que reside o germe de toda revolução social.

It is in the inability to conform that the seed of all social revolution lies.

Abstract noun-like use of the infinitive.

8

O espírito crítico jamais se conforma com respostas superficiais ou dogmáticas.

The critical spirit never settles for superficial or dogmatic answers.

Intellectual register.

よく使う組み合わせ

Conformar-se com a realidade
Conformar-se com a sorte
Conformar-se às normas
Conformar-se com a perda
Não se conformar com a injustiça
Conformar-se com o pouco
Conformar-se com a derrota
Conformar-se com o destino
Conformar-se com a vontade de Deus
Conformar-se com as circunstâncias

よく使うフレーズ

Eu não me conformo!

— I can't believe it! / I'm outraged!

Eu não me conformo que ele tenha feito isso!

Conformar-se com o inevitável

— To accept what cannot be changed.

Às vezes, a única opção é se conformar com o inevitável.

Quem não se conforma, não avança

— A saying suggesting that lack of acceptance hinders progress (or vice versa).

Lembre-se: quem não se conforma com os próprios erros, não avança.

Estar em conformidade

— To be in compliance (noun form usage).

O documento está em conformidade com o pedido.

Conformar-se com as migalhas

— To settle for very little (usually negative).

Não se conforme com as migalhas que te oferecem.

Conformar-se com o silêncio

— To accept a lack of communication.

Ele se conformou com o silêncio dela após a briga.

Conformar-se com a rotina

— To settle into a boring daily life.

É perigoso se conformar com a rotina e parar de sonhar.

Conformar-se com a idade

— To accept the process of getting older.

Ele se conformou com a idade e parou de pintar o cabelo.

Conformar-se com o veredito

— To accept a legal or final judgment.

O réu se conformou com o veredito do júri.

Conformar-se com o óbvio

— To accept the evident truth.

Precisamos nos conformar com o óbvio: o plano falhou.

よく混同される語

conformar-se vs Confirmar

Means 'to confirm' a fact or reservation. 'Conformar' is about shape or acceptance.

conformar-se vs Confortar

Means 'to comfort' someone. Related roots, but very different meanings.

conformar-se vs Confrontar

Means 'to confront' or 'to face'. The opposite of 'conformar-se' (to accept).

慣用句と表現

"Dar-se por conformado"

— To consider oneself satisfied or resigned to a situation.

Ele deu-se por conformado com o terceiro lugar.

Neutral
"Conformar-se com o seu quinhão"

— To accept one's share or lot in life.

Cada um deve conformar-se com o seu quinhão.

Literary
"Não se conformar com a própria sombra"

— To be extremely restless or dissatisfied with everything.

Ele é tão ranzinza que não se conforma nem com a própria sombra.

Informal
"Conformar o passo"

— To adjust one's speed or rhythm (literal and figurative).

Ela teve que conformar o passo ao do avô mais velho.

Neutral
"Conformar-se com a sorte"

— To accept one's destiny, usually a bad one.

O marinheiro se conformou com a sorte no mar revolto.

Literary
"Estar conformado"

— To be in a state of resignation.

Ele parece conformado com a situação.

Neutral
"Fazer por se conformar"

— To make an effort to accept something.

Estou fazendo por me conformar com esta mudança.

Neutral
"Não haver conformação"

— There is no way to accept it (used for great tragedies).

Para tamanha dor, não há conformação.

Formal
"Conformar-se com o mundo"

— To lose one's idealism and accept things as they are.

Muitos jovens acabam se conformando com o mundo ao envelhecer.

Philosophical
"Viver em conformidade"

— To live according to certain principles.

Ele vive em conformidade com as suas crenças.

Formal

間違えやすい

conformar-se vs Resignar-se

Both mean 'to accept'.

'Resignar-se' is usually for sadder, unchangeable things like death. 'Conformar-se' is more general.

Ele se resignou à morte do cão; Ele se conformou com o novo horário.

conformar-se vs Aceitar

General meaning of acceptance.

'Aceitar' is neutral. 'Conformar-se' implies a struggle or an adjustment was needed.

Aceito o café; Me conformo com o café frio.

conformar-se vs Adaptar-se

Both involve change.

'Adaptar-se' is about changing behavior/physicality. 'Conformar-se' is about changing the mind/will.

Adaptou-se ao clima; Conformou-se com o clima.

conformar-se vs Obedecer

Both involve following rules.

'Obedecer' is the act of following. 'Conformar-se' is the state of being in alignment with those rules.

Obedeça ao mestre; Conforme-se às regras do mestre.

conformar-se vs Condescender

Both involve going along with something.

'Condescender' implies a bit of superiority or doing a favor by agreeing.

Ele condescendeu em vir à festa.

文型パターン

A1

Eu me conformo com [Noun].

Eu me conformo com o sol.

A2

Ele se conformou com [Noun].

Ele se conformou com a nota.

B1

É difícil se conformar com [Noun].

É difícil se conformar com a chuva.

B2

[Subject] deve se conformar a [Norms].

A empresa deve se conformar às leis.

C1

Não me conformo que [Subjunctive Clause].

Não me conformo que eles tenham mentido.

C2

A subjetividade conforma-se a [Concept].

A alma conforma-se à finitude.

B1

Se eu fosse você, me conformaria.

Se eu fosse você, me conformaria com o preço.

B2

Eles se conformaram ante a [Abstract Noun].

Eles se conformaram ante a tragédia.

語族

名詞

動詞

形容詞

関連

使い方

frequency

High in both written and spoken Portuguese.

よくある間違い
  • Eu conformo com as regras. Eu me conformo com as regras.

    You forgot the reflexive pronoun 'me'. Without it, the verb is incomplete.

  • Ela se conformou para a situação. Ela se conformou com a situação.

    The correct preposition is 'com', not 'para'.

  • Nós conformamos às leis. Nós nos conformamos às leis.

    Even in formal contexts, the reflexive pronoun 'nos' is required.

  • Não conformo que isso aconteça. Não me conformo que isso aconteça.

    Indignation phrases also require the reflexive 'me'.

  • Eu confirmo com o resultado. Eu me conformo com o resultado.

    You used 'confirmar' (to confirm) instead of 'conformar-se' (to resign/accept).

ヒント

Watch the Pronouns

Always match the reflexive pronoun to the subject: Eu me, Tu te, Ele se, Nós nos, Vós vos, Eles se. This is the #1 mistake learners make.

Indignation Tool

Use 'Não me conformo!' whenever you see something unfair. It makes you sound very native and passionate about your beliefs.

Business Compliance

In a job interview, say you work 'em conformidade com as normas' to show you are disciplined and follow protocols.

Form with Reality

Think of 'Con-Forming' your mind to the 'Form' of the world. You are reshaping your expectations.

Formal Writing

In formal letters, use 'conforme' (the adjective/conjunction) as a synonym for 'according to'—it's from the same family.

Nasal Vowels

The first syllable 'con' is nasal. Don't pronounce the 'n' fully. It should sound like /kõ/.

Not Just Giving Up

Remember that 'conformar-se' can be a positive step toward peace, not just a negative 'giving up'.

The 'Com' Connection

Associate 'conformar-se' with 'com' like a married couple. They almost always go together in conversation.

Listen for the 'Se'

In fast speech, the 'se' can blend into the verb. Listen for the 'si' sound at the end of the infinitive in Brazil.

Literary Resignation

In older books, look for 'conformação' to describe a character's quiet acceptance of their social class.

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記憶術

Think of 'Con-Form'. You are putting your 'Form' (your mind or shape) 'Con' (with) the situation. You are shaping yourself to fit the reality.

視覚的連想

Imagine a square peg slowly sanding its edges off to fit into a round hole. That process of changing to fit is 'conformar-se'.

Word Web

Aceitar Resignar Cumprir Regras Destino Paz Ajuste Norma

チャレンジ

Try to use 'conformar-se' in three different tenses today: once for a rule you follow, once for something you accept, and once in the negative ('não me conformo').

語源

From the Latin 'conformare', which combines 'con-' (together, with) and 'formare' (to form, to shape).

元の意味: To give the same shape to, to fashion, or to arrange in a similar manner.

Romance (Latin root).

文化的な背景

Be careful when telling someone to 'conformar-se' in a tragic situation; it can sometimes sound dismissive of their pain if not used with empathy.

English speakers often view 'conforming' negatively (losing individuality). In Portuguese, 'conformar-se' can be a positive sign of emotional maturity and resilience.

Fernando Pessoa's poems often deal with the 'conformação' of the soul. The Fado song 'Tudo isto é Fado' touches on the theme of resignation. Legal statutes in Brazil and Portugal use 'em conformidade com' as a standard phrase.

実生活で練習する

実際の使用場面

Legal/Business

  • Estar em conformidade
  • Conformar-se às normas
  • Não-conformidade detectada
  • Relatório de conformidade

Emotional/Personal

  • Conformar-se com a perda
  • Não me conformo!
  • Fazer por se conformar
  • Coração conformado

Philosophy/Religion

  • Conformar-se com o destino
  • Vontade divina
  • Ordem natural
  • Resignação cristã

Sports

  • Conformar-se com o resultado
  • Aceitar a derrota
  • Conformar-se com o banco (reserves)
  • Placar injusto

Daily Life

  • Conformar-se com o trânsito
  • Sossegar o facho
  • Aceitar que dói menos
  • Vida que segue

会話のきっかけ

"Você acha fácil se conformar com as mudanças inesperadas na vida?"

"Com o que você mais tem dificuldade de se conformar na sociedade atual?"

"Você se considera uma pessoa que se conforma facilmente ou um rebelde?"

"Como você lida quando não consegue se conformar com uma injustiça?"

"Você acha que se conformar com o destino é um sinal de força ou de fraqueza?"

日記のテーマ

Escreva sobre uma situação em que você teve que se conformar com algo que não queria. Como foi o processo?

Reflita sobre a frase 'Não me conformo'. O que te causa essa sensação de indignação hoje em dia?

Como a ideia de 'conformar-se' mudou para você desde que começou a morar em outro país ou cultura?

Descreva a diferença entre 'conformar-se' e 'desistir' na sua opinião pessoal.

Analise como as regras da sua profissão exigem que você se conforme a padrões específicos.

よくある質問

10 問

No. While it can mean 'settling for less,' it often signifies emotional maturity and the ability to find peace with things that cannot be changed. It's a key part of resilience.

'Com' is the standard preposition for everyday acceptance. 'A' is more formal and often used when discussing compliance with laws, rules, or technical standards.

Yes, but the meaning changes. 'Conformar' (without 'se') means to give shape to something or to make things similar. 'Conformar-se' (with 'se') means to accept or comply.

The most common way is 'Eu não me conformo com isso!' This is a very strong and common expression of indignation or shock.

Both are correct. 'Me conformo' is standard in Brazil and in informal contexts. 'Conformo-me' is more common in Portugal and in formal writing at the start of a sentence.

Mostly, yes. But the English 'conform' often lacks the reflexive 'yourself' aspect and is more about social behavior, while the Portuguese verb is more about the internal mental state.

The most common nouns are 'conformidade' (compliance/agreement) and 'conformação' (resignation/structure).

Yes, in a technical sense. 'A peça se conforma ao molde' means the piece takes the shape of the mold. However, 'adaptar-se' is more common for this.

Yes, it is very common in literature, news, and daily conversation across all Portuguese-speaking countries.

While the basic meaning can be understood at B1, using it correctly with all its nuances and prepositions is considered a C1 level skill.

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Write a sentence in Portuguese using 'conformar-se' in the present tense about the weather.

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Write a sentence using 'não me conformo' about a social issue.

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Translate to Portuguese: 'They conformed to the company rules.'

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Write a sentence in the future tense: 'I will accept the result.'

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Use the subjunctive: 'It is important that he complies with the law.'

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Write a short paragraph (3 sentences) about a time you had to accept a difficult situation.

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Translate: 'He resigned himself to his fate.'

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Explain the difference between 'conformar-se' and 'aceitar' in Portuguese.

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Write a formal sentence about technical compliance.

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Translate: 'Why don't you settle for less?'

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Write a sentence using 'conformar-se' in the conditional mood.

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Use the past imperfect to describe a habit: 'She used to accept everything.'

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Translate: 'We don't accept your excuses.'

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Write a sentence about a cat 'conforming' to a box.

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Translate: 'The soul must conform to nature.'

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Write a sentence using the negative imperative (você): 'Don't settle!'

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Translate: 'They conformed to the new rules yesterday.'

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Write a sentence using 'conformar-se' and the noun 'perda' (loss).

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Translate: 'I can't believe the train is late again!' (using conformar-se).

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Write a sentence using 'conformar-se' in the personal infinitive for 'nós'.

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Say 'I accept the situation' in Portuguese.

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Say 'I don't accept this!' with emotion.

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Pronounce 'conformar-se' correctly (nasal 'con').

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Say 'We must comply with the rules.'

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Ask a friend: 'Do you accept your grade?'

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Say 'He conformed to his fate.'

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Tell someone: 'Don't settle for little.'

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Say 'I conformed to the routine.' (Past tense).

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Say 'It's important to comply with the law.'

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Say 'We conformed ourselves to the changes.'

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Practice the nasal 'o' in 'conformar'.

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Say 'I wouldn't settle if I were you.'

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Say 'She never conformed.'

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Say 'They must comply with the standards.' (Formal).

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Say 'I am resigned.'

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Ask: 'Why don't you accept it?'

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Say 'I can't believe the corruption!'

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Say 'Everything is in compliance.'

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Say 'I am making an effort to accept it.'

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Say 'Accepting is necessary.'

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Listen to the word: 'Conformar'. Does it mean 'Confirm' or 'Conform'?

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If you hear 'Não me conformo!', is the speaker happy?

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Listen for the preposition: 'Eu me conformo ___ a vida.' What is the missing word?

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Identify the subject in 'Nos conformamos'.

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Is 'se conformou' past or future?

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Listen for the reflexive pronoun in: 'Eles se conformam'. What is it?

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Does 'conformidade' sound like a noun or a verb?

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In 'Conformo-me', is the speaker from Brazil or Portugal likely?

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Listen to 'Eu me conformaria'. Is this certain or hypothetical?

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If someone says 'Estou conformado', are they still fighting?

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Listen for the 'r' in 'conformar'. Is it a hard 'h' or a soft tap?

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Identify the verb: 'Ele se conforma'.

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Is the sentence 'Eu não me conformo' positive or negative?

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Does 'conformação' sound like 'resignation' in this context?

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Listen to: 'A empresa está em conformidade'. Is there a problem?

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